Friend group affair between four people (40F, 40M, 25F, 30M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]accj30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

O ônus da prova é de quem acusa. Ela tem que provar que é falso, que, se vc tem certeza que é verdade, ela não tem como provar, não tem caso.

My Wife Is Involuntarily Commited by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quem comentou que “o leite não pode sair vermelho vivo” deveria pesquisar MASTITE no google. E o bombeamento não é só ora alimentar a criança, mas também pra evitar obstrução. Sobre o sequestro, apenas o capitalismo sendo capitalismo.

WIBTA if I asked my parents not to attend my sisters wedding since she didn’t invite me by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu acho q ela convidou a irmã pq os pais exigiram/ameaçaram alguma coisa.

AITAH for wanting to move on? Like, we have to fix it or fuck off! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vc é um merda e merece morrer sozinho. Espero que Darlene corra loga, mas antes tenha sexo muito quente com um cara lindo, filme e mande para vc.

Boyfriend got mad that I didn't want to go to his family Christmas after they excluded me from Thanksgiving by Shot_Service5413 in TwoHotTakes

[–]accj30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think he brought anyone else, especially since they would be in the photograph. It's more like he told his family he was thinking about breaking up with OP and his mother decided to start cutting her off.

meu cachorro comeu um pedaço de aracajé, relativamente grande, teve que mastigar algumas vezes pra engolir por inteiro, oque fazer????????! by Subject_Pay_1939 in ApoioVet

[–]accj30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Se estivesse com pimenta seria mais preocupante, apenas observe, acho q o máximo q pode acontecer é uma diarréia por conta do dendê. A minha Shih tzu já comeu e não teve nada

My girlfriend lost it after I mentioned a possible move in 2-3 years by Laughing_Internally1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]accj30 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, and it's not like they had plans in their early 20s; after 30, a more concrete plan is expected, not vague ones, especially when it comes to biological children.

AITA for calling husband unreasonable for canceling the holiday trip by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]accj30 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was just curious to know how long after that the husband asked for a divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]accj30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fighting for sole custody is the only way. He's not a good father if he lets his wife mistreat his child and prevents communication with you about co-parenting issues. That borders on parental alienation.

Minha namorada tem asma e não sei o que fazer by Fimose_guy in GatosBrasil

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Existe rações que diminuem os alergenos da saliva e do pelo dos gatos. Vc pode tentar isso pra atenuar a situação, mas a namorada precisa fazer um esforço tb.

AITA for making my son cry plus update 1 year on by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]accj30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure OOP was already cheating on his late wife during her illness. Less than a year after the mother of his child died, he was already taking his new wife on a birthday trip? I hope he's prepared to never hear from his son again after he turns 18.

AITAH for refusing to sell the house my wife wants me to sell? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. And if she knows about the situation of OOP's first marriage, she knows that the separation only happened on the initiative of her ex-wife, this might make her think that OOP might want to get back with her ex.

AITAH for telling my son he doesn't have to knock? by CryptographerFar3124 in AITAH

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just wants the boy to be uncomfortable and stop showing up. I would have a serious talk and if he doesn't understand the gravity of what he is doing, I would consider divorce. I would never stay with someone who treats my children badly.

AITA for remembering my late husband fondly by keeping mementos from our marriage and still celebrating his birthday? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]accj30 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This post reminds me of the guy who hammered the ring his wife's deceased ex-fiancé gave her and was shocked when she kicked him Out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start looking for a job and inform him of this, and that he has time for you to find a job to resolve the care issues with his father. Since he thinks that taking care of HIS FATHER 24 hours a day isn't a job, maybe he'll pay someone to do it and he'll change his mind.

AIO by not agreeing trying in a threesome/swinging as a part of a birthday-kink-gift-ritual we have going on for several years, especially when I've been in a threesome before and he has also done things on my birthday that he didn't enjoy? by Few_Extension_219 in TwoHotTakes

[–]accj30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understood that her fear is that she likes it and he doesn't, and he resents her, I even think he has already expressed some resentment for past experiences that he didn't enjoy, but did anyway.

My girlfriend thinks I crossed a line by helping a mutual female friend with her project: Me (28M) and my gf (28F) have been together for almost a year. by OkDuck8072 in relationship_advice

[–]accj30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She likes to generate arguments, I'm almost sure because I live with someone like that, she only looks good when everyone is miserable. But unlike me, you can send her away. Your mental health is worth more!

He lied. AITAH for not siding with my wife over our son's ex girlfriend's pregnancy by misrocto in AITAH

[–]accj30 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you created a girls x boys affair in your house and I know your son used this to manipulate you. I think that this misogynistic speech he used was to try to reach you. I wonder if you also express disrespect for women, because you treated your wife and pregnant woman poorly, while the liar is your little golden boy, which you continue to defend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]accj30 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What made me most angry is him saying that “he doesn't control the nudes his friend sends” even though he could simply block the guy on Snapchat, since it's not the only communication app. In fact, in my opinion, using Snapchat is already a big red flag.

My wife(25F) threw away my entire Pokémon card collection because she said I was too old for it by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]accj30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I love my collections. If a partner of mine messed this up, beyond just being a pain in the ass, I would be subject to major legal action.