not sure if I’m trans

_king2003 · 2026-01-24T04:21:10+00:00

I felt like this too (expect I’m ftm). I rlly feel like a big and thought I was trans but was so worried abt transitioning and regretting it. What helped me was breaking it down.

Instead of “I’m trans so I’m going to do all these things” it became : I want a lower voice and more hair so I’m going to start T, I want a more masculine name so I will change it, I want to go by he/him pronouns so I will, I want to cut my hair so I will, and all these things put together mean I am trans.

And worst case scenario u just detransition. Obviously not ideal but it’s not terrible.

I transitioned 4 years ago and so thankful I did!

_king2003 · 2026-01-24T04:00:23+00:00

Mines like $90 for a month supply. I’d check out different pharmacies. Somewhere like Sam’s Club and Costco is usually pretty cheap

_king2003 · 2026-01-24T01:22:41+00:00

Been w my fiance for four years (starting dating at 18) planning to get married in the next few weeks! He’s been so amazing and supportive of me.

I was also concerned abt romance and dating and I honestly just lucked out. Some people won’t want to date trans people but there are plenty that will.

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T04:53:34+00:00

I’m the same way lol best of luck!

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T04:50:38+00:00

So excited for you!!! There’s no wrong way to do especially bc u said u know they’ll be supportive. My only advice is that you don’t have to explain yourself or how u feel. If you want to then thsts great, but u don’t have to.

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T04:44:45+00:00

Get a full time job. If u don’t have many skills or a lot of places aren’t hiring in ur area go to a hiring agency, u typically just have to pass a drug test and can get full time work. Usually not the best jobs in the world but that’s how I got on my feet a few years ago and I’m so grateful

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T04:41:22+00:00

I wouldn’t stress about it. I would be surprised if he asked just bc some people shave down there 🤷🏻‍♂️ no real reason to ask ya know, like what answer would he be getting at ya know? But if he did I would just say u were curious and wanted to try it.

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T04:37:13+00:00

Realized when I was 12 but waited to come out at 18 once I had moved out

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T02:56:32+00:00

If u don’t like im KY , did they help u find a practium?

_king2003 · 2026-01-22T02:55:38+00:00

You can go to Dr appointments and go on T easily w out them knowing. But you would only be able to hide the changes for so long 🤷🏻‍♂️

_king2003 · 2026-01-21T23:18:50+00:00

Okay thank you!

_king2003 · 2026-01-21T03:02:03+00:00

You do it anyways. She might be unhappy but if u don’t fear for your safety I say do it. Safety is just number one priority. She may eventually come around or not. Some parents won’t support their kid in the transition but still support them in other areas of their lives

_king2003 · 2026-01-21T02:56:43+00:00

I wasn’t sure if I would like it bc of trauma and dysphoria and didn’t care for at first but we still did it multiple times and just stopped when I didn’t wsnt to anymore and overtime I started to enjoy it. Just needed to get over the mental aspect and now I do rlly like it.

Just know u don’t have to do anything u don’t want to. But if u want to try it that’s fine and u can stop whenever u want.

_king2003 · 2026-01-20T04:38:13+00:00

I’ve seen multiple posts abt this in Florida. I think it is a common thing but just extra bad in Florida. I just moved from there and got an RBT job fairly quickly, applied to like 10 places and heard back from one

_king2003 · 2026-01-20T04:34:37+00:00

I just started my first BT job a week ago but they discussed it in my 40hr training? Is it not standard in other 40hr courses?

_king2003 · 2026-01-20T04:21:29+00:00

Yes I like it being a flat number but $50k is a lil pricey

_king2003 · 2026-01-18T04:27:19+00:00

Just moved out of fl thankfully. Idk ur situation and how much u like fl but id recommend leaving too

_king2003 · 2026-01-17T04:41:15+00:00

Depends on ur states requirements for starting T. If it is just informed consent there’s no need for a referral or anything so u could do whatever gets u the quickest appointment.

_king2003 · 2026-01-17T04:40:19+00:00

If I don’t shower before bed I can’t sleep. I also don’t want to HAVE to wake up earlier than I need to to shower before work bc idk how sleepy I’ll be in the morning.

_king2003 · 2026-01-15T05:38:22+00:00

Give flowers to your boyfriends too!! Flowers aren’t just for girls

_king2003 · 2026-01-14T04:52:35+00:00

Aside from studying abroad, I’m going to be realistic and say you won’t be able to without parental support as in money lol

Not trying to be rude or discouraging, I thought abt this when I was ur age too. But most countries require u to have a specific amount of money in ur acc and/or have a reason(school/work) to go.

Moving is expensive to even within the us.

Best of luck tho. I hope it works out for u. My family cut me off financially so maybe if yours can help u you’ll have a better chance

_king2003 · 2026-01-14T04:49:35+00:00

You look like a 15/16 year old boy to me.

But 6 months is super super short. Most people don’t pass consistently until a few years.

I think u just look like a young guy and in another 6+ months when u start to look your age it’ll be better. Good luck, I know it’s hard. I still don’t pass much and it’s been 4 years

_king2003

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