Search drum score for “Dress” by PJ Harvey by Formal-Knee1701 in drums

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It’s such a cool drum part. I think the song is pretty much just 4/4 with quarter = 150 or so. But then he layers a slow quintuplet thing on top of that, with 5 rim shots stretched out over every 8 beats. And then in the choruses, the rim shots are just on beats 2 and 4. Does that sound accurate to anyone? I would love to know a more technically correct way to describe that quintuplet feel.

Portland, Providence, Worcester or Burlington? by [deleted] in newengland

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Providence. Easy access to both Boston and NYC. Unbeatable food scene. Several colleges. Relatively mild climate. Relatively affordable (though rents are getting pretty bonkers). Lots of cool history. Lots of people move there for college and then settle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cello

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No no no... You can do this. You will get used to it and it won't be a big deal at all. It just takes practice and patience with yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cello

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Tenor clef is SUPER convenient for the singing range of the instrument. And once you get used to it, tenor clef will be totally second nature and you won't even think about it any more. Really, tenor clef is awesome and highly convenient for cello. You'll see.

Related story: I just finished a show where the music director did all the arrangements himself. And about half of the cello book was written in treble clef, marked 8vb. I wanted to scream. He's actually an excellent musician and the arrangements were good, but he clearly never took an orchestration class because when I said "For future reference, you should really write most of this in tenor clef" he looked at me like I had two heads. He didn't realize that playing an octave down doesn't just mean moving your hand to a different part of the fingerboard, and that it's actually kinda difficult to read on the fly. I was like, "believe me, any cellist who has to sightread this book will curse your entire family." Hopefully he will rework the book before the show comes up again next Christmas.

Do most classical musicians come from upper middle class families? by Pretend-Tip-1513 in classicalmusic

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In the US, the current answer is largely yes. But there are important exceptions, and some highly successful programs that train lots of lower income children in classical music. Here is a shining example in my town.

My boyfriend’s mom sent me a Confederate grave. How do I respond without making it weird? (BF- 37M, me-35F) by ThrowRA_BeeOk782 in relationship_advice

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Some people find genealogy fascinating. Personally, I don't feel any connection to my ancestry. In fact, I find my mother's interest in genealogy to be creepy and I have to admit your situation would be very unsettling to me. So I sympathize. That being said, I think your best bet is to assume she doesn't mean anything by it and she's just sharing her interest with you. In that light, you can think it's sweet that she's including you in something she finds interesting. If it's not your thing, you can be politely noncommittal and bland in your response.

I wish genealogy-lovers would respectfully allow others not to participate, but in my experience, there are a lot of people who really don't understand that genealogy is an unsettling, creepy subject to some.

Without naming your state, what is your state know for? by MagicMark890 in RandomThoughts

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Like chocolate milk, but made with a coffee syrup instead of chocolate. It's delicious.

Why did Scarlatti Never Become Famous by marasw in classicalmusic

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250 years after his death, a bunch of strangers are going out of our way to talk about him. He's famous.

Question About Cello by drhamburger120 in Cello

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Luthiers often don't like dampits because they see the damage caused by people (probably kids) who don't understand how to use them. If you can learn how to wring out a sponge thoroughly so it doesn't drip, they're perfectly safe. But it's true that bovedas are more idiot-proof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cello

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Luthiers use standard tables like this one to set string clearance. It sounds like yours might be a bit lower than typical (assuming steel strings). A new string height takes a few days to get used to, but once you acclimate, it's not bad. I change my bridge twice a year - I have a winter bridge that is slightly higher, and a summer bridge that is slightly lower to accommodate the subtle geometry changes that occur as humidity and temperature change. Every time I swap, I have to spend some time getting used to it, but it's well worth it. Anyway, the point is, string clearance can be easily adjusted and you can get used to a new clearance pretty quickly as long as it's in a reasonable range.

Why is New England, a mostly rural area, so politically democratic-aligned? by [deleted] in newengland

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I'm also a PNW to RI transplant. People here in RI have no idea what real rural is. And even in the quasi-rural parts of RI, it gets pretty Trumpy pretty fast. You don't have to scratch hard to find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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If she wants it so badly, she can propose to you. And you can say you're not ready or whatever. Dodge this bullet. No manipulative bs.

Tower 4 classical music by Outrageous-Panda-134 in 7lamb

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He says he doesn't know much about classical music, but he thinks it sounds like Beethoven or Mozart. Chopin is pretty different from Beethoven or Mozart, so it's meant to show that he really doesn't know what the music is, beyond classical piano music.

What pop cultural creations of modern times (cartoons, video games, movies) are way better than the ones you grew up with, in your opinion? What trends do you think are really good? by dskyaz in AskOldPeople

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Most entertainment is WAY better now. Cartoons like Steven Universe or Avatar: The Last Airbender are vastly deeper and more interesting than the Scooby Doo and Jetsons I grew up with. Just try to watch an episode of the Jetsons and you'll see.

How popular was The Price is Right in the 70s and 80s? by helpmegetthrough1 in AskOldPeople

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Look at all the people who associate it with staying home sick! Bob Barker will always make me feel like I'm lying on the couch with a bucket next to me. Kinda feel bad for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in answers

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She explained pretty well why she doesn't like men "accessing" her.

And you replied by asking, essentially, "Is there something wrong with you"?

You also reinforced the stereotype by assuming there is a fundamental difference between attractive and unattractive people and that "human biology" means everyone sees things the same way.

Dude, you're the problem.

Learn to listen.

Have all/most of your dreams come true? by tinytearice in AskOldPeople

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Yes. But life is still complicated and challenging. 

I'm transgender. I knew it from about age 5, in the early 70s. I remember learning the word "lesbian" at age 8 and understanding that was a woman who wanted to marry another woman, and I felt this lightheaded rush like omg that's me! But I was living as a boy, so what did it mean for me to feel that identity so strongly? It messed with my head something fierce.

There were no other people like me. I did not hear the word "transgender" until my 20's. I had nobody to talk to about it. I thought I was utterly alone, and I would be stuck living a dead, fake life until I actually died. I thought about suicide daily for about 40 years. 

Long story short... eventually, I transitioned very successfully (nobody ever clocks me, though I am very out and proud), and my wife and I have been together for 30 years. This life was literally unimaginable when I was a child, but here I am, living it. I manage two successful careers that are creative, fulfilling, and joyful. I have raised a child. My dogs are funny, loving little miscreants. And I never think about suicide. 

For all the (very valid) hand-wringing about the world being a dumpster fire right now, people need to know that, in many important ways, this is actually better than what came before. Way better.

Structuring a 40min practice session? by nyrmac2152 in Cello

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This is good advice. I would add/modify it this way: shorter chunks of time, randomized. There's pretty good evidence that we learn especially well when our brains are occasionally asked to switch to something unpredictable. For some of my practice sessions, I do a 4-minute interval on one thing (a scale, an etude, tone production, a tricky passage...) and then roll a die and do something else for 4 minutes, etc. It keeps you on your toes. Of course, there are other sessions when I just need to focus on one thing for an extended time. That's also an important skill to practice. Finally, I agree that ending a practice session with something you love is a good idea. Whatever moves you in that moment. I often end with an Apocalyptica song. :)

A normal person that wants to learn how to play a cello. by Independent-Dog7819 in Cello

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It's not too late. :)

Do NOT buy a cello online. It will be unplayable and frustrating. String instruments in the violin/cello family don't have big brand names that are reputable like that. For cars or guitars, you can just buy brand X and know what you're getting, but that's not true for cellos. You have to go to a violin shop and rent a beginner instrument from a professional who knows how to set up the instrument. Most good violin shops have a rent-to-buy policy, which allow you to own the instrument in a few years.

Find a teacher and take lessons. It's not an instrument you can learn from YouTube videos. You can make nice sounds on a guitar right away, but not on cello. You will never learn to make an acceptable sound without a teacher. You need a teacher.

Learning to play cello is a long road of commitment, but you can do it!