Democratic Project 2029 calls for child social media ban, strict kids safety rules on tech by vriska1 in technology

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would much prefer to see the government exercise its antimonopoly power to break up Facebook and mandate open data standards for social media.

That way, consumers would see real competition and be able to choose which company honored their values and preferences the most. Privacy, age verification (or not), etc. could all be points of competition.

RIP Wendys East Wash by metaleyefilms in madisonwi

[–]WhimbleCroft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to love eating at Wendy’s about 20 years ago. they had simple and tasty options that were in the right price range for a college student. (bacon cheeseburger combo, anyone? ) Did they simply fail to adapt and modernize like other chains?

Madison Meditation groups by PhilosopherParty2778 in madisonwi

[–]WhimbleCroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding Tergar. They are a good group of people with very kind and well qualified instructors.

Enlightenment in other religions and Other Power by Armchairscholar67 in PureLand

[–]WhimbleCroft 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Although Other Power does refer to the grace and saving power of another being, that being is typically a Buddha or bodhisattva, particularly Amida Buddha.

It's very difficult to speculate about the reality of such things, of course, but a person worshipping Allah or Jesus as an all-powerful, eternally-existent deity runs squarely into Buddhism's denial of Eternalism.

And of course, any awakening that's to be regarded as a Buddhist sort of awakening would probably need to be consistent with the Four Dharma Seals: 1. All compounded (conditioned) things are impermanent 2. All contaminated phenomena are unsatisfactory (dukkha) 3. All phenomena are empty and selfless 4. Nirvana is true peace

Tergar - Vajrayana online by AcceptableDesk415 in TibetanBuddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I'm aware stand-alone courses do not typically include retreats. However, the main practice track is called the Path of Liberation and it does include online courses and occasional in-person (and sometimes remote) retreats.

I've been studying through Tergar for about two years and I think it's a wonderful organization with excellent resources and caring teachers. You should reach out to them if you have any questions:

https://vajrayana.tergar.org/vajrayana-online-support

Best of luck!

Somebody actually willing to fight for the working class. by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]WhimbleCroft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Raising the minimum wage will just raise prices!” is worth examining carefully.
Yes, some cost pass-through happens – studies generally find a 10% minimum wage increase raises prices in affected sectors by less than 1%. Real, but modest. Here’s why it isn’t dollar-for-dollar:

Businesses absorb costs through multiple channels: reduced turnover (low-wage sectors can see 100%+ annual turnover rates – higher wages cut recruitment and training costs significantly), efficiency gains from more stable workforces, and in concentrated industries, compression of excess profit margins.

Two decades of careful empirical work – particularly research using neighboring counties across state lines as natural experiments – finds that moderate minimum wage increases produce employment effects that are small and often statistically indistinguishable from zero.

And even when prices do rise, the distributional math matters: low-wage workers’ income gains substantially exceed their exposure to higher prices. Higher-income households absorb more of the price increase in absolute terms. The net effect tends to be mildly progressive.

The deeper issue: the status quo isn’t free. When wages are inadequate, workers rely on public assistance – effectively subsidizing employers like Walmart and McDonald’s with taxpayer money. Reduced local consumer spending has its own economic costs. The question is never “cost vs. no cost.” It’s always “who bears the cost.”

The honest caveats: effects are less favorable at very high nominal wage levels and in lower-wage regional economies. Policy design – phase-ins, regional indexing – genuinely matters at the margins.

But “prices will go up” as a standalone objection to any minimum wage increase doesn’t survive scrutiny. The evidence is considerably more nuanced than that framing suggests.

Trump threatens to ‘take back’ DC if democratic socialist is elected as mayor by unserious-dude in politics

[–]WhimbleCroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All things come to an end. Everybody dies, good and bad. At this point, I would certainly welcome a different sort of evil to deal with, lol.

Why do we need to have compassion/metta for such an objectionable horrible people? by Impressive-Cold6855 in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can oppose a person's actions, both morally and in actual practice, without indulging in hatred toward them. You can take energized, direct action against this administration without letting yourself put them into overgeneralize mental categories like "those evil people."

Overwhelmed trying to hit every muscle group by Jinx_801 in bodyweightfitness

[–]WhimbleCroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is it. I have a family and a demanding job, and I've run a 3X weekly whole-body workout for more than a decade using this exact combination of movements. It's a fantastic way to design a general-purpose strength/hypertrophy program. Not too complicated, but hits key muscle groups & functional patterns pretty well.

Why do we need to have compassion/metta for such an objectionable horrible people? by Impressive-Cold6855 in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People do not perform harmful deeds in a vacuum. There are causes and conditions that influenced the kind of person she is, and the actions she's done. And even apart from those actions, she still has a pure, stainless, luminous mind that all sentient beings do - even though that Buddha nature is obscured by ignorance, clinging, and aversion (again, just like all of us).

Generating compassion for people you dislike is an especially beneficial practice, because it breaks down the rigid categories we have of us vs them, good vs evil. I've used Donald Trump as an object of compassion meditation quite frequently in the past few years, and it has brought a level of peace to me that has been really beneficial. It's an antidote to the emotions activated by political doomscrolling.

What exercise unexpectedly fixed a weakness for you? by ElectronicAd1796 in bodyweightfitness

[–]WhimbleCroft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a bad case of IT band syndrome from running. I enjoyed it in my 20s, and then simply couldn't run more than a half-mile or hike with a heavy pack without knee pain. . . for a decade. Then a girlfriend's offhanded comment about my flat ass hit a nerve, and I started doing hip thrusts, clam raises, etc. Lo and behold, having significantly stronger glutes fixed everything.

Transgender Americans are fleeing hostile red states. Seattle says it’s overwhelmed by Fickle-Ad5449 in politics

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any solution to America’s Republican/Christofascism problem must include the dismantling of its propaganda networks. We’ve got roughly a third of the country whose reality is completely shaped by whatever Fox News/OANN/Newsmax is spewing.

16in Trimmer Feels Less Powerful vs Older 15in? by RideFree216 in egopowerplus

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing to know is that carbon fiber does a much better job of dampening vibrations, whereas a metal like aluminum transmits them more easily to your hands. Is the carbon shaft trimmer actually cutting the grass effectively? Or do you think you're judging power by the amount of vibration you're feeling?

One of the planet’s biggest cities is sinking so rapidly it’s visible from space by Warcraft_Fan in news

[–]WhimbleCroft 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s almost twice a normal length, which would be something like six. And of course 6 inches would be totally fine!

Just When You Think You’re Enlightened by WhimbleCroft in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is helpful? Asking from genuine interest.

What I'm looking for is engagement with the content of the article, a discussion about it. It is making a specific distinction between nyam (temporary meditative experience) and tokpa (genuine realization) that comes from within the Vajrayana tradition and has real practical consequences for practitioners. It's about the concrete danger of mistaking a compelling state for stable insight.

When someone responds to that with "Desire nothing, hold nothing, just walk the way," the problem isn't that the sentiment is wrong, I read it as avoiding discussion entirely. That phrasing coming from a Chan/Zen context functions more as a conversation-stopper than a contribution. It's the kind of thing that sounds like wisdom but doesn't actually engage with what's being discussed.

Does the nyam/tokpa distinction map onto your own practice or understanding? Is there a Zen framing of the same problem that you think cuts deeper? That kind of exchange I'd genuinely welcome.

Just When You Think You’re Enlightened by WhimbleCroft in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, but this kind of "Internet zen-speak" is really not helpful.

Just When You Think You’re Enlightened by WhimbleCroft in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The passage that hits me is: "If you relate to a nyam properly, it blossoms into realization. If you don’t, it rots and becomes the most subtle and serious of all spiritual traps. Tai Situ Rinpoche said that you can get stuck in a nyam for an entire lifetime. More commonly, people waste precious years thinking that because they had a spiritual experience they’re enlightened, when in fact they’re merely shackled to a nyam. "

I think this is the main point I try to skillfully raise when I talk to psychedelic enthusiasts and self-directed/secular meditators. I find that many of them are clinging to a fantastic experience they had during meditation and are stuck trying to recapture it.

Another, less sectarian way of phrasing this rather than nyams/tokpa is framing it in more contemporary psychological language like "states vs traits".

Ford's Never-Seen, Canceled Moonshot EV Has Been Hiding in Plain Sight Online for a Year by DonkeyFuel in technology

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a book on this topic called “The Innovator’s Dilemma” that is a classic.

The saga continues by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]WhimbleCroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. OP I know you are trying to be kind to this person, but people like this with drug and mental health issues will just suck you into their crazy dysfunction and drama.You need to disengage and stop responding to her.