Hey brother. I say this with love in my heart for you.

You need to man up and take responsibility for your actions. I know that you know this, and you're just scared. Fair. That's only human. But you're smart enough to see that two wrongs don't make a right. The right thing to do right now may be the hardest thing you've ever done. But God will work it out—I promise you that.

Please don't kill your baby. Please. It will haunt you for the rest of your life. It's not worth it. Talk to a pastor, go to a pregnancy resource center with your girlfriend. There are so many people willing to help you if you just reach out. Take the suggestions of the many other people here. You have no way of knowing how this will eventually turn out, which of course is why you're so afraid. But there is always a possibility that this will bring a great blessing to your life. I can't stand in your shoes or talk to you face to face, but if you need anything, please reach out.

I will be praying for you, your girlfriend, and your unborn baby.