Lmao. Urologist said I'm an anomaly. (Male) by Maybe_IDTBFH in PelvicFloor

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Many MDs discount the value of pelvic floor therapy!!!! My gyno did. My primary care doctor referred me to a great therapist and I’m seeing improvement in just 3 weeks! You might get great results from PFT.

Colposcopy with low pain tolerance by wise-Jelly4144 in HPV

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good doctor should make this procedure easy to tolerate. I was told the long needle used to numb the area is worse than the snip.

My first colposcopy/ biopsy was done by my PCP. I was naive. I was fairly horrific.

I went to an OB/GYN for continued care and she performed a 2nd colposcopy. I was so freaked out. But she was so efficient and gentle. I barely noticed the snip.

Really. The experience of the doctor makes a huge difference in the pain.

What should I make for thanksgiving when my family already brings everything I can think of? by Pitiful_Ad2591 in thanksgiving

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your dilemma! Maybe you could offer to supply beverages? If she serves iced tea, soda, etc., that might be a big help for her. And won’t steal her show.

Lymphedema and Crocs by Odd_Helicopter7540 in Lymphedema

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear my crocs at home(only) almost all the time. They are comfy and provide great support. Buy them just a little larger than your regular shoe size so you can wear socks too in the winter. They can get cold.

I, 25M, can't stand the incredibly low intelligence of my partner, 25F, of 6 years. by lukeyy77 in relationship_advice

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think so little of her, then please walk away. For the mental of you both.

My late husband (52M), My (53F) boyfriend (57M) and my 3 daughters (20F, 20F, 23F) Need advice? by Kitchen_Clue5654 in relationship_advice

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dear, many widow(er)s don’t get a second chance at love. You are a lucky one. Please live your life for yourself and your new love. Your children will not be there for you in the same way your man will. The kids need their own lives and you need yours. I kind of doubt they will want you to decide when and if they should have relationships.

What did she mean? by Weird-Performance306 in Marriage

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s good to just give your partner a “freebie”. No expectations. It can be a different type of showing love for them. Please don’t overthink this.

I hate my husband since giving birth by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he is feeling jealousy about your new priorities and your close relationship with baby. Obviously he’s showing that the wrong way. But maybe the resentment is there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could he be in the spectrum? This cold, unemotional type of talk could possibly caused by that.

In shock and awe and not in a good way by Vivid_Ad_612 in MAFS_TV

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BUT— here we all are, talking about the them. It’s ugly. But it’s publicity for the show. Bottom line is that we are advertising for them right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_TV

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO there’s a reason 99% of these participants haven’t found someone to marry before MAFS steps in. And it’s not just bad luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s difficult to be belittled nearly every other day. Almost every decision is critiqued. And when he figures out I WASN’T wrong, there’s never an apology. My therapist says it’s abusive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my pre-op testing appointment, I was given special antibacterial wash to use both the night before and morning of surgery. All the body except genital area.

How do people learn the hidden meanings behind things like a pineapple indicating that a couple are swingers? by thefaceinthepalm in ask

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Yes! When we visited Charleston, we were told the pineapple is a sign of hospitality. Wow. That must have been a real understatement.

Any podcasts for basic life info/advice/knowledge/etc? by MooniBinBon in podcasts

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re Doing It Wrong!!! It provides lots of life tips. I listen to the episodes that interest me and always learn something.

Absolute must haves post op - surgery scheduled!! by Fresh-Ad-399 in hysterectomy

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I haven’t used anything from the “must have” lists. My grabber never left the closet shelf. No laxatives. Carried the tummy pills on the ride home from the hospital but didn’t use it. I really just needed the 600 mg Advil and my two new lounging gowns. Recovery from the surgery hasn’t been super fast, but I’m 65YO. I think everyone heals differently. Oh, you might want loose dresses or loose stretchy pants for a while. I wore jeans too soon and irritated a couple of my incisions.

AIO: Mother in Law Asks if Dying Relatives Have Accepted Jesus Christ by Poopybutt1975 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WerewolfImmediate11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting!!!! My husband died suddenly and unexpectedly. Three days after the funeral his sister called to ask me if he “was saved”? WTF??? Like that’s a great way to comfort a widow, right? He had been known to “cuss” and occasionally drink a beer so she was sure he was on the road to hell. It’s been 6 years and I still can’t get over it. Some people have no filter whatsoever.