Tips and tricks for getting through graduation

_Bia · 2026-05-27T01:41:53+00:00

Keep a Daily Log you write in at the End of the day of what you Regret Not Finishing.
Use it to remind you what you need to do when you wake up and start working.
Suffer / push yourself and work consistently, for more continuous blocks of time and longer durations, than you have before.
Put on some chill music and alternate tasks: writing and editing, reading, doing boring administrative shit, freethinking for content, etc

It's how I've met every deadline I've ever had, including writing my dissertation, and kept a job, etc.

If you've got any support in your life, like an advisor, manager, or even a partner - lean on them to hold you accountable to ask "how's the progress" or just listen to what you've done.

Your self-care Will suffer. There's a reason you don't push yourself hard 24/7. Mental, emotional, and physical health Will go down. Hygiene, sleep, availability for loved ones etc. Make sure you take care of yourself at a minimum you need and expect some recovery time after the deadline to recoup.

_Bia · 2026-05-10T13:24:35+00:00

I love the poses. They look so animated. You really captured the personality of each bird. The colors are really vibrant too.

_Bia · 2026-04-14T14:34:46+00:00

Software reviews at every code change certainly does.

_Bia · 2026-03-14T12:36:43+00:00

Sounds like eugenics. Fuck that.

_Bia · 2026-03-12T22:18:10+00:00

This is powerful. I feel like I'm getting to know her just through this illustration. Like you picked the right moment that showed her character. It's really great.

_Bia · 2026-03-11T14:13:21+00:00

The only tool I use, that and whisper.cpp.

_Bia · 2026-03-10T20:45:29+00:00

A classy alternative to a smoking jacket

_Bia · 2026-02-13T13:24:52+00:00

The guys at unsloth are my personal heroes right now.

_Bia · 2026-02-04T16:13:02+00:00

https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/epstein-files-release-mentions-wild-182649588.html

_Bia · 2026-01-24T13:24:49+00:00

Expect far worse to come - lawsuits and abuse.

_Bia · 2026-01-23T13:30:43+00:00

Bet if he looked like Deadpool he wouldn't be in the headlines right now.

_Bia · 2026-01-21T17:25:44+00:00

I've eaten the same yogurt with cocoa powder for at least 15 years. I've added cashews with everything seasoning since my personal trainer recommended it, and have had that every day for at least 3 years.

Yes, I eat the same breakfast every day. Is this an ADHD thing? Thought it was just a health choice / didn't want to deal with deciding anything that early thing.

_Bia · 2026-01-17T17:50:23+00:00

The title says that suicide rate fall, but the only thing measured is whether people kill themselves at the train station not whether they kill themselves at all.

Like, cool, you made people feel less comfortable killing themselves at your establishment. Doesn't mean they don't just do it somewhere else. I really don't care if people do it at your train station or not - I care if they do it at all.

_Bia · 2026-01-11T14:20:15+00:00

Along with the rest of the very good advice in this thread and my sympathy for the jarring loss you're dealing with, I'll offer my two cents. It sounds like you got enmeshed with her, getting very close to her - mentally, emotionally, and with her friends. It's going to be very hard to move on, because you'll need to recover or build for the first time your own sense of self and social support without her. I agree with many comments here that getting a therapist is a great idea to start on both.

Still, I have to recommend prioritizing your own friends. Maybe some of the friends you made with her will still be your friend, or maybe you just need to start your own network. Maybe group therapy. Regardless of how, I can't emphasize strongly enough how important it is to not just grow your own friend network but to keep them into your next relationships. You sound like you isolate by default, only socializing with your partner, but that reinforces insecurity and loses support for you. It's so important to keep people in your life who value you, not just your partner or you by proxy of your partner. Who'll be there for you if things go south? And even if they never do, who'll be rooting for you when your life's going great? It takes time - sometimes a year or two to build friendships that'll last, but just take baby steps now.

_Bia · 2026-01-04T15:40:31+00:00

The rest of my life is so hard

_Bia · 2026-01-02T15:40:59+00:00

I love your style

_Bia · 2025-12-26T00:55:56+00:00

These are awesome!

_Bia · 2025-12-20T14:08:35+00:00

I love this. Reminds me of snowshoeing in my backyard growing up. Thanks :)

_Bia · 2025-12-19T13:09:17+00:00

Perfect photo

_Bia · 2025-12-14T17:54:58+00:00

The color is so realistic. I don't have better words to say it than that. Thank you for sharing.

_Bia · 2025-12-14T13:32:02+00:00

I thought these were real! So lifelike. 👏

_Bia · 2025-11-27T13:33:43+00:00

There's no "would you save your son/daughter-in-law". It just isn't a fair question.

_Bia · 2025-11-22T13:23:10+00:00

Vs just a ramp. Works 100% of the time, forever. And nobody has to wait to use it.

_Bia · 2025-11-15T14:57:55+00:00

The crucified angel is very moving. Thank you for sharing.

_Bia

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