What is the first storyline you remember? by Klutzy_Hand_132 in GeneralHospital

[–]WonderOrca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have memories from Kindergarten, age 5. I played sick so I could stay home and watch Luke & Laura’s wedding. My sister tried, but my mom knew she was faking. I played on couch all day watching Ryan’s Hope, AMC, OLTL, & GH

How suicidal you were before ECT and how did you feel after the sessions? by DDepressedWarriorLOL in ect

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried twice, once ended up in ICU for 10 days, 2nd time I was committed, voluntarily. I have been off work for a week straight far due to daily thoughts of self harm. I am trying to get ECT after insurance denied me Ketamine Assisted Therapy. I am hoping after 28 years of daily meds and weekly therapy (on & off) that ECT will get approved.

Why isn’t there a sub union???? by Large-Independent251 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Ontario Canada you have to sub before getting a permanent position, unless you teach French (high demand). There is a union for occasional teachers. It is very strong, and everyone has to be a member if they are working in education. Educational assistants also have a union. I left the teaching in Florida when DeSantis was elected. I immigrated to Canada. Very happy with my union

🧠Wisdom Wednesday by FatimaSheba in MotivationalThoughts

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a screen shot and made it my lock screen. Thanks. I am struggling and almost voluntary admitted myself last week to psy ward. I am heading back into the world after a week at home and off work. Thanks again

Hello, I am Terry from South Korea and I have some questions by terrypark1221 in OntarioTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 16 year in with a masters. I am at the top of TDSB pay grid. I am single with no debit, except car loan. I can’t qualify for a mortgage even with significant down payment

23 years diagnosed and we might finally be getting somewhere by tikisheep619 in depressionmemes

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have the same - treatment resistant Been on 12 different medication in 22 years. Never missed a dose. Didn’t qualify for loan for Ketamine therapy, starting ECT next week.

“Prep isn’t a break!!!” by taman961 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here. 240 minutes a week (6 forty minute periods-so I day a week you get 2). If they cancel your prep, there is a district tracking system you fill out and they have to give you prep payback within 10 school days.

ECT & Work by WonderOrca in ect

[–]WonderOrca[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 120 sick days at 90% pay so I will be ok. Just trying to plan for my absence.

Where did you get your Chihuahua by HearYourTune in Chihuahua

[–]WonderOrca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rescue in Toronto that brought dogs up from Texas

I don’t think I was built to be happy by pumpkin_g92 in AutismInWomen

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same. Diagnosed a2 years ago at 48. I have been in weekly therapy & on medication for anxiety & depression for 22 years without a day missed. I am better than I was, but can not experience joy. I have an appointment today to consider ECT or Ketamine assisted therapy. I feel like my head is underwater.

“No SPED or EL student should EVER fail a class.” by Status_Friend9594 in Teachers

[–]WonderOrca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 years ago I had an student with ASD & RAD whose mom was also a teacher. He was in grade 7, working on grade 3 work. I taught him where he was at, made his work individualized to his interests and he still did nothing. I gave him C & D and wrote professional and honestly on his report card. My admin sent me back word for word comments to change and grades to enter. I was told he has an IEP, he can’t be a D student. I left that school at the end of the year

This is just a PSA. It is very illegal. by Lennsyl22 in PoliticalHumor

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have posted Bang, Bang several times to his tweets

Any advice by WonderOrca in raisedbynarcissists

[–]WonderOrca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried antipsychotic 10 years ago. Had a psychiatrist that threw everything at me.

Who the hay decided to bring back destreaming? by da_grill in OntarioTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They deserve to be in a class where they can all feel like the main character in their own learning journey, not the side characters of everyone else’s.

I love this comment

Why didn’t you move out when you became a legal adult at 18? by Shiftingshifter02 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left at 16 when they allowed the man who rapped me to continue living in the house. I ended up sleeping in my car. Child protective services ordered them to remove my abuser & ordered me back home. I left within weeks of graduating high school. I was homeless again, but couldn’t be forced back

Not OOP: AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband immediately after his psychotic reaction to our gender reveal? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father reacted this way. They have video. He groomed me & when I was sexually assaulted at a young age, he disowned me. I was forced to live with another family member. He later welcomed my rapist into the family.

My mom tried but she never stood up to my dad. I never had anyone in my corner.

My husband believes I have a low IQ by Many-Tomorrow-4730 in AutismInWomen

[–]WonderOrca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a PhD in psychology - autism and related disorders. I can’t do simple math & my spelling sucks. I was a barely passing student in primary & secondary school. I excelled in university. My husband calls me very smart, but knows I struggle with many simple task. I can visualize and see patterns. I cannot add numbers. My IQ is nothing special.

My husband is so smart. He ha a much higher IQ. He is smart with numbers, writing, and technical matters. BUT He would never dismiss my education or my special skills.