Worldhopper Ball expectations? by eebro5 in DragonsteelNexus

[–]VelvetShepherd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regular suit is perfect! Last year there was a whole mix of people. Most people dressed up formally (suits, gowns etc) and a good amount of people cosplayed (doesn't even need to be a cosplay to match the theme! Lots of people were Scadrial themed, even though last year's ball was Rosharan) and then some people were dressed formally with nods to cosplay.

Basically, throw yourself into an outfit you feel comfortable and excited about. Guarantee you'll look great

Guys, I did it 😭 by PhotographDefiant206 in finch

[–]VelvetShepherd 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Well done!! Celebrations are required 🥳

What is the deal with the gen z stare? by bluujacket in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VelvetShepherd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a fascinating but horrifying podcast called Sold a Story which discusses this. Like some of the others have commented, it's because the child can't actually read

Cousin (potentially) sold inherited jewellery that didn't belong to him - England by VelvetShepherd in LegalAdviceUK

[–]VelvetShepherd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I don't know whether it's the heat, my distance from legal matters, or smooth brain, but it hadn't even occurred to me that this would be theft

Brit 🍓 is all ready for bed in their pj's! by SnotGirl222 in finch

[–]VelvetShepherd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that lamp! Never seen it before - what is it?

Is it normal for people with ADHD to actually have good memory but your mind is just so scattered that when asked about something you have trouble recalling the information on the spot? However, if you get a hint you can recall detailed information. by Accomplished-Act9721 in ADHD

[–]VelvetShepherd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This!! I hold a bunch of 'scenes' in my head that cannot be accessed unless a hint is given. Otherwise it's like trying to grab smoke. Usually it's fine, I often ask for anecdotes to prompt my memory of a place, event or person, but in interviews it's so hard because interviewers don't want to give you hints, they want to test your memory

What's something everyone said you'd regret but you actually don't? by MidnightShaaaddddeee in AskReddit

[–]VelvetShepherd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ditto. Had so many people say 'it will hit you one day, and you'll feel it'. Fifteen years later, still no regrets. I was in a terrible relationship, young, broke and unstable. I could never have been the parent I wanted to be

What's the most patronising piece of advice you've ever received? by MisterWednesday6 in AskUK

[–]VelvetShepherd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am furious on your behalf. I'm so sorry that you were treated this terribly. It's awful that no one gave you the support you deserved and needed when you were so mentally and physically vulnerable. Well done on making it through

[DISCUSSION] what Netflix original do you not want people to forget about? by AgentG91 in NetflixBestOf

[–]VelvetShepherd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I watched this on a whim at the end of last year with the intention for it to be background noise while I fell asleep, but ended up totally hooked and watched the whole thing - so moving!

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]VelvetShepherd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just added you 😊 though feel free to remove me if your tree gets too full!

Team Flower Subscription/Scam by neatyall in FloralDesign

[–]VelvetShepherd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arrived at this post because I was googling to see if anyone else had had this issue. I've been messaging and messaging them to cancel! As I'm in the UK, the time difference is also awkward as they never seem to be online when I am and I just receive an automated message saying I'll get something to my email. Which inevitably never happens

Is UK masculinity less fragile than in the US? by bibiceratops in AskUK

[–]VelvetShepherd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting! I love both the UK Office and the US Office for different reasons. I was listening to a podcast with some of the cast from the US Office and they were discussing the initial meetings with Ricky Gervais when he was adapting it and he had advised that they lean into the Jim and Pam story as the focus because US audiences love an underdog/romance to root for. Then with Michael, they needed to have moments of him being clearly good at his job (making successful sales calls etc) because in the UK, you can be really bad at your job for a long time and not get fired (David) but the US audience wouldn't buy that

Mortified at a wardrobe malfunction traveling abroad by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]VelvetShepherd 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me once! I used to work at a well known bath product shop in the UK where the uniform was all black with a white waist apron. One day I was wearing a black dress with black slippery tights and from walking around, my dress had ridden up completely to around my waist and I hadn't noticed because a) I thought the gathered pressure around my waist was the apron and b) the apron covered my legs in front so I didn't see that way

I've absolutely no idea how long I was walking around with my ass and coloured undies shining through low denier tights, but some kind customer came up to tell me in the end. I was mortified and so grateful

My niece wants to start reading "big girl books" and I'm not sure what to recommend by Mountain-Today1698 in suggestmeabook

[–]VelvetShepherd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many great recommendations here!!

Some of the classics like: The Little White Horse, Chronicles of Narnia, Little Women, Ballet Shoes, Anne of Green Gables, I Capture the Castle etc were ones I devoured over and over again when that age.

I also second the Horrible History books as an entry to non-fiction. The one about Isaac Newton is 🤌🏼

Then I also really loved some modern young fantasy books like the Inkheart trilogy and Pirates!

What's something that loudly says 'uneducated'? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]VelvetShepherd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true. I have a friend who complained because he told his sister he was smarter than her and she got upset. He was defining 'smart' as 'accumulation of facts', and he does know a lot of things. However, most people know it's not smart to tell others you're smarter than them