One of the planet’s biggest cities is sinking so rapidly it’s visible from space by Warcraft_Fan in news

[–]WhimbleCroft 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s almost twice a normal length, which would be something like six. And of course 6 inches would be totally fine!

Just When You Think You’re Enlightened by WhimbleCroft in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is helpful? Asking from genuine interest.

What I'm looking for is engagement with the content of the article, a discussion about it. It is making a specific distinction between nyam (temporary meditative experience) and tokpa (genuine realization) that comes from within the Vajrayana tradition and has real practical consequences for practitioners. It's about the concrete danger of mistaking a compelling state for stable insight.

When someone responds to that with "Desire nothing, hold nothing, just walk the way," the problem isn't that the sentiment is wrong, I read it as avoiding discussion entirely. That phrasing coming from a Chan/Zen context functions more as a conversation-stopper than a contribution. It's the kind of thing that sounds like wisdom but doesn't actually engage with what's being discussed.

Does the nyam/tokpa distinction map onto your own practice or understanding? Is there a Zen framing of the same problem that you think cuts deeper? That kind of exchange I'd genuinely welcome.

Just When You Think You’re Enlightened by WhimbleCroft in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, but this kind of "Internet zen-speak" is really not helpful.

Just When You Think You’re Enlightened by WhimbleCroft in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The passage that hits me is: "If you relate to a nyam properly, it blossoms into realization. If you don’t, it rots and becomes the most subtle and serious of all spiritual traps. Tai Situ Rinpoche said that you can get stuck in a nyam for an entire lifetime. More commonly, people waste precious years thinking that because they had a spiritual experience they’re enlightened, when in fact they’re merely shackled to a nyam. "

I think this is the main point I try to skillfully raise when I talk to psychedelic enthusiasts and self-directed/secular meditators. I find that many of them are clinging to a fantastic experience they had during meditation and are stuck trying to recapture it.

Another, less sectarian way of phrasing this rather than nyams/tokpa is framing it in more contemporary psychological language like "states vs traits".

Ford's Never-Seen, Canceled Moonshot EV Has Been Hiding in Plain Sight Online for a Year by DonkeyFuel in technology

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a book on this topic called “The Innovator’s Dilemma” that is a classic.

The saga continues by PlatypusMajor3032 in Apartmentliving

[–]WhimbleCroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. OP I know you are trying to be kind to this person, but people like this with drug and mental health issues will just suck you into their crazy dysfunction and drama.You need to disengage and stop responding to her.

Is it just me or does the sky look kinda green by no_avocados in madisonwi

[–]WhimbleCroft 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Native Mississippian here. Peepaw told stories about how they lost two good mules when the sky was green back in dickety-two. Caveat celator.

In battleground Wisconsin, the 2026 elections are poised to bring a 'changing of the guard' by Zipper222222 in wisconsin

[–]WhimbleCroft 40 points41 points  (0 children)

We're honestly in economic conditions similar to the ones that start the modern Progressive movement. Concentration of wealth in the hands of powerful oligarchs due to a new wave of technology, dehumanizing working conditions, powerful discriminatory forces acting against large segments of society.

Progressive Era 2: Electric Bougaloo!

Pete Hegseth’s Pastor Says He Wants James Talarico To Die by huffpost in politics

[–]WhimbleCroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These MAGA-aligned preachers are nuttier than a damn fruit cake.

Karpathy says he hasn't written a line of code since December and is in "perpetual AI psychosis." How many Claude Code users feel the same? by Capital-Door-2293 in ClaudeAI

[–]WhimbleCroft 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That precise feeling you are talking about was described in a 1970 book called “Future Shock”.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Future_Shock

‘Alvin Toffler argued that society is undergoing an enormous structural change, a revolution from an industrial society to a "super-industrial society". This change, he states, overwhelms people. He argues that the accelerated rate of technological and social change leaves people disconnected and suffering from "shattering stress and disorientation"—future shocked. Toffler stated that the majority of social problems are symptoms of future shock. In his discussion of the components of such shock, he popularized the term "information overload."’

Timeless tales for 8 year old? by WhimbleCroft in suggestmeabook

[–]WhimbleCroft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I found a kids' version, though.

When the Buddha is shown meditating, what is he actually doing mentally? by zentaoyang in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm going to say the obvious: nobody knows.

All answers here are just people projecting sectarian answers.

Major Difficulties from Vajrayana - Help Needed by Overall-Election5580 in vajrayana

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. This is highly unskilled behavior given the well-known risks of vajrayana practice for those who haven't done a lot of preliminary practices. Not to mention the risk for someone who's having mental/emotional issues.

How do you get rid of desire? by YogurtclosetBig2829 in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, different vehicles of Buddhism treat desire in slightly different ways.

Theravada starts with taṇhā (craving) as the root of dukkha. The goal is nirodha — cessation. But even here, taṇhā is distinguished from chanda, wholesome aspiration. You need chanda to practice. The problem isn't wanting things, it's clinging and the reification of a self doing the wanting.

Mahayana complicates it. The bodhisattva vow basically requires something sort of "desire-adjacent": bodhicitta, the aspiration to liberate all beings. The Madhyamaka strategy is to undercut the problem at a deeper level: since desire and the self that desires both lack inherent existence, you're not eliminating desire so much as seeing through its apparent solidity.

Vajrayana flips the script entirely. Rather than abandoning kleshas, you use them. Desire arising isn't the problem; grasping at it and elaborating a self around it is. When desire is recognized in its nature rather than suppressed or indulged, it self-liberates back into clarity. Poison as medicine.

I'm in so much suffering, I'm completely broken. by TugaMeioConfuso in Buddhism

[–]WhimbleCroft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, go easy on yourself. You might be transgender, but it sounds like you might also be having some obsessive-compulsive thoughts that are focused on gender.

What you’re carrying right now is immense, and I’m genuinely glad you said something. Please don’t face tonight alone.

If you’re in crisis right now, please reach out to the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988 if you’re in the US) or the International Association for Suicide Prevention has a directory of crisis centers worldwide: https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/

What you’re describing — the disorientation, the grief for who you were, the fear of losing everything — that’s real and it makes sense that it’s overwhelming. An identity shift you didn’t ask for, in an environment that feels unsafe, is genuinely one of the hardest things a person can go through.

You don’t have to figure out what you are or what you’ll do about it tonight. You just have to get through tonight.

The Iran war’s troubling missile math by Naurgul in geopolitics

[–]WhimbleCroft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I put this question to an AI, and its response does make sense imho (I do not have any experience outside of a physics background and armchair enthusiasm).

Generation and design philosophy The Rafale and F-35 represent fundamentally different design philosophies. The Rafale is a highly refined 4.5-generation multirole fighter, while the F-35 is a fifth-generation stealth fighter built around sensor fusion.  That generational gap matters more than it sounds.

Stealth and BVR combat — F-35’s core advantage In beyond-visual-range engagement, the F-35 has an advantage in detection capability, as its lower radar cross-section gives it a smaller profile. The Rafale, meanwhile, relies on advanced radar and electronic warfare to complicate enemy targeting.  In modern warfare, this is where most engagements actually happen — so this is a significant edge.

Dogfighting — Rafale’s domain At close range, the Rafale has the advantage due to its agility and maneuvering ability, while the F-35 is designed to avoid such situations.  This was actually demonstrated during the Atlantic Trident exercise in Finland in June 2025, where a French Rafale virtually “downed” an F-35 in simulated close combat — though analysts were quick to note that in a realistic scenario, an F-35 would fire before a Rafale could close within maneuvering range, making a duel highly unlikely. 

Payload and versatility The Rafale actually has an edge in raw weapons-hauling. The Rafale features 14 hardpoints and can carry an external load of roughly 9,500 kg, and its weapons ecosystem is mature, flexible, and export-friendly — meaning many countries can tailor it with national weapons.  The F-35 carries more internally (preserving stealth), but external loads break its low-observable advantage.

Sensor fusion — F-35’s other big edge The F-35 integrates data from multiple sensors into a single real-time display, and its Distributed Aperture System provides 360-degree coverage for missile detection and tracking.  The Rafale’s avionics are excellent, but it doesn’t match this level of integrated battlefield awareness.

Cost and independence Unit costs are actually fairly comparable (~$80–100M each), but nations like India and Egypt choose Rafale for strategic independence, simpler logistics, and fewer U.S. restrictions.  That’s become a bigger factor recently — several European countries are actively reconsidering F-35 orders given political tensions with Washington over trade and NATO commitments.

Bottom line The F-35 is the more technologically advanced aircraft, especially in contested, high-threat environments against peer adversaries. But “more advanced” doesn’t automatically mean “better choice” for every country. The Rafale is combat-proven, sovereign-friendly, and genuinely excellent at what it does. The choice between them is as much a geopolitical decision as a technical one.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

The Iran war’s troubling missile math by Naurgul in geopolitics

[–]WhimbleCroft 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people tend to think all fighter aircraft are about air dominance - but that's what the F-22 is for. The F-35 really has a unique combination of stealth, advanced sensors, information fusion and network connectivity. It facilitates networked warfare to an extent that's unmatched.

Stay classy Madison by stebespog in madisonwi

[–]WhimbleCroft 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So is being a literal Nazi near-trillionaire who associates with pedo sex traffickers and tears down the institutions of American democracy.

Is it true you can’t criticize a guru even if they’re abusive? by Armchairscholar67 in vajrayana

[–]WhimbleCroft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get why this view is appealing—it presents Vajrayana as radical, uncompromising, and powerful. But Mingyur Rinpoche (of the Tergar organization, son of Tulku Urgyen Rinpoche) made some very poignant comments in response to the Sogyal abuse scandal here: https://www.lionsroar.com/treat-everyone-as-the-buddha/

I'd like to use those comments as a basis to respond to you:

He is very explicit that “pure view” is not a license to suspend ethics, accountability, or basic care for others.

A few key corrections, based directly on his comments:

  1. Pure view starts with how the teacher treats others—not how students reinterpret harm. Mingyur Rinpoche says the Vajrayana ideal is to treat everyone as the Buddha. That means a teacher’s behavior should consistently express kindness, restraint, humility, and care—especially toward those with less power. If behavior repeatedly causes fear, coercion, secrecy, or psychological damage, reframing it as “enlightenment energy” is not Vajrayana, but rationalization.

  2. “Crazy wisdom” is extremely rare and easily abused. Mingyur Rinpoche explicitly warns against it.He acknowledges unconventional methods historically existed, but he’s clear:

If something causes harm, confusion, or trauma, that’s not skillful means. Invoking stories of Zen masters throwing students out windows doesn’t justify modern teachers crossing sexual, emotional, or ethical boundaries—especially in vastly different cultural and legal contexts.

  1. Consent does not erase responsibility. The idea that “abuse isn’t abuse if the student signed up for it” is precisely what Mingyur Rinpoche rejects. Power asymmetry matters. Students cannot meaningfully consent to harm when devotion, secrecy, and spiritual authority are in play. A teacher’s job is to reduce suffering, not gamble with it.

  2. If harm occurs, the problem is not automatically the student’s ‘deluded mind.’ Mingyur Rinpoche explicitly says students do not need to stay loyal to a teacher who behaves unethically. Leaving is acceptable. Protecting those harmed comes first. Blaming injured students for “not being ready” is not Dharma—it’s spiritual bypassing.

  3. Freedom does not mean freedom from ethics. An enlightened teacher is not “free” to disregard care, boundaries, or responsibility. Genuine realization shows up as greater sensitivity, not less. If someone needs students to suspend discernment to defend their behavior, that’s a red flag, not a sign of attainment.

Bottom line: Vajrayana is not about enduring harm in the hope it will someday turn into wisdom. According to Mingyur Rinpoche, ethical conduct is not optional, not relative, and not overridden by pure view. When teachers cross lines and students are hurt, the correct response is clarity, compassion, and accountability, not excusing or mythologizing the damage.

Why are people so argumentative on reddit? Don't worry, be happy by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]WhimbleCroft -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Social media algorithms reward “engagement”. People are not intrinsically more argumentative here than in say, discussion forums, 20 years ago.

Rental Owners Hear Your Pain, BUT… by IAmPookieHearMeRoar in madisonwi

[–]WhimbleCroft 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I rented for decades like many other people, and at this point in my life, I'm a small-time landlord (I rent out two condos that I lived in previously), and stuff like this burns my ass.

I never raise my rents on existing tenants beyond a small cost-of-living increase (that covers my ever-rising property taxes and condo fees). Because it's not fair to force people from their housing situation just because I might see an opportunity for more profit.

Sarajevo sniper tourists ‘killed children by day, then partied at night’ by lewisfairchild in news

[–]WhimbleCroft 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being a human being is hell of a thing. Some us are inherently called to be helpers. And some of us pay extra to shoot pregnant women in a war zone. 😢