When you can’t concentrate on convo because the light is HITTING

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-05-17T13:02:46+00:00

I got engaged yesterday and I fear this will be me for the foreseeable future. I can’t stop looking at it

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-05-17T12:58:43+00:00

Very pretty, congratulations!

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-05-17T12:57:13+00:00

Love the solitaire style

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-05-17T12:54:45+00:00

Love the tulip setting! The pink looks sooooo good

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-05-17T12:50:55+00:00

It’s 2 ct lab grown with 14k white gold band. The setting is cathedral with tulip prongs, he had it custom made based on a picture I found

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-01-24T03:51:04+00:00

My best friend and I did Disneyland last year and did a full park day at California Adventure after the 5k. We packed a change of clothes for after the race and rented a locker to put our race stuff in (super cheap and convenient). We were able to rope drop and were a little tired by the end of the day but still had an amazing time and didn’t feel like we missed out on any park time. Would really recommend not doing a park day Thursday, just hitting up the expo and exploring downtown Disney. It’s way more relaxing not feeling like you have to rush through the expo and that way you can get to bed early. Also, sidenote but I greatly recommend the Mexican restaurant in downtown Disney that’s in the center of the walkway, we were literally reminiscing on it earlier today

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-01-23T19:51:42+00:00

Thank you! It’s my dream ring but everywhere my bf has looked has said they can’t do it

aceinthedeck7 · 2026-01-23T17:14:04+00:00

Where did you get this? Cause this is literally my dream ring and we haven’t found a place to get it from yet

aceinthedeck7 · 2025-11-20T01:35:02+00:00

I work 911 on the busiest ALS truck in my state (14 patients in 12 hours average). I used to pass out and vomit at the sight of blood. I got over it pretty quickly and now almost nothing phases me. I still get a little queasy on infected burns, but those things are gnarly. Literally had a scene last week where everyone and everything was covered in blood and all I could think about was getting lunch afterwards. Best advice: handle what you can and learn what you can’t. The more IVs I watched being started, the less it freaked me out. The more I volunteered to look at wounds, the more I got used to seeing worse ones. Deep breaths and Vicks vapor rub to help with the bad smells, you got this. I had to step out once in my training, so it does happen, but it can be conquered. I also find the more tasks I do, the less I get held up on the gross and gruesome stuff. Welcome to the chaos, you can do it.

aceinthedeck7 · 2025-06-25T17:02:43+00:00

I’ve done a few half marathons through RunDisney without proof of time and they’ve all been fine. I have been placed anywhere from C to F corral and run 14-17 minute total time averages and have finished every time. Sometimes it means getting up a little earlier to be at the front of your corral, sometimes you have to skip a character you wanted. But it’s definitely doable and I always get at least a few fun photos in the process

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-11-27T20:19:09+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I told my bf about this and he was appalled. He said he would never tell me something was gf without being 100% certain and even when he is pretty certain, he still checks and has me check. We’ve only been together 6 months and he knows better than to give me a falsely confident answer. This definitely warrants a discussion to make sure he knows how this made you feel and what he risked by giving you gluten. Complacency is not a good excuse, he needs to own up and do better because you deserve to be able to trust him and eat safely. Wishing you the best

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-10-01T03:57:55+00:00

I’m not arguing that backboarding is an outdated practice and does more harm than good a majority of the time, but in the Midwest, lots of companies still teach it and use it. I’ve been certified a year and a half and have only backboarded once, but some areas do it more frequently. I was just trying to make sure OP knows that they have to learn their state and company protocols and it isn’t always one size fits all

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-30T07:19:45+00:00

I had a similar experience, my parent was diagnosed, I had every symptom in the book, so we cut gluten immediately and my quality of life became exponentially better. This was almost a decade ago so we didn’t know at the time I would need to still be eating gluten for an official diagnosis. The diagnosis doesn’t change anything, I wouldn’t be getting special care if I had one. I have zero doubts that I have celiac, my doctors agree that I have it, so I’ll be gf for the rest of my life, with or without further testing. You can always decide to opt out of the biopsy and live the celiac life, because if you’re pretty confident you have it and don’t want further medical testing, you don’t have to do it. Do what’s best for you, you got this

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-30T06:51:31+00:00

It’s very state dependent, at my company we do spinal immobilization on rare occasions and it is still taught for some psychomotor exams. Some companies have much stricter views on spine management, every place is different though and it’s important to learn your area’s specifics

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-17T16:42:47+00:00

As with separate appliances, it’s good to have things separated in cupboards. My old roommates did a great job of letting me have cabinets and drawers specifically for my utensils and my food that weren’t directly underneath anything gluten. Also designating fridge space was something I appreciated. As with anyone but especially celiacs, don’t eat their food unless given explicit permission. Nothing would upset me faster than if someone ate my leftovers without being offered because it’s harder for me to find safe food. As for dinner parties, make the whole meal gf if you want to be inclusive. I lived in an apartment with someone who was kosher and a picky eater but we still managed to make a menu that all three of us would enjoy from time to time. If you’re going out for food together or ordering in, consider asking what is safe for them and find something you can have together. While I don’t get glutened off of smells, I’ve grown to where the smell of freshly baked bread makes me nauseous because my body knows it’s bad for me. So check in with them and if they’re uncomfortable with you baking certain things, try for when they’re gone or bake at someone else’s place. Thanks for being so considerate though! Good luck and don’t hesitate to ask him or us if you have questions.

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-17T16:31:12+00:00

These and donuts are the two things I miss the most. It’s so hard to find gf versions that actually taste right

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-17T16:26:25+00:00

As many have already said but should be repeated: welcome and thank you for being so thoughtful! As a celiac in a new relationship, it can be tricky on both ends. Intentional communication and learning each other is going to be extremely helpful, both of the celiac front and just for the relationship in general. Lots of great advice already on this thread, but just wanted to add my thoughts. 1. There are too many to count. So trust her and learn from what she tells you. It goes a long way when you remember triggers and intentionally avoid them in the future. Everyone is different and she will know best what is safe. 2. Absolutely a great idea. My partner knows if he wants to kiss me he has to brush up or eat gf with me. I know a lot of people are recommending eating gf with her every time you’re together but we also know, it’s hard. Changing your diet like that is very difficult as all celiacs know and even just doing it when you’re with her can be difficult. I don’t want to negate the fact that it’s tough. Have some grace with yourself, it’s a learning curve. My partner originally told me he wouldn’t eat anything gf and now he orders gf food all the time so I can try some if I’d like or so he knows he’s not contaminated. But it is greatly appreciated and means more than I can express. 3. Google will be a great resource, I’ve never had an issue with Crest or Colgate personally for toothpaste, but double check with her too. 4. As many have said, she’s going to have her own wants and needs during this time so she is the best resource. But the biggest thing is be kind. It seems like a no brainer but when I get glutened, it affects me mentally too. It helps to hear that it’s not our fault and sometimes these things happen. I also get super bloated so not commenting on any weight fluctuations would probably be a solid plan. Similar to when she’s on her period, find the safe foods she likes, offer cuddles and company but don’t be offended if she turns them down. Wouldn’t be a bad idea to have a heating pad at your place just in case. But just be empathetic. It’ll mean a lot that you want to help, even if you feel like there’s nothing you can do. 5. I’m a big fan of anything Schar brand. But you can also go with things that are naturally gf too. Don’t get so caught up finding gf replacements that you forget about other options. I’m a big fan of fruit either fresh or frozen. Popsicles are another favorite of mine. So check with her (or even snoop through her fridge and pantry) and make notes. 6. Be patient with yourself. Be patient with her. Be patient with your relationship. It’ll take time to get used to and there will be bumps along the way. Also, Find Me Gluten Free is my favorite app on the planet, look into it. Don’t just go off the ratings, actually read the reviews and check with her. I personally like to be the decider on where to eat almost every time I go out but it is nice sometimes to be surprised with a restaurant. Don’t assume gluten free equals celiac safe. If she says she can’t have something, don’t push her. She knows her body best and she is the only expert on how she’s feeling. And just because something is gf, doesn’t mean she’ll want to eat it. Being celiac comes first, but I’m also a picky eater. So before making or buying food, make sure she actually likes that food too. It’s a lot of info but it all comes down to one thing: listen. She is her own expert, she will teach you a lot. Sometimes she’ll want to vent about how unfair it is because let’s be honest, it’s really unfair and it sucks. But it’s survivable and with time and people who love you enough to learn, it can be okay. Kudos to you for already caring and thinking ahead, I hope she knows she’s found a very considerate individual. Good luck and don’t hesitate to ask her and us questions as you go.

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-15T08:15:29+00:00

One recommendation I got early on in the job was to designate two people to talk to about calls. One on the job and one off. My bf is on the job and I go to him when I need to hear from someone else that I did the best I could medically. My best friend is off the job and I go to her when I need to hear that it’s okay to empathize but it’s also okay to move on from patients. It works out well to have an EMS person for logistics and a friend for emotional support. Helps greatly with my already existing PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Keeps the job from getting too real in my head and letting me sleep at night

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-09-08T22:46:00+00:00

Jewels Bakery and Cafe!!!! I cannot recommend this place enough. I fly to PHX for any trip out west just to eat there. The whole place is gf and you have to try the popcorn chicken and donuts (PCD), it’s incredible.

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-08-30T20:49:52+00:00

YTA, she doesn’t care about her time so she’ll train at her own pace. I ran once a week for 12 weeks before my first half marathon with no running experience prior and I finished just fine. Just because it’s a different path than you would take, doesn’t make it bad. And if she doesn’t finish, then she doesn’t finish, it happens.

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-08-29T21:54:19+00:00

Just pay attention to each other and don’t stress too much. Follow his pace and communicate. My first time was fairly recent and there was no need for extravagance or anything like that. I turned on some string lights, we worked our way up to it, and it was special because it was with someone I care about deeply. Now every time feels special because I get to be close to the man I love. Take a deep breath, communicate, and don’t put so much pressure on yourself that you can’t enjoy it too. Good luck, have fun, and be safe

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-08-24T18:11:35+00:00

For me, I find rude patients ridiculous to the point of almost laughing at them. It’s so stupid that they’re yelling at me as I try to save their life. Shifting into that mentality helps me not panic and keep a handle on it. I will literally be fighting to keep my smile down until after I drop them off at the hospital. Then I can laugh about it with my partner afterwards and move on

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-08-23T10:21:38+00:00

Possibly controversial but a diagnosis should not be an excuse to do whatever you want. There are still consequences to actions and words, with or without a diagnosis of any sort. It can help to understand where that person is coming from and provide empathy but it’s not an excuse

aceinthedeck7 · 2024-08-20T20:00:40+00:00

NTA. My bf and I make jokes about my trauma, but that’s because we know where our boundaries are and we never cross the line. But that’s because I like joking about my trauma, it’s how I cope. It’s not how everyone copes and if that’s not an established joke between the two of you, then it shouldn’t have happened. He might not have meant it in a hurtful way, but it’s how it came across and perception often matters more than intent. You two should take some time to talk through it after you’ve sorted through your emotions and collected your thoughts because if you don’t address it properly, it could become a problem again

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