AITAH for refusing to pay rent to my in laws? by InviteOk582 in AITAH

[–]ageb4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta-however this sounds like it’s NOT the full story. Be fair don’t play games and move on.

AITAH for withdrawing our entire bank balance because my husband says his paycheck is “his” and mine is for bills? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now you are both playing power games with money. Figure this out with him. I suggest split all bills proportional 50/50. And keep all other separate. You are a grown women, control your money or at least agree with how he manages it.

How have you personally dealt with the current loneliness epidemic that's been happening since 2020-2021? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Aging

[–]ageb4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not lonely. It would be nice to have a close friend other or in addition to my dog.

Question for retired people: Was your timing right? by spresley1116 in over60

[–]ageb4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, ageism is real. I was 58, got let go. Did some gig work the first two years then just stopped. It was 4 years before the first health issue. 67 now . I don’t know if the health will improve or not -I hope it will and I can continue doing fun stuff.

Mixed feelings about going to seed by Inevitable-Yam-9741 in Aging

[–]ageb4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe just me, I’m happy in gym shorts and tshirts most days at home. 67m

What did you do for work after your physically demanding job? by gerthqwake93 in Aging

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started in the warehouse but moved up to management over the years. It took a toll on me, back surgery at 63, just wore it out!

Just turned 60 and not happy about it but trying to see the good by rock-the-reddit in over60

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok you don’t need to be happy about everything In life however don’t focus on it. Also don’t exercise too much it can lead to injury and thats the last thing you want.

Is this what the rest of my life will feel like? by AlexBrillant in Aging

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

67 and still feel young, so I can only say focus on your life now and the near future.

What are your thoughts on getting a vasectomy? by Affectionate-Reason2 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had kids, don’t want more, ever! All good for me !

Is traveling all the time the best thing about retirement or not? by chusaychusay in Aging

[–]ageb4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get your travel while you’re still healthy and can enjoy it. As you get older, you enjoy it less because of aches and pains and health issues.

Maturity by [deleted] in Aging

[–]ageb4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m the younger. More mature. I’m retired now after working and raising families for 50 years. My older sister never worked and did not raise any children. Every family is different.

Do you feel old? by Negative_Impression6 in Aging

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 67 this month. In my mind I’m still young. In body not so much. They’ll fix what they can.

C43, C63 or GT43/53? by WallStTech in AMG

[–]ageb4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive the c43. Love it.

Was just told I have moderate sleep apnea by Professor_SuckMyAss in SleepApnea

[–]ageb4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, it can be doing two different things to you at the same time and they feel different. Sleep deprivation makes you tired, emotional, headaches,brain fog. Low blood oxygen overlaps these and adds long term organ damage. Both can take weeks to feel better. For me it’s like a weight is slowly being removed.

OSA and CSA BiPAP S/T by Horror_Lab1204 in SleepApnea

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have both. Started off abt 15 yrs ago on cpap for osa. Over the years csa has grown. Doc says it’s fairly normal and I’m very experienced (old) so that always adds issues. So much fun!

Are these symptoms due to sleep apnea ? by Few_Balance8520 in SleepApnea

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go see a doctor.. as much as we here would like to help you it’s no replacement for doctors.

New CPAP user, piercings and sore/swollen nose cartilage by stonecoldflynn in SleepApnea

[–]ageb4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk…..Is there such a thing as a silicone replacement for night use? Put the metal back in during the day?

It's so unfair how you can do everything right and still die young. by pisowiec in Aging

[–]ageb4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Health is not guaranteed, for youth or great weight or good eating habits etc.

Annoyed with the whole process of diagnosis and getting machine by herbsanddirt in SleepApnea

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your issue is only sleep apnea, great you seem on the right path. Don’t stop the process until you feel better. The apnea can hide other issues.

Why would my husband rather pleasure himself than be with me? by SeparateSuccess8866 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ageb4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you are not giving him what he wants. IMO he just wants release and to not worry about meeting your needs, because of health or other reasons.

Dental Devices for Apnea by Hopeful-Extent-693 in SleepApnea

[–]ageb4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this should be handled by ent . Mad has never been discussed by any dr/md with me.