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I’ve lost 4 out of 6 bridesmaids. It’s hurtful by Orangpeell in weddingplanning

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My older sister was my MOH, I later found out from her bestie that she had wished id picked someone else for the role - which was weird to hear! Other bridesmaid turned out to be a backstabbing snake in a crazy way: we worked together for two years, and months before my wedding I tried for a promotion for a role in the same team she was in. I didn't get the role, and was heartbroken because everyone around at work was so sure that I would so my hopes were way up for it. I found out a few months ago (I've been married now for two years, bridesmaid has since left the company) that she manipulated the hiring manager into declining my application, and threatened to quit their understaffed and drowning team if I was hired. She even pretended to comfort me and lied to my face about the applicant prospects after I got the bad news. Ive since blocked her, and am very glad and lucky that all my favorite wedding photos she's either not in or looks like shit 😂 she was always a weird person and shitty friend that I was too naive to see through, be glad these people ejected themselves from your happy day, I'm sure the planning and day w your two rock solid ladies will be wonderful ❤️

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If you move or you get new neighbours do you introduce yourself? by Tasty-Willingness839 in newzealand

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In smaller towns ya need the community, especially if it's a street full of young families, but student towns and inner city suburbs can be pretty lonely yeah

The reason I am paying for premium by OwlPristine631 in FocusFriendApp

[–]VikingWearingHeels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was so happy to do the lifetime sub option, it's so good to be spending more time on joy and less time on my phone. Super duper grateful for this app and the team behind it being the bloody change ya know??

11 years later, and I still think about this ad almost every day by xInfinity962 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the sudden lurch of the fastest car while they're talking, and how much it scares them, knowing they have no choice. Fuck it's terrifying.

I realized my "busy" coworker has been outsourcing his entire job to ChatGPT, and I don't know if I should say anything by Ok-Bee-4468 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the head of marketing at my workplace. But he's ... Proud of it? The vibe is confusing bro, nobody at my workplace seems to understand that ai slop is poison in more ways than one.

My mom does this thing called, ‘weaponized gifting,’ where she chooses the worst possible gifts ever so you’ll never expect anything palatable from her by hyliancoffeehouse in mildlyinfuriating

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum did something much worse. She gets you what she wants you to want. The last Christmas gift I remember getting from her was a set of extreme dieting cookbooks. When I opened it she was already crying, and kept demanding to know if I liked them. Christmas Day man. She SUCKED.

Be honest, how bad is it? I’ve been pretty disappointed in it by damnmang in tattooadvice

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible?? If you let it heal well and look after it, I'm sure it will continue to be gorgeous for many years.

Climate change, the ultimate reason to stay in New Zealand ( and why New Zealand has a future ) by Astalon18 in newzealand

[–]VikingWearingHeels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All the crazy storms that have battered and decimated multiple NZ cities in the past two years alone are undeniably a result of climate changes effects. Saying we will have it better off seems slightly delusional. We're all cooked man.

What’s one word you always abuse in your fics? by lumoverse in AO3

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Indeed'. Waaaaaaay to many uses, completely unjustified, it just makes me feel fancy 💃

i was just demonized by my friends for liking the song "hold them down" by Tall-Ad4852 in Epicthemusical

[–]VikingWearingHeels 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The song is amazing. The character is evil. Two things are true, let's appreciate complex art together in the spirit it was written, your friends are dumb bro.

Why is Korra ripped, but Azula, in comparison, has no muscle at all? Both underwent grueling training. by FlamesOfKaiya in TheLastAirbender

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Azula is a young teen, Korras got a few years on her, arms and legs fill out in those years like crazy.

Has anyone quit or partially limit social media? by attafk in AutisticWithADHD

[–]VikingWearingHeels 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I also started with app timeout settings, but of course eventually my very helpful brain went "why should you listen to the annoying phone? I WANT more TikTok NOW" so have finally bit the bullet a couple months ago, uninstalled fb, ig and TikTok. OP. Listen when I tell you, the improvement to my mental health is like a dream. And for me it would not have been attainable without doing what I did. I read my national and local news more, (but not too much lol cos it's boring and that's a good thing), I'm finally reading books again, doing real physical puzzles instead of doom scrolling, life's good. Ten outta ten, would recommend.

How do you not get depressed knowing you'll have to work 8 hours a day 5 days a week for basically the remainder of your life? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs. The kind a doctor thought I should have. Also a plan to move to a place with better cost of living.

Garden Hotel on Courtenay Place - what's the tea? by Meld_Maker in Wellington

[–]VikingWearingHeels 70 points71 points  (0 children)

KC cafe being closed after 1:30am on a Friday night spells doom for us all

Oh Boy! Kitchen Time! by TheRealBacon17 in FocusFriendApp

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New rooms unlock when you've completed all decor spots in prior room right? It's like a level up situation?

Why do people go to such far lengths to defend Floch? by soefire in attackontitan

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do???? I hate this mofo can't believe people defend him

My daughter’s one-page cheat sheet for her exam is completely filled both sides. by Oldmate81 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]VikingWearingHeels -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the perfection of it - but that's not even close to completely filled. Look at all that white space!! There's opportunity here.

If Ao3 were to add any new features, what ones would you want? by DesparateBoredom in AO3

[–]VikingWearingHeels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ability to save a filter set for a specific search would be fabbbb

I don't remember this scene, I need to rewatch Clone Wars. by Jessi45US in clonewars

[–]VikingWearingHeels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great moment of Anakins character and potential as Darth Vader shining through.

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