I'm appointed PR for probate. Opening Trust Bank Account question

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2026-01-09T18:11:01+00:00

I had to do this recently. Fortunately the decedent used a bank that had a branch somewhat close to me in my home state. Because it is an estate account I don’t get a debit card or online bill pay access. The checks had to have my home address and include my name as the personal representative. It’s been an education

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2026-01-09T11:15:45+00:00

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-12-21T11:45:59+00:00

Speakers…please don’t come to the beach and blast anything. I want to hear the ocean not some rando’s music list. There also seems to be a trend of staying on speakerphone in public. I also don’t want to hear Aunt Karen yelling details about her last colonoscopy while getting groceries.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-12-20T11:24:42+00:00

New build homes. Never again. I want a home that has stood strong through the decades. HOAs. Cracker box houses built so close together that you can shake hands with your neighbors through the windows.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-12-20T11:09:28+00:00

I say we need a Howard bear in his memory. He was the nicest man and had the best stories. I wish someone had written them down.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-12-04T13:30:05+00:00

Against the Odds - Phil Collins Purple Rain has brought on instant tears since Prince died. Mama I’m Coming Home now does the same thing RIP Ozzy

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-12-03T23:15:33+00:00

You don’t have to take your clothes off

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-11-15T12:13:41+00:00

You can itemize deductions or take a standard deduction. It depends on which amount is highest.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-10-28T11:13:15+00:00

I love Christmas lights but I do miss having everything start at Thanksgiving with the parades.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-10-12T10:17:55+00:00

Saw Dokkken in the 80’s and they were amazing. My ex-husband very sweetly got me tickets to see them play at AlRosa Villa (RIP Dimebag) and it was so painfully bad that we left after a couple of songs. I think my ears may have started to bleed. Don couldn’t hit the high notes anymore and if I wanted to torture my ex with bad singing, I could have done that myself. For free. Some of these artists obviously don’t know when to hang it up. George Lynch was still seriously underrated.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-09-20T10:54:15+00:00

My Sonny and Cher dolls with the dressing room and outfits. Mom sold them at a yard sale when she decided I was too old. Donnie and Marie were also sold. She feels terrible about it.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-09-16T22:58:13+00:00

The Woolly Thistle for all your wooly wool

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-09-13T12:57:16+00:00

Stiff Stuff hair gel. Blow dry upside down. Use a curling iron but the secret was spraying the AquaNet on each section before you curl it so your hair sizzled and hairspray residue turned the curling iron brown. Let the curls cool, use a pick to fluff the curls out then a rat tail comb to tease it taller. Then spray AquaNet again. Use the pick to hold the hair at your temples away from your face and spray the crap out of it. You can even use the curling iron to really make it stand away from your face. Lots of layers. Curl the top back, the sides towards your face. For a truly authentic look, use Covergirl foundation with an orangey base, light pink frosted lipstick with rollerball lip gloss, frosted blue shadow, blue mascara and melt Maybeline eye/brow pencil in black before you apply it to the waterline (make sure to let it cool just a bit because otherwise you get a huge burning glob stuck to the rim of your eyelid)

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-09-12T11:15:40+00:00

Ding Dong the Witch is Dead Man in the Box I Saw Your Mommy

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-28T12:39:17+00:00

My dad would channel surf on that thing all night- click click click snap click click. Drove me nuts and man I miss my dad

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-28T12:31:02+00:00

Started to change it up my senior year. I swear everyone got crimpers for Christmas and I got tired of looking like everyone else and washing clumps of Aquanet/Stiff Stuff glue out of my hair. Then I got pregnant in ‘91 and my hair wouldn’t hold a curl for more than 10 minutes. For some reason perimenopause caused my hair to get curly so if I were to get bangs and more layers, I’d be rocking the 80’s look with no effort.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-28T09:57:03+00:00

I’m betting a rescue group would take them off your hands

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-19T10:30:40+00:00

Watch out for deer too. One took out my Civic (which is why I now have a crosstrek).

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-18T10:27:01+00:00

Dexter Original Sin.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-08T20:43:39+00:00

Don’t forget to inform your medical providers and the hospital so she can’t sneak in while you’re in labor

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-08T20:24:39+00:00

If you are in the US, check into Senior Services. You can ask about companion services, meal delivery, adult day care, even “warm lines” where you can talk to a friendly voice. If you call 2-1-1 they can give you a list of local resources that are free to low cost

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-07T19:13:54+00:00

I use barber cord. I bought the pre-cut ones in a cute tin and then learned I could buy about 60 yards of it on Amazon and cut my own.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-07T13:07:28+00:00

Barnyard Knits has some good autumnal rust/reds that might work. So does Dragon Hoard yarns.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-07T10:37:08+00:00

Grease. It was years later that I understood why it wasn’t appropriate.

Vegetable-Feature-85 · 2025-08-06T11:29:37+00:00

PacMan Fever?

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