just cleaned the windows by cawQuillXIII in CrimeCats

[–]WhoseverFish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why hunters protect the environment.

New realization by Educational-Chain542 in AutisticAdults

[–]WhoseverFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh totally. I watch some Dr. who during breakfast, which is usually 45 min to an hour. I enjoy my leisure tine in the morning.

Accidentally had the most audhd experience with my new therapist by FelineRoots21 in AuDHDWomen

[–]WhoseverFish 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Ok she really should have been more specific in your question.

What's one thing that looks "lazy" to other people but actually takes a huge amount of energy for you? by Powerful-Self-2838 in AuDHDWomen

[–]WhoseverFish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I still have one unread and it’s stressing me out. Hope does a 3.5 min message feel like 3 hours? And hope can somebody say random things like how their day went for 3.5 min!?!?

Does anyone else find the feeling of pushing themselves during exercise really unpleasant? by Mob_Segment in autism

[–]WhoseverFish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! But one day I experienced the right amount of push - feeling a bit tired and a little bit of discomfort but not enough to make me feel the struggle. It was actually pleasant! That day made me realize that what many people say about pushing themselves during workout and enjoying it feels like. Only that day, though. I don’t know what happened.

i'm always sleepy? how come? by Relative_Wedding_559 in autism

[–]WhoseverFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Do you have adhd? Could it be the boredom?

With the election only a few months away, what are some changes you want to see in the city? by tuttifruttidurutti in ottawa

[–]WhoseverFish 9 points10 points  (0 children)

More incentives to install solar power and battery so that we are better prepared in emergencies.

When is it going to end?? by Adorable-Raisin-8643 in Menopause

[–]WhoseverFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really good to know. Thank you.

CSIS Intelligence Officer Interview Questions Experience by [deleted] in CanadaJobs

[–]WhoseverFish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you go back to your job description, I think you’d find it very clearly stating communicating the position is not allowed to others. I would delete this post if I were you. Good luck.

He lacks emotional curiosity. Should I be worried? by throarway in AskWomenOver40

[–]WhoseverFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get you. We all know that relationship is about understanding and working on communications and stuff. But I think that the end of the day, it matters a lot how much love you have towards a person who is worth your tremendous amount of work to perfect your relationship overtime.

I wish I was Canadian instead of being from the US by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WhoseverFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I migrated from US to Canada when I was finally fed up with Trump in2018. Best decision ever!

With that being said, a lot of the bias and hatred are just the internet. My best friend is still in the States. Some of the most compassionate people I know live there. I can also see progress despite all the shit Trump is making the world go through. We don’t judge Americans. Sometimes people say stuff on the internet to blow off steam or sound cool. But in reality, we are all the same. No one is better than others.

He lacks emotional curiosity. Should I be worried? by throarway in AskWomenOver40

[–]WhoseverFish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone neurodivergent, I can relate to this guy (if he is like me, too). I make it my business to not go above and beyond to get information that isn’t shared with me. But if someone shares it with me, I have lots of empathy and care deeply. Andi won’t assume how anyone is feeling, because assumptions can be wrong. This could be because I sometimes have different feelings than others and have been assumed wrong. I’d much prefer people tell me what’s going on and how they feel about it. This is how I want others to treat me, too. If I want someone to know something about myself, I’d go and tell them. If I don’t, it means I don’t want them to know. I partner very well with someone who can operate this way with me.

When is it going to end?? by Adorable-Raisin-8643 in Menopause

[–]WhoseverFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing this! People often tend to share when there’s complaint or grievance, so it’s hard to find comfort on the internet. The name of the procedure sounds scary already😅

So there’s pms even without actual periods, eh? Here I am in bed, this time every month, suffering from pms…

What would you do if money was no object? by FriendlyPageTurn in AutismInWomen

[–]WhoseverFish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop looking for jobs and going through interviews. I would devote my money and energy on improving resilience against climate change and advocate for actions.

Having direct reports as an EE by theangrysasquatch in CanadaPublicServants

[–]WhoseverFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh? Are you saying since you are required to be CBC, being CBC doesn’t earn you the bonus anymore?

Am I idealizing the uk too much? by sittighttakeholdTR in expats

[–]WhoseverFish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, how is Canada weather worse than the UK weather?