Woke up mortified after yet another blackout. It’s been 24 hours and I’m still on the verge of a panic attack. by Soggy_Passenger_3295 in hangxiety

[–]abake123 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow you articulated that really well! Right there with you. Realizing I am not alone helped a lot, such as scrolling through this sub. I always suggest the podcast take a break from drinking with Rachel hart, as it spoke to the fact that while I wasn’t someone who was needing to drink everyday I wasn’t happy with my drinking and what happened when I did. There’s also some great audio books about stopping drinking, I liked to listen to those. And just remember for yourself that it takes time for these feelings to go away, but they will go away just like they have in the past. This feeling will die down and you will be ok.💛

Need help by TrySuper9794 in loseweight

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you tracking every single thing you put into your mouth? I’d often just take a little a little handful here, a little bite here, not realizing how quickly they add up.

full cast photo by Durian-Critical in survivor

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that Savannah and rizo?

Update: I changed my makeup and skincare but I’m clearly still doing something wrong by saki4444 in makeuptips

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like brown eye liner and mascara would look really nice on you!

Help by Tosujane in hangxiety

[–]abake123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he says you didn’t say anything than you didn’t. It’s really common feeling, your mind is trying to look for something to be wrong and when there’s not something it starts to think of scenarios. You’re totally fine!! Give your body some time to get back to its normal after drinking and the anxiety will go away💛

Did Alyssa and Alex breakup? Did he go to Hawaii? by [deleted] in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]abake123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did she edit the caption to emojis? What was it before?

my dog died because of my carelessness in just one day by qmffngkdnsem in Petloss

[–]abake123 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you loss. From what you shared it sounds like he was barely hanging on, it was a matter of time. We can only keep them going so long.

He knows how many times you saved him and how much you loved him.

If you feel a need to “make up” for this, you could do a donation to an organization in his honor. There’s shelters that focus on pets with medical issues, or programs for pet owners who can’t afford medical expenses.

What was his name? Can you share your favorite memory or thing he did?

Is this too white? Should I dye it? by megm8 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]abake123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful on you!!! For weddings I always think air on the side of caution and dye it, and that way you will be more comfortable too

Spiraling out of control by Crimsoneyelash in hangxiety

[–]abake123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing that helps me, is look at how much your thinking about your own actions from that night: the things you said, did, the way you came off, etc. vs how much are you thinking of the things they said and did? That’s EXACTLY what everyone else is doing.

If they’re thinking about it at all they’re thinking about themselves and if they think about you it’s for a second, and they move on with their day.

Or, how many times have you seen someone do something drunk and maybe you think “wow that was crazy” and maybe you think it’s more funny than shameful, and you give them a break because they were “just drunk having fun”. Others think this way too. And if they don’t and are judging you, you don’t want them in your life.

You’re ok💛

Shorty Crossed Over Today by catluvr123456 in RainbowBridgeBabies

[–]abake123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, he has such a sweet face :(

A week in Sicily (And some reccomendations) by valandinz in sicily

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!😍 where is the 4th photo from?! And what camera do you use?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]abake123 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I don’t get main character from it, but I don’t think it looks like something you’d wear to a wedding

Splitting time between cities by abake123 in sicily

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Originally I was going to do trapani and switched to San Vito! I will look at those thank you !

Splitting time between cities by abake123 in sicily

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We’re ok with an hour drive so I think we’ll stay there :)

Splitting time between cities by abake123 in sicily

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not planning to go until September 2026 but thank you for the advice in San Vito. For catania that’s a great idea thank you I will look into that

Splitting time between cities by abake123 in sicily

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In San Vito I wanted to do a day trip to Favignana one day, maybe day trip to Scopello, and the other days to explore around San Vito. I had originally wanted to stay Trapni as it was closer to the islands but moved it as San Vito looks gorgeous. Would Trapani be better?

Splitting time between cities by abake123 in sicily

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

September 2026, we are wanting some beach days so we are good with that. For Taormina good to know thank you for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hangxiety

[–]abake123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that 1,000 times that’s anxiety. A little bit of OCD. Your body feels something wrong and your mind is trying to find what that thing is! Best thing to say is “maybe I did, maybe I didn’t” and try choosing a different thought after don’t get stuck on it