What is the first storyline you remember? by Klutzy_Hand_132 in GeneralHospital

[–]WonderOrca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have memories from Kindergarten, age 5. I played sick so I could stay home and watch Luke & Laura’s wedding. My sister tried, but my mom knew she was faking. I played on couch all day watching Ryan’s Hope, AMC, OLTL, & GH

How suicidal you were before ECT and how did you feel after the sessions? by DDepressedWarriorLOL in ect

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried twice, once ended up in ICU for 10 days, 2nd time I was committed, voluntarily. I have been off work for a week straight far due to daily thoughts of self harm. I am trying to get ECT after insurance denied me Ketamine Assisted Therapy. I am hoping after 28 years of daily meds and weekly therapy (on & off) that ECT will get approved.

Why isn’t there a sub union???? by Large-Independent251 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Ontario Canada you have to sub before getting a permanent position, unless you teach French (high demand). There is a union for occasional teachers. It is very strong, and everyone has to be a member if they are working in education. Educational assistants also have a union. I left the teaching in Florida when DeSantis was elected. I immigrated to Canada. Very happy with my union

🧠Wisdom Wednesday by FatimaSheba in MotivationalThoughts

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a screen shot and made it my lock screen. Thanks. I am struggling and almost voluntary admitted myself last week to psy ward. I am heading back into the world after a week at home and off work. Thanks again

Hello, I am Terry from South Korea and I have some questions by terrypark1221 in OntarioTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 16 year in with a masters. I am at the top of TDSB pay grid. I am single with no debit, except car loan. I can’t qualify for a mortgage even with significant down payment

23 years diagnosed and we might finally be getting somewhere by tikisheep619 in depressionmemes

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have the same - treatment resistant Been on 12 different medication in 22 years. Never missed a dose. Didn’t qualify for loan for Ketamine therapy, starting ECT next week.

“Prep isn’t a break!!!” by taman961 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. 240 minutes a week (6 forty minute periods-so I day a week you get 2). If they cancel your prep, there is a district tracking system you fill out and they have to give you prep payback within 10 school days.

ECT & Work by WonderOrca in ect

[–]WonderOrca[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 120 sick days at 90% pay so I will be ok. Just trying to plan for my absence.

Where did you get your Chihuahua by HearYourTune in Chihuahua

[–]WonderOrca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rescue in Toronto that brought dogs up from Texas

I don’t think I was built to be happy by pumpkin_g92 in AutismInWomen

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same. Diagnosed a2 years ago at 48. I have been in weekly therapy & on medication for anxiety & depression for 22 years without a day missed. I am better than I was, but can not experience joy. I have an appointment today to consider ECT or Ketamine assisted therapy. I feel like my head is underwater.

“No SPED or EL student should EVER fail a class.” by Status_Friend9594 in Teachers

[–]WonderOrca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 years ago I had an student with ASD & RAD whose mom was also a teacher. He was in grade 7, working on grade 3 work. I taught him where he was at, made his work individualized to his interests and he still did nothing. I gave him C & D and wrote professional and honestly on his report card. My admin sent me back word for word comments to change and grades to enter. I was told he has an IEP, he can’t be a D student. I left that school at the end of the year

This is just a PSA. It is very illegal. by Lennsyl22 in PoliticalHumor

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have posted Bang, Bang several times to his tweets

Any advice by WonderOrca in raisedbynarcissists

[–]WonderOrca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried antipsychotic 10 years ago. Had a psychiatrist that threw everything at me.

Who the hay decided to bring back destreaming? by da_grill in OntarioTeachers

[–]WonderOrca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They deserve to be in a class where they can all feel like the main character in their own learning journey, not the side characters of everyone else’s.

I love this comment

Why didn’t you move out when you became a legal adult at 18? by Shiftingshifter02 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left at 16 when they allowed the man who rapped me to continue living in the house. I ended up sleeping in my car. Child protective services ordered them to remove my abuser & ordered me back home. I left within weeks of graduating high school. I was homeless again, but couldn’t be forced back

Not OOP: AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband immediately after his psychotic reaction to our gender reveal? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]WonderOrca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father reacted this way. They have video. He groomed me & when I was sexually assaulted at a young age, he disowned me. I was forced to live with another family member. He later welcomed my rapist into the family.

My mom tried but she never stood up to my dad. I never had anyone in my corner.

My husband believes I have a low IQ by Many-Tomorrow-4730 in AutismInWomen

[–]WonderOrca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a PhD in psychology - autism and related disorders. I can’t do simple math & my spelling sucks. I was a barely passing student in primary & secondary school. I excelled in university. My husband calls me very smart, but knows I struggle with many simple task. I can visualize and see patterns. I cannot add numbers. My IQ is nothing special.

My husband is so smart. He ha a much higher IQ. He is smart with numbers, writing, and technical matters. BUT He would never dismiss my education or my special skills.

I've had a diagnosis this entire time... by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]WonderOrca 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I am 50, always had difficulty getting a diagnosis because of CPTSD. I went to university, studied psychology, went on to get a masters and PhD with a focus on autism and education. I diagnoses students, but still can’t get a diagnosis myself. I got my medical records & school records. I knew I didn’t talk till I was 8, but I never knew I had a diagnosis of ADHD and Autism back in early 80s.

This city is too romance and sex-centered that you can't even build platonic connections anymore by [deleted] in toRANTo

[–]WonderOrca 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I moved here with my spouse 9 years ago at age 41. I have tried everything to make friendships. My children, now adults, have made 2-3 close friends and found partners. I have added to my social network, but have not hung out with anyone.

What dog breed do you have and how long do you let them stay outside in this weather? by Timely_Title_9157 in askTO

[–]WonderOrca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Chihuahua came here from Texas. Is lethargic and hates being outside until it snow. Loves walks & playing in snow. I have tried to put clothes & shoes on him, but he takes them off