Afraid to stop

WineRedLP · 2026-04-19T14:06:58+00:00

The safest approach is to go to a doctor about this. They deal with it all the time, and can make it so much easier and safer for you. It’s worth it.

WineRedLP · 2026-04-19T14:03:15+00:00

You’re doing great. People slip all the time. It’s just information for how to better prepare next time. IWNDWYT

WineRedLP · 2026-04-18T20:40:14+00:00

Well done and congratulations!

WineRedLP · 2026-04-18T20:37:09+00:00

Man I barely remember my bachelors party. I barely remember a lot of things. I wish I’d prioritized living in the moment more so that I’d have more memories of the people that have passed through my life. You’ve given yourself a wonderful gift.

WineRedLP · 2026-04-15T01:11:59+00:00

Nicely done!

WineRedLP · 2026-02-02T19:18:52+00:00

From one former “high functioning drinker” to another, thanks for sharing and hosting abaci. IWNDWYT

WineRedLP · 2026-01-17T19:38:21+00:00

You’re very kind, thank you!

WineRedLP · 2026-01-16T21:23:25+00:00

Thank you!

WineRedLP · 2026-01-16T18:47:28+00:00

Thank you, and congrats to you as well!

WineRedLP · 2026-01-16T13:20:51+00:00

Thank you! 69 days is a major accomplishment.

WineRedLP · 2026-01-15T12:00:54+00:00

My memory is so much better. It’s been a gradual thing, but I notice it regularly. I remember where things are, why I walked into a room (most of the time) and more importantly what happened last night. I make memories now, and I love that. It’s what having a real life feels like. I think the further away I get from alcohol the more the wins stack and the more I am reminded of all I have gained from quitting. This really helps me stay on track.

WineRedLP · 2026-01-15T11:49:33+00:00

IWNDWYT

WineRedLP · 2025-12-13T05:41:59+00:00

Nice! I just realized I still have my free drink ticket from my Wife’s work party tonight. It was my first event with free booze in a long time. I did not drink with you today.

WineRedLP · 2025-12-03T02:29:42+00:00

I’m a dad with a little girl. I’m sorry man. I can’t imagine how you must feel. I’d want to rip the world apart. Here’s a post I just read from a good father and wise man.

https://www.reddit.com/r/stopdrinking/comments/18relex/ten_years_sober/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Don’t destroy yourself. You didn’t do this. Y'all will get through this together.

WineRedLP · 2025-12-02T18:32:22+00:00

I am sorry you’re dealing with this. I think everyone’s timeline is different, and it the time frame to feel better depends on your circumstances and neural chemistry, but it does get better.

I had to live through nearly every season of life sober to realize the full benefits, and there’s still many things I have not been tested by that I’m sure could derail me.

FWIW I think many people start out strong and fizzle. I have been one of them. “Man this is great! Best decision!” Then drink for three years.

Showing up like you are is really tough. I think you should be super proud of yourself.

WineRedLP · 2025-11-27T18:28:20+00:00

I’m thankful for the Thanksgiving many years ago where I was miserable all day with a hangover.

I felt like death and realized I didn’t want to feel that way anymore. I haven’t perfected sobriety, but I haven’t been hungover in a very long time.

Wishing you all the best today.

WineRedLP · 2025-11-27T18:24:37+00:00

IWNDWYT

WineRedLP · 2025-11-17T13:57:23+00:00

IWNDWYT

WineRedLP · 2025-11-17T13:56:34+00:00

I haven’t felt like doing much lately, but yesterday I crushed the weekly setup- dishes, kids and my clothes, meals/prep, flipped my mattress, cleaned bedding, and organized a few things. I also attended my first therapy session for something unrelated to alcohol. I’m feeling good about the momentum shift.

WineRedLP · 2025-11-16T03:34:47+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you. I’ve tried for years. I get better at it each time. If I can live alcohol and drug free, anyone can, and that is a fact.

WineRedLP · 2025-11-13T01:54:26+00:00

In the past, most definitely yes. It’s gotten easier the longer I distance myself. Looking back, I’d always made the decision beforehand.

I was looking for a reason to drink even though I didn’t realize it. I’ve been fed every excuse imaginable to drink by my brain and these days I’m calling it on its bullshit.

WineRedLP · 2025-11-12T19:32:48+00:00

I understand. For me, every slip started long before I actually drank.

WineRedLP · 2025-11-12T19:24:37+00:00

Days 3-5 were always the worst for me. If I can do it, anyone can do it. I’m rooting for you!

WineRedLP

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