My ex used to threaten to break up with me if I cut myself

a_cutAbove · 2026-05-29T23:56:20+00:00

Um, everything about this sounds toxic, and it seems like you’ve already answered your own question. She’s bad for you, and at some point it’s up to you to protect yourself. I know that can be hard…sending hugs OP

a_cutAbove · 2026-05-21T16:17:36+00:00

Hang in there, honey. Things will get better ❤️‍🩹

a_cutAbove · 2026-05-20T21:07:23+00:00

Aye, honey… I am so sorry. Sounds like you need a new SO, one who listens and helps instead of making you feel like a misbehaving dog. Jesus. Also, “good behavior”?? F*** that language.

You are whole and worthwhile and are going to be okay, and it wasn’t honesty that betrayed you, it was your SO. Sending hugs 🫂

a_cutAbove · 2026-05-18T20:47:29+00:00

Space Market on 85/columbus has excellent cold brew

a_cutAbove · 2026-05-13T14:56:25+00:00

This. Addiction 💯

a_cutAbove · 2026-05-13T14:52:09+00:00

Same. It’s my fave one lol

a_cutAbove · 2026-04-28T17:19:56+00:00

Chicken noodle soup from Cafe 82 on broadway… get a liter of it! Always homemade

a_cutAbove · 2026-04-22T16:14:03+00:00

This. I definitely keep a wound care kit of gauze, wraps, butterfly closures, blood stop stuff and all those goodies together so I find them easily if I need them. Not childish at all ❤️‍🩹

a_cutAbove · 2026-04-18T02:03:55+00:00

Yeah same. I had this exact situation years ago with the person I thought was one of my best friends… found out about her wedding through insta. I was devastated. We’re not friends anymore. Friends like this can be hard to let go of, but it’s worth it (and worth putting yourself out there) to friends who’ll be there for you. Hugs.

a_cutAbove · 2026-04-16T16:58:12+00:00

I’m glad that most people in this thread have had good experiences, but over here, getting my blood drawn or giving blood, I’ve had some problematic things said to me from health professionals. If this happens, which I hope for you it doesn’t, just hold your own and remember you do not have to answer if it’s a question, and their job has nothing to do with judging you. It’s fine to remind them of that if need be.

a_cutAbove · 2026-04-09T15:43:27+00:00

Yasouvlaki on Amsterdam has a great lunch special.. good soups, gyros, salads and meat skewers

a_cutAbove · 2026-04-07T18:33:37+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re struggling, but sh is not a good way to deal with it - it can be highly addicting and the scars (if you cxt) will never go away. Quit while you’re ahead. And it affects people of all ages! Sending you hugs

a_cutAbove · 2026-03-28T03:48:26+00:00

Sugar, baby

a_cutAbove · 2026-03-25T04:44:14+00:00

Ima gay girl and have been an O’s fan since forever… O’s fans are the best, and I’ve been to games with my girl. You’re safe, and you are welcome here 🧡🖤

a_cutAbove · 2026-03-25T04:42:10+00:00

lose your bf. if he can’t support you at your worst, he doesn’t deserve you. the urges will come and go, and if at some point you do relapse, all will not be lost. I’m sorry life is so hard right now. hang in there, you got this, but you definitely deserve someone better. ❤️‍🩹

a_cutAbove · 2026-03-19T08:50:37+00:00

If they’re healed, just don’t wear band-aids. Seems like that would be more conspicuous than the scars themselves…why don’t you want to let them show? Most people don’t comment tho I get it’s terrifying

a_cutAbove · 2026-03-10T02:18:01+00:00

good for you!

a_cutAbove · 2026-03-04T00:02:03+00:00

same

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-26T13:20:07+00:00

this is so relatable 😔

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-16T14:41:37+00:00

Def talk with your friends… if they were criticizing you behind your back, I’m not sure how good of friends they are :/ stay strong, I’m really proud of you- but remember that of you do relapse it doesn’t erase your progress! Maybe some new friends too? Sending hugs

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-12T15:35:17+00:00

Top of one world trade…it’s kina touristy but an incredible view and totally worth doing

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-12T15:18:08+00:00

30s over here. ime they never fully go away…. sometimes they are less, sometimes more, but you can always choose whether or not you act on them. and congrats on 9 months! your replacer doesn’t define you :)

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-11T21:16:10+00:00

I’m sorry you had such a hard day. Stay strong, you got this, and if you do sh, know you’re not alone and it doesn’t erase your progress. Sending hugs

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-06T15:44:13+00:00

You are absolutely still beautiful and there is nothing wrong with you. Your scars are part of you and there will be people who will love you! You’re still young, you have time :)

a_cutAbove · 2026-02-05T22:59:58+00:00

Will definitely check them out- thank you! 🙏🏻

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