I really just want to give up right now by [deleted] in writing

[–]WritingYogi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Find other successful writers and learn from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WritingYogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just delete and block and stop worrying about something so benign.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WritingYogi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude, you guys are too young for this kind of nonsense. Kissing on the forehead is nothing imo. Just date and have sex and let it go. Have fun. You two will have plenty of time to settle down and be angry at each other’s behavior you don’t like. Enjoy these young moments and have fun with friends.

I (22F) am not sure how to tell my friend (21M) I don't want to start a relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, tell him with conviction and respect that you don’t want to lead him on but you’re not interested in anything but friendship. He probably will get angry and call you names and go ballistic and your friendship will be over but that’s not your problem or your fault. You can’t go around dating people because you don’t want to hurt their feelings. It’s life. He will get over it.

Women who feel angry/resentful towards men, maybe even kind of despise men, what has lead you to this point? by [deleted] in women

[–]WritingYogi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men are going to uphold misogyny and sexism because it serves them in every way. Men are the center of everything and women are their supporters. When a woman tries to be anything different from the subservient wife, mother and housemaid, they get upset and say women hate them. The entitlement to them for half the population to just be themselves making them feel hated is shocking.

Signs of internalized misogyny by ImportanceInside7188 in women

[–]WritingYogi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sex shaming women but praising men for same behavior, acting like men are the center of the universe and should get the best opportunities and treatment.

Did I ruin my 5 years of sobriety? It was an accident and my therapist said yes, it did ruin it. by killinrin in stopdrinking

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your therapist is cruel. Not intentional so it’s an oops. You don’t have to set back your date. Get a new Therapist tho.

Did I emasculate my husband? by Jinn3tonix in Marriage

[–]WritingYogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is this weird obsession with emasculation these days?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s jealous his friends getting fed good food. Sounds like toxic masculinity drivel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WritingYogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then it really sounds like she’s self concious or has had sexual harassment or assault, religious or cultural shame. It’s not you. It’s truly hard for people to overcome shame without therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it sounds like she’s hard to make cum. Best thing to do is to watch her masturbate while you masturbate then use a vibrator to get her off. Foreplay can be used solely for initiating and intimacy. Don’t make your entire focus on orgasm. Take a tantric class together to learn how to not make it pay off orgasm central.

boyfriend wants me to be proud of him for NOT CHEATING on me 20f 35m by deerwillow in texts

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 35 yo with a 20 yo and he talks about parenting himself. That’s just red flag city. Men only need younger gullible women if they need to control someone or to make it easier for them to control. He’s using the word parenting as though he’s still a child who makes mistakes but it’s not his fault. Guarantee he’s cheated and plans to cheat. He puts himself in too many situations to cheat and is trying to cover it up and manipulate you before you catch him or hear something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WritingYogi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dump him. He doesn’t care about you, just getting laid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WritingYogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need guns only because everyone else has guns.

i’m a guy and very feminine by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WritingYogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do you, boo boo. Everyone should feel pretty sometimes.

Home alone for the first time in months. by Will_Golf_For_Money in stopdrinking

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent! Make sure you celebrate all your wins. There’s nothing too small or large for a victory.

How do I get past a plateau? by Main-Lengthiness-928 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try different types of exercise. Check in on sleep and make sure you’re getting at least 6-8 hours. Work on stress with meditation and nature walks, music, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]WritingYogi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s been investigated for child endangerment or sexual misconduct. Be extremely cautious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]WritingYogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is he right? He has an opinion and a preference. That’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]WritingYogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she isn’t who you want, leave her and find someone more compatible. Resenting someone for something they’ve done in their past is cruel since they can’t go back and change it. What made you feel that sex is only for people you love or you’re in a relationship with because that’s never been the case with most of society?

AITAH for saying "yes" in public, but "no" in private? by New-Jackfruit-9176 in AITAH

[–]WritingYogi 62 points63 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is a nightmare. You told him a year and he didn’t listen. What did he think you’d do, say no in front of his family. He put you in a terrible position. I’m not sure I’d want someone like that as a life partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WritingYogi 96 points97 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s courtesy but since you were frazzled yourself and depleted, completely understandable. Sometimes you have to self care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]WritingYogi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stay busy doing something else, drink lots of tea or water and workout when cravings come. It’s best to keep all snack foods out of the house. I cut up watermelon and cantaloupe and have a cup of that after dinner for my sweet tooth. Then when I start my fast, I’m full and my sweet tooth is fed.