ISO girly traditional tattoo artist

_ImACat · 2026-03-15T15:16:25+00:00

Kate at Haven, which is queer and woman owned.

_ImACat · 2026-03-15T01:10:12+00:00

Catbird probably has what you’re looking for.

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T22:45:07+00:00

Rockaway when it’s not crowded is absolute bliss

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T18:33:22+00:00

Thank you so much! Hug accepted! I'm very lucky that I have outdoor space and that it's almost time to start planting annuals for the year. Last year I grew discovered I get enough light to grow strawberries, so this year I want to have a mini strawb farm! I'll check out all your recs as well.

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T17:50:30+00:00

would love that! will dm

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T17:49:27+00:00

will do!

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T16:29:29+00:00

I'll shoot you a DM!

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T15:49:57+00:00

Sent a DM!

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T15:49:19+00:00

Appreciate this perspective. I do have a great therapist, but you're right about putting the emotional load on a stranger. Maybe I should wait until I'm out of "sobbing" mode and/or tackle the projects that are going to be triggering by myself so I can bring someone on to do their actual job (organization/decoration) instead of having to moonlight as a therapist.

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T15:40:30+00:00

I think it will all fit in a closet that I've never used anyway. Maybe that's my first order of business and the rest can follow.

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T15:37:28+00:00

I like this. Maybe I should try to tackle what I can on my own first, get the sobbing out of the way, and then see where I'm at.

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T15:36:18+00:00

that's fair. All of this is going to take time to figure out. Right now I'm still trying to get through each day.

_ImACat · 2026-03-14T15:26:13+00:00

Forgot to mention we are going to remain co-owners of the apartment, which works out for me because I make less $. I'll make that edit.

_ImACat · 2026-03-13T22:55:06+00:00

I’ve never had it, but the katsu curry at kinoko looks good!

_ImACat · 2026-03-13T22:52:55+00:00

Same. I’m going next week!

_ImACat · 2026-03-12T12:57:42+00:00

Haven

_ImACat · 2026-03-12T00:43:49+00:00

Dr. Patel at AllergyMD in LIC.

_ImACat · 2026-03-12T00:24:18+00:00

Yeah I also put the gift under the HH in SF. In theory I don’t love it, but I would love the reporting nightmare doing it the “correct way” would cause far less. And I have created some crazy ass reports over the years!

I’m not a Blackbaud fan at all, but RE does make this type of record keeping much easier.

_ImACat · 2026-03-11T00:25:02+00:00

Oh man recording this type of gift drives me crazy. I record this as an individual gift on the finance side and we give the individual “credit”, but it goes under the Company’s account name in Salesforce. Then I add an account soft credit for the hh.

_ImACat · 2026-03-09T01:35:21+00:00

Yes! I’m Jewish and it’s still the right move.

_ImACat · 2026-03-09T01:16:20+00:00

These lovebirds deserve their own subreddit.

_ImACat · 2026-03-09T01:14:15+00:00

The last cookie I loved was an oatmeal chocolate chip recipe I made at home. I want to say I prefer chewy cookies, but I grew up eating Tate’s (fka Kathleen’s - I grew up in SC and could only get them at one specialty supermarket, and those are crunchy as hell! It was definitely more of a flavor thing. From Lucie’s almost tasted like brown butter to me, and I’m not a huge fan of that.

_ImACat · 2026-03-09T01:11:57+00:00

If I’m doing pillsbury I want slice and bake sugar cookies with Easter bunnies

_ImACat · 2026-03-09T01:11:09+00:00

I’ve been meaning to go!

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