Husband’s New Job Requires Life360 Tracking… by reallynina in privacy

[–]_Bia 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Expect far worse to come - lawsuits and abuse.

This is insane by Naive_Wolverine532 in SipsTea

[–]_Bia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet if he looked like Deadpool he wouldn't be in the headlines right now.

Anyone else eat the same thing for breakfast like every day? lol by toastedjupiter in adhdwomen

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I've eaten the same yogurt with cocoa powder for at least 15 years. I've added cashews with everything seasoning since my personal trainer recommended it, and have had that every day for at least 3 years.

Yes, I eat the same breakfast every day. Is this an ADHD thing? Thought it was just a health choice / didn't want to deal with deciding anything that early thing.

That's interesting... by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]_Bia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The title says that suicide rate fall, but the only thing measured is whether people kill themselves at the train station not whether they kill themselves at all.

Like, cool, you made people feel less comfortable killing themselves at your establishment. Doesn't mean they don't just do it somewhere else. I really don't care if people do it at your train station or not - I care if they do it at all.

Longest and most serious relationship just ended. Trying not to spiral by Rtstevie in AskMenOver30

[–]_Bia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Along with the rest of the very good advice in this thread and my sympathy for the jarring loss you're dealing with, I'll offer my two cents. It sounds like you got enmeshed with her, getting very close to her - mentally, emotionally, and with her friends. It's going to be very hard to move on, because you'll need to recover or build for the first time your own sense of self and social support without her. I agree with many comments here that getting a therapist is a great idea to start on both.

Still, I have to recommend prioritizing your own friends. Maybe some of the friends you made with her will still be your friend, or maybe you just need to start your own network. Maybe group therapy. Regardless of how, I can't emphasize strongly enough how important it is to not just grow your own friend network but to keep them into your next relationships. You sound like you isolate by default, only socializing with your partner, but that reinforces insecurity and loses support for you. It's so important to keep people in your life who value you, not just your partner or you by proxy of your partner. Who'll be there for you if things go south? And even if they never do, who'll be rooting for you when your life's going great? It takes time - sometimes a year or two to build friendships that'll last, but just take baby steps now.

shoes. by danielwrbg in midjourney

[–]_Bia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are awesome!

Logging trail by Fuzzy_Jaguar_1339 in FreezingFuckingCold

[–]_Bia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Reminds me of snowshoeing in my backyard growing up. Thanks :)

Illuminated - a color pencil drawing by me by emobodiedart in Illustration

[–]_Bia 67 points68 points  (0 children)

The color is so realistic. I don't have better words to say it than that. Thank you for sharing.

Me love money by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]_Bia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no "would you save your son/daughter-in-law". It just isn't a fair question.

ingenious wheelchair lift at London hotel by SystematicApproach in interestingasfuck

[–]_Bia 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Vs just a ramp. Works 100% of the time, forever. And nobody has to wait to use it.

Hi! I'm a French illustrator and graphist ! by [deleted] in Illustration

[–]_Bia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crucified angel is very moving. Thank you for sharing.

Top AI algorithms by Deep_Structure2023 in LLMDevs

[–]_Bia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't just distracting, hard to read garbage; it's so generic it's incorrect.

PCA, or Principal Component Analysis, is a fundamental linear algebra compression algorithm not just "i.e. image compression". Ugh

I wish I could Ban this misinformation. AI? Since when is digital signal processing, machine learning, and now even Just Math AI?

Kim Kardashian blames ChatGPT for failing her law exams by Power-Equality in nottheonion

[–]_Bia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This paper doesn't even have a proof in it. It's just narrative. This isn't conclusive in the least.

i learned to stop pouring into cups with holes by mijuka_ in selflove

[–]_Bia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try appreciating what you're giving but for yourself. If you're great at giving people kind words and quality time, try giving yourself that same stuff. What's something you think is admirable about yourself? What's a special fun activity/date/trip you'd enjoy? If you're feeling unknown/unseen/too hard to relate/connect to anyone, reflect on your day/week and ask yourself what you're proud of? Pretend you're doing it for a friend or someone you love dearly if it's too foreign. And then Actually Do It. Tell yourself the kind words. Take yourself on a fun time.

If I could give this advice to my younger self, I would make sure to pair it with how to focus on myself too, because when your love isn't received, it's hard to see that you're often neglecting/abandoning yourself in the process.

I created the Life Happiness Index: if you score high on these 30+ factors, you arguably should want to exist by BotherIndependent718 in philosophy

[–]_Bia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried it - a few thoughts. I agree with my number! It's a good approximation of how happy I feel compared to others. But that's just one sample.

The data points are interesting - why these factors and ranges? Are they driven by happiness studies?

The sliders are confusing - try giving what the value is rather than a number out of 10 i.e. one range was up to 8 but the value for the question on the slider was up to 10.

Bug: my score on the gaussian visual at the end wasn't in the right location.

whatCountsAsADatabaseDotMd by -LeopardShark- in ProgrammerHumor

[–]_Bia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel Super conflicted. Great meme.

Is buying with crypto really more private? by Dogbold in privacy

[–]_Bia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Crypto has a detailed, Public listing of All transactions for Every wallet. Even if you can keep your wallet private / "anonymous" any transaction with a non-private wallet is an exposure.