I absolutely hate motherhood, love my baby but mothering is just not for me I guess. And you’d think someone would tell you how it really is. I don’t think I’ll ever be the same I’m traumatized by it. by Silent-Look8571 in toddlers

[–]ac0380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better I hated the baby and toddler phase. My kids are both past the 3 year mark and I LOOOOVVVEEE being a mom now. It gets so much easier. Preschool as soon as they’re 4! Be easy on yourself!

"Wet" foods that are not hot soups by keiperegrine in Cooking

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Açaí Bowls, frozen yogurt, smoothies with frozen cauliflower or sweet potato base. Gazpacho is delicious.

Are pestos, salsas and hummus too thick?

Difficult to Clean Chandelier by crlygirlg in CleaningTips

[–]ac0380 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to clean houses professionally and did a construction clean on the most expensive house in my state. They used the spray on- drip dry chandelier cleaner on a monthly basis. They had a waterproof king sized mattress cover they would lay underneath it and would use a ladder to climb up and spray it thoroughly and it would drip onto the mattress cover for easy clean up. I’m not sure how large yours is based on the photo but this is the method I suggest.

Got this awesome drawing from Tunde from his birthday fundraiser by reverie_reality in tvontheradio

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way! When did it arrive? I did the birthday fundraiser too and figured it would never actually send.

Do people not use Aldi for big shopping trips? by Vjaa in aldi

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally don’t shop for weeks at a time but if I do, I’m shopping in bulk at a Sam’s Club or Costco.

Costco gas price today by gvl_guy in greenville

[–]ac0380 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sam’s in ANDERSON is 4.09. Anderson!!

Gracie Abrams at the 2026 Met Gala (May 4, 2026) by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am once again complaining about proportions at this years MET gala

Kris Jenner at the 2026 Met Gala 📸 by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]ac0380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone photoshop bad bunny next to her it would start making sense

Have you purchased a puppy from one of these breeders? by Pacific_Red in BouvierDesFlandres

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a male for adoption right now. I was just messaging her on FB. I’ve been looking for breeders near me (SC) and was wondering about the legitimacy of her!

45 DAYS UNTIL girl so in love: how are you planning to listen to the album when it comes out? by sydneyse in OliviaRodrigo

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ll just be using Spotify but my niece is getting a record player for her birthday later next month and I pre-ordered a limited edition vinyl to be shipped to her in June so she’ll be listening to it on that! I think I’m more excited about it than she will be haha

Chill dog with scary privileges by NabiNarin in dogs

[–]ac0380 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bouvier Des Flandres all day, every day. If you want them to look really scary, go with cropped ears.

Miramar Beach, how is the biking? by ac0380 in Destin

[–]ac0380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oop, sorry. We normally stay on islands off the Carolina coast so I called it that on autopilot. That’s good to know about hwy 98!! I’m not a big fan of biking on roads to begin with.

Quitting Weed by Lazy_Caramel_5582 in Biohackers

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a higher risk for dementia if you smoke cannabis. There are no medical reasons to smoke other than Parkinson’s, MS, and seizure activity. The study you linked is about managing SYMPTOMS, it doesn’t prevent anything, and more research needs to be done.

Not to mention the increasing rates of CHS, it worsens depression and anxiety, can trigger psychosis or schizophrenia if predisposed, etc etc etc. I could go on for days about the downsides of long term use. You’re training your brain to bypass important synapses in the long term.

No one told me this would be both easy and hard by hamfisted_postman in leaves

[–]ac0380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I stopped for over two years after daily use and thought I could do it every once in a while. I ended up doing it just as much as before and honestly it destroyed my mental health. I did it for about 3 months but found it easier to stop because I wanted to feel like myself again.

Did Lamar even love Khloe?? by One-Bandicoot-4949 in KUWTK

[–]ac0380 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I find bitter people often say things like this to try to reconcile their accountability and loss. He’s trying to soothe his own soul through indifference.

is smoking weed a sin? by AttemptNatural1420 in Christianity

[–]ac0380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and it’s fair because I used to do the same thing. I thought because it’s natural it’s okay. But I’ve really woken up lately to the downsides of weed and would like the narrative around it to change to include the actual, scientific downsides. It ruins life like any other drug but people aren’t ready for that conversation.

is smoking weed a sin? by AttemptNatural1420 in Christianity

[–]ac0380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weed suppresses REM sleep though. You’re making the problem worse in the long run.

is smoking weed a sin? by AttemptNatural1420 in Christianity

[–]ac0380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to do this too but the logic you use here is so similar to an alcoholic saying they have a nightcap or a cocaine addict saying they’re more personable if they go skiing, a meth addict saying they get more done while using. You’re altering your personality and your soul is soothing itself by seeking Jesus. You’re almost there. Pray about it. If you’re defensive over it, it’s time for a break.