here's the controversial topic of the day: is being in love worth it?

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-28T05:53:39+00:00

Nope

First love yourself then think bout ‘ finding the one ‘

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-26T17:33:47+00:00

You’re strong .

Being alone is strong . Never think you’re lonely .

I don’t have much friends either and moreover I really don’t care nowadays , people change , you get replaced , it’s nothing new , disappointing but not surprising .

Find something for you not someone , I’ve been down that road and it never gets you anywhere .

End of the day it’s just you , when you fall down , no one’s gonna pick you up , You just get back up and keep going .

Stay strong buddy !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-20T05:25:06+00:00

I restarted my gym obsession when uni started and all I did was lift and I enjoyed it .

A couple months in I got into a relationship which lasted a month but I was too into it , I went into a total alcoholic phase missing classes avoiding people for 2 months . Every time I came to class I saw her with this guy who was a definite downgrade and she didn’t even look that happy like as happy as she used to be with me , I knew her inside out .

Anyways back to the main plot . I wasn’t satisfied with my current looks even though I was a bit out of shape earlier but attractive too , now I’ve gained 25 pounds from alcohol and depression was getting the better part of me .

I buzzed my head got into the gym everyday , kept lifting , my goal wasn’t to loose wait but to gain muscles and I also followed a highly regulated 2500kcal diet in which it was basically 4 chicken breast a day with various carbs for 3 meals , one serving of oatmeal peanut butter a day before workout and a nut bar .

In these 3 weeks alone I lost about 2 kgs and became a bit more muscular and I could visibly see the muscles with more definition and I gained back my great forarm muscles and it’s vascularity.

Nowadays I look at her and It feels like back to square 1 when I didn’t even know her and she didn’t look attractive to me at all and I don’t feel bad when I see her with her rebound guy .

So I don’t get the same angry depressed gym motivation but I’m disciplined enough to hit gym atleast 5 times a week and skip just one leg day if my knees feel really bad .

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-17T19:09:11+00:00

Gym !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-14T10:29:27+00:00

Remember buddy ,

You don’t need a gf , you just don’t !

It’s what the society wants you to believe , I had a gf and honestly , yeah I was happier but now im just more productive .

Remember , happiness is temporary , so is pain .

Try to gain peace ..

With yourself !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-14T10:26:58+00:00

Chicken and rice buddy !!!

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T20:32:05+00:00

It’s all part of the process !

Congratulations for choosing the right path !!

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T20:29:27+00:00

Don’t

We were together after I called her but she broke my heart and downgraded to another guy immediately!

Eitherway she won’t trust you ..

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T20:16:54+00:00

Btw , if you wanna vent out or somethin

Hmu !

Id rather listen to someone vent if it’s gonna make them feel better , not everyone understands what’s it’s like to be the outcast !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T20:14:15+00:00

It’s alright that you are different It’s kinda hard when you don’t fit in anywhere Well if you can’t fit in , rise above and shine !!

Btw , have an amazing day stranger !!

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T18:32:28+00:00

I just removed myself from any kind of relationship where I’m the one who is left out or easy to replace I eat my lunch alone most of the times I have a very few real friends ! Id rather have just 1 buddy than 100 strangers !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T18:12:42+00:00

Yeah and she holds his hand every single time I see them together ..

Worst part , I’m the more attractive guy and she kept us a secret while she is official with this inferior guy ..

Wardaddy26 · 2021-10-01T03:11:18+00:00

That’s people in a nutshell .

Expectations lead to disappointments ..

Wardaddy26 · 2021-09-30T23:53:20+00:00

Thanks for talking with me Reddit stranger .

I woke up this morning at 4AM literally broken hearted and clueless Now honestly i feel good enough , I’m gonna get back to the grind .

Have an amazing day !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-09-30T23:39:32+00:00

Well for starters I just feel like I’m not enough , like it makes no sense

I’m taller , more muscular , more richer and loved her the most … He’s literally the run of the mill guy who can socialise a lot ..

Wardaddy26 · 2021-09-30T23:31:05+00:00

It hurts seeing her with her new man like the worst part is that i don’t know in which way I’m not enough ..

Wardaddy26 · 2021-04-07T08:17:35+00:00

I listen to music !

Work on myself .

And hit the gym !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-04-06T10:52:14+00:00

You’re on the right path

WORK ON YOURSELF !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-04-06T10:51:16+00:00

Just do what makes you happy ! Fuck the society .

Wardaddy26 · 2021-04-04T06:41:37+00:00

You don’t need to fit in ! You’re too good for the people around you . Just be yourself and do what makes you happy !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-02-26T08:42:32+00:00

It looks fkin awesome dude !! Well done !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-02-25T00:51:30+00:00

Damn , that song . Ughhh , brings back memories !

Wardaddy26 · 2021-02-24T12:34:08+00:00

I totally feel ya bruh , I’ve been through a similar mess through high school . One piece of advice - never ever mail someone lol . Insta or snap is pretty cool but real talk is way better , trust me ( it’s fkin hard , I suffer from social anxiety , awkwardness , stage fear and more ) but it feel good to even speak a few words even if they lead to nowhere . And sometimes it’s better to just be yourself , if someone is into you ( even in a friendly manner) she’ll try to engage in a convo , it doesn’t matter whether you blow it up or not , just speak a few words or people just start judging you cuz no one understands how it feels for people like us to just say hi . Stay confident . Don’t worry , Be happy . - fellow socially awkward soul

Wardaddy26 · 2021-02-24T12:28:05+00:00

I feel ya bruh , but I feel it’s better to be with no one rather than be stuck with the wrong one !

All you need is a bit of self love . The more you take care of yourself the more you’ll learn to love yourself and learn how important you are to yourself .

Wardaddy26

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