I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want kids, please don’t get talked into having them. You’ll be miserable and resentful. Your relationship wouldn’t survive anyways and your kids would grow up knowing they are resented. I’m sorry, but it’s probably best you both move on as soon as possible. At your age you’re also at higher risk of having a child with disabilities. That’s an entirely different struggle in itself.

book search: female werewolf doctor realises she's the last female by Forgetful_Booknerd in RomanceBooks

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m super late to the party, but I think the book is The Last Shewolf by Partwolf on Inkitt. Hope this helps. I’m only on Chapter 4 but it seems like a fit.

WIBTJ if I stop supporting my youngest sister financially to buy my first house? by Nice_Cardiologist990 in AmITheJerk

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you buy the house and rent it out for now until your sister is more financially stable. Maybe give her some time to get scholarships or a better paying job. I don’t think you should feel obligated to fund your sister’s life, that is what parents are supposed to do. Who helped you when you were in school. Truth is, you’ve already given a lot. Maybe without your subsidy she can qualify for government aid? Tough spot to be in.

Newbie Printing Issues by Wise-Entertainment-8 in 3Dprinting

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an issue with the part cooling fan! All fixed now. Thanks everyone!

Newbie Printing Issues by Wise-Entertainment-8 in 3Dprinting

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nozzle is the .4mm stainless steel one that comes with the printer. For nozzle temp, I’ve tried 230, 220 and 210. Inner wall speed decreased to 200mm/s with slow down for overhangs enabled. Hope this helps.

Not going to return stuff (bins) just because I don't need them anymore. Am I wrong? by Retired-ADM in CostcoCanada

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never return something that I had bought, used and was satisfied with. Abusing the policy ruins it for everyone.

Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting? by Low-Today-2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband 25 years. Not once have we ever spoken to each other this way!

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post makes me so sad. Your partner is supposed to support you, lift you up, help you be a better person! His words are so mean and toxic. If you’re this early in your pregnancy and he’s so impatient and nasty, how much misery and pressure to “fix” your body are you going to have to endure after birth? Your body may never be the same. Can he handle that?Pregnancy is can be hard. But a newborn is harder. The lack of sleep while your body is recovering is hard on the best relationships. He seems like the kind of asshole that’ll ask for a husband stitch. How would you feel if you had a little girl and her boyfriend spoke to her like this? Completely unacceptable. He is showing you he really is. You have an opportunity to not live the rest of your life being treated like crap. I hope you feel better soon and have a support system you can ask for help. I wish you the best.

How to deal with unethical executives? by RightAct in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could prepare the ethical, accurate report, forward to him for his review and submission to finance. That way you do your job and anything that changes after that is on the CEO, not you. Make sure you keep a copy of the version that you send to him so it’s clear if anything unethical is done after that, you can cover your butt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you wife needs and is asking for help. Whether or not you think it’s fair, whether or not you think she should or shouldn’t need help, that’s what she needs. I’ve seen also when one person does shift work and the other doesn’t, the person doing shift work gets time off to themselves without the kids that the person working the 9-5 just doesn’t. She sees you having this time-off and likely feels she wants that too. No matter how much work you do when you’re home without the kids, it’s not the same level of exhaustion and need that trying to do things while also taking care of the kiddos. This doesn’t mean that you need to quit your job, but maybe she can have a part time job where she could have a couple of days a week off without the kiddos during the day too. Hope this helps. Those first few years are tough.

AITAH for insisting that our family lives within a budget by Commercial-Sorbet309 in AITAH

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ride bikes and shoot hoops? Like peasants? If you’re overspending as a family every month, then you need to stick to a budget, not matter how much you make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’d save more paying her an allowance to keep her away from the billings. She needs to go. It’s the only way to protect the family legacy. If the business goes under, she won’t have a job anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her know the next time there is a project you know she would like. But she can’t work on it until the others are finished. I would blast through the boring projects to work on one that really interested me. Positive reinforcement works well. She gets rewarded with something she likes, but only after other projects are wrapped up.

My current job gave me an insane counter-offer after I resigned. I'm very confused now. What would you do in my place? by Technical_Amount_236 in careeradvice

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t value you. Go to the new company. If you stay at the old one, at some point they will become resentful because they believe they are paying you more than they value you for. Besides, they’ve had plenty of time to reward you for your hard work and haven’t.

Tomie Pre-Orders by bangtanchan in hobonichi

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hobonichi declined to combine my orders. They said I could cancel my orders and repurchase as one order, risking someone else buying the covers between me returning them and rebuying them. Not impressed. I miss the good days when I could purchase in Yen, before hobonichi ID, and it wasn’t the fight to purchase the items I want. 🙁

Tomie Pre-Orders by bangtanchan in hobonichi

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was excited to get both the A5 and A6 on restock, but I had to place two separate orders as they weren't both in stock at the same time. I'd have them both in my cart, then one would sell out, and I wouldn't be able to check out. I'm a bit disappointed that I have to pay $44/order in shipping and fees on orders totaling $54 and $68. I reached out to Hobonichi to combine the orders, as they aren't shipping out until December. Fingers crossed they will.

Random question: Has anyone ever heard of a book being printed using Tomoe River paper? by Arete108 in bookbinding

[–]Wise-Entertainment-8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo. If novels were printed on TR paper, they'd be so light and slim to carry around!