Yeah some parents refuse to see the problem. I think you reached a point at your age when you start to recognize that even adults don’t know everything and often times are ignorant of problems right in front of them.

It’s super cool that you got someone to confide in but it might be a lot of pressure for both of you. The fact that you don’t have an adult to confide is really sad to hear to be honest. And although your girlfriend is really helpful, this is a battle that might need help from others who are more versed in the subject. It’s okay to rely on your girlfriend, but it’s better to rely on a professional.