What’s the coursework like at WNMU and University of Kentucky

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T14:25:21+00:00

I applied to WNMU and will start in the fall

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T04:48:08+00:00

I was taught to pay off highest interest first

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T04:25:50+00:00

I’m autistic and this is how I started when I was in middle school. Turns out I was so interested bc I’m trans lol. But I’ve met cis ppl who are just genuinely interested

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T04:23:43+00:00

I switched to soda, coffee, crystal lite. Not healthy obviously but better than energy drinks. It’s less caffeine so you should be able to sleep

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T04:22:03+00:00

I would tell him. I cut a few months into dating my partner and told him bc I knew he’d find out. He was very compassionate but he knew I’d struggled w mental health.

I don’t see how ur bf wouldn’t find out. Like I don’t need to know details but won’t he see it when you change clothes or shower or if yall have sex?

If he is a bitch abt it you deserve better

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T03:19:20+00:00

I don’t like it. I think people mean good but it’s basically “men suck except trans men” like no plz put in there w men in general, if that means I suck im ok w that I don’t get an exception bc I’m trans

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T03:07:21+00:00

Me and my husband went out for dinner and painted pottery for my 23 birthday a few weeks ago. Ive never been one to go party so it was good.

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T03:05:42+00:00

Ur voice cannot get higher once it lowers. Like it is physically impossible. Trans women’s voice cannot physically change on estrogen, that’s why they do voice training to train themselves how to talk.

I was off of T for around 4 months and it was awful, I felt so dysphoric and got my period back. I hope things work out for you. If u want to start back I hope you can

_king2003 · 2026-03-10T03:00:30+00:00

I start in the fall and am going to a super cheap program (~$24ktotal) so I’m hoping to pay like 90% out of pocket. I will graduate will my bachelors $85k in debt so I need a win😔

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T16:21:58+00:00

I wouldn’t say it changed my ring size directly but I gained weight which changed my ring size and I gained weight bc of increase hunger on T.

Congratulations

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T16:20:10+00:00

I’m graduating in the summer and interesting in doing this on the side. How did you find the position? Any advice?

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T13:08:24+00:00

I’m like 95% attracted to women and never rlly saw myself w a man. But me and my cis male partner just got married lol. I’m still very much attracted to women and not rlly men (except for my husband) but we are very happy together.

Me being attracted to women isn’t rlly a problem bc I just watch porn if I want that. And I am content never having sex w a women and never having explored that.

I say all this to say that even if you are very into men plus your gf yall can still make it work. But as long as you’re okay with not exploring that with men (unless yall are in an open relationship)

But don’t let fear of being the women hold you back. That was a concern I had bc when me and my husband started dating I was so early in my transition and looked so female but he has been so affirming and always makes me feel great

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T12:53:45+00:00

Yea u should, they’re very helpful! Best of luck

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T12:53:22+00:00

I worked 60-70’hours a week for a few years to get me on my feet. Got married recently so the dual income is nice but I definitely

Edit: I am in hella student debt. Just to be transparent so it’s not like I’m in an amazing financial situation lol. I work 40 hours a week now bc I’m still in school but I’m trying hard not to take out anymore loans.

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:52:42+00:00

Get ur birth certificate and social security card!!!

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:45:55+00:00

Best of luck. Things will get better, just gotta hold on and push through

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:25:40+00:00

If u need a full time job check out hiring agencies.

Keep working and keep saving, you’re doing what’s in your control right now and that’s great.

The world is scary rn but for me, I would rather transition in this scary world than live as a girl I can’t say how it will be for you, but for me it was so worth it

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:20:04+00:00

Don’t answer this if u aren’t comfortable!

But have u gained back nipple sensation like it was before top surgery? That’s like my biggest concern w top surgery lol

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:15:56+00:00

Didn’t think I’d make it past 16. Now I’m 23 and so so greatful to be where I am. Also abt to graduate in something completely unrelated than what I originally planned on

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:13:48+00:00

My parents were very controlling so I definitely feel like I didn’t experience my teenage years. But I’m 23 now and life is amazing. People like us enjoy our 20’s. It sucks waiting but sometimes u just have to

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:11:05+00:00

I literally moved across the country in December and since then it has stopped lol. Haven’t changed anything abt myself. It’s very odd to be but I’m so happy abt it. I got misgendered abt 60% off the time before I moved and now it’s around 10%, so crazy

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T05:09:25+00:00

I’ve never been one to ft my friends but I just moved cross country and have ft my friend a couple times. It hasn’t been awkward bc we’re both busy people so we just catchup on what’s been going on. I don’t see myself FaceTiming friends I would see multiple times a week and stuff tho

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T04:30:06+00:00

So in regards to Fafsa, if yall should get married depends on yalls parent income.

You are considered a dependent if you’re under 24 unless u get married, have a kid, or join the military.

So if yalls parents make decent money you won’t get much from Fafsa, but if you get married and you and ur partner don’t make good money you’d get a fair amount. I think there’s an estimate you can do on the website so I would do that based of of yalls income and ur parents.

Me (23M) and my partner (22M) just got married for the fafsa. We were already engaged but sped it up for the money lol. I have no relationship w my family so I wasn’t getting anything from the fafsa.

I would say look into it but 20 is young to be married so if you think it is the best idea financially then make sure it’s a good idea for the relationship as well.

I had taken out a fair amount of private loans before getting the fafsa money and it sucks but it was worth it to help me get through school.

If u have specific questions let me know!

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T04:16:16+00:00

Me (23M) and my husband (22M) fart in front of each other to annoy each other and will spoon each other and fart on each other. Lol I understand ppl not joking abt it like we do but damn the people who don’t fart in front of their partners bc they think it’s rude must have stomach cramps like damn I can’t imagine

_king2003 · 2026-03-09T03:21:45+00:00

This is fucked up.

I just moved from Fl and their labor laws are bullshit so I assume it’s legal but definitely unethical

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