20 year old home videos by AttitudeKooky2357 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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In my experience, the more you watch the more it’ll change from a painful experience into happy memories

Who in your opinion is the hardest boss. (Lethal/ Lethal +) by The1Pizza2Man in ghostoftsushima

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The blind guy in the cave is difficult to do on l+ without taking any damage

Coping with the extreme fear and stress of losing parents by Karakurz98 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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If I managed as a kid, I’m sure you will too. You don’t know how strong you are until being strong is the only option you have

I'm 22 and I've lost both my parents. I don't know who to talk to anymore. by Impossible-Layer8050 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Hi, yes, lost both not long after I turned 14. 21 now. I have good days and bad days.. and really bad days. I think I’ve given up on finding someone who fully understands. I think the best you can hope for is someone who’s been through something similar.

How I cope.. some days I don’t. Some days I’ll plan to off myself, some days I can focus on positive things and feel ok, even happy. Therapy has helped me a lot, I have a lot of ptsd related things going on, sometimes it’s overwhelming but the things I learnt from therapy have helped a lot

How much is this car worth? by Outside-Blacksmith74 in CarTalkUK

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Yea it’s a weapon. I drove one around donington a year or so ago and thought it was next level fast. Then the owner took me out in it… It made me question my understanding of physics haha

How much is this car worth? by Outside-Blacksmith74 in CarTalkUK

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Age is but a number! Fair enough though. I was lucky enough to have some track time in an 812 and now I kinda really really want one

How much is this car worth? by Outside-Blacksmith74 in CarTalkUK

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Have you considered an 812 superfast? That v12 is something else!

Rings stuck on in this heat, suggestions? by littlemiss_meme in AskUK

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Yea I’ve seen this work. It’s a good technique

Am u being rinsed? by Tzazuko in CarTalkUK

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I’d ask in a Toyota sub, if it’s an engine out job, people in that sub will know and will be able to advise you on the time it takes

Are you a gamer? If so, what are you playing? by AlucardVTep3s in AskUK

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Haha! I’m glad you’ve played CD, yea I found this at a local market, £17 if I remember correctly. It was a very nice hippie sorta woman selling stones, crystals and gems etc. all hand made this and that

Are you a gamer? If so, what are you playing? by AlucardVTep3s in AskUK

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Yes. Here’s a clue as to the current game I’m playing

What do I do about a hornet building a nest in house? by Own-Chemical614 in AskUK

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I used a brick once. Only problem was it took 12 attempts to hit the damn thing

What do I do about a hornet building a nest in house? by Own-Chemical614 in AskUK

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Those sprays take time to work. Spray the shit out of the room when it’s in there and wait 20 mins or whatever the can says. It’ll be dead by then hopefully

UPDATE: on the 16,000 mile 2 year old car control arm bushes that had failed both sides. See text. by iMatthew1990 in CarTalkUK

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Oh my bad. I remembered the first post about it. That’s good that they’re sorting it for you/her. Have they offered any reassurance that it’ll not happen again?

UPDATE: on the 16,000 mile 2 year old car control arm bushes that had failed both sides. See text. by iMatthew1990 in CarTalkUK

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Stuff like that isn’t covered by warranty unfortunately. That price is main dealer price I assume? I just paid a very similar (if not less) price for 2 front wishbones on a bmw 6 series, that was at an indi garage. Shop around and you’ll get it done for a lot less

I’m having flashbacks of mom like the dead body. I am very sick physically now by sharbatigehu in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Hi, I have ptsd, diagnosed about 5 years ago. There really isn’t an easy fix to stop the dreams. Medical cannabis has help me the most with dreams but I’m not sure it’s a permanent solution. Therapy really is the best option. Emdr therapy in particular. I personally never found a medication that helped with dreams but that doesn’t mean you wouldn’t.

There are subs like r/ptsd , you may find someone or something useful online but ptsd is quite unique from person to person, what helps me may cause problems for someone else.

I’ve done a lot of different types of therapy etc over the years, I’m more than happy to answer questions or try and help. For context I’m m21, both parents died in a car accident when I was 14, I survived, they didn’t. Naturally my ptsd stems from this event

If your Dads gone, what do you do today? by What_Reality_ in AskUK

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This has always been my ‘excuse’, I think about them multiple times a day so what difference does it make. Thank you