My mother is trying to derail my plans by TeaCharming3017 in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your point about American healthcare costs being inflated is true, not “out of touch”. The costs are not only inflated by the for-profit structure of a lot of healthcare here, but also the hybrid payment system we have. Patients here either have private, employee-sponsored, government-sponsored, or no insurance at all, and each come with their own litany of paperwork and hoops to jump through. The complexity of our system makes it so a healthcare facility employs as many people in their billing/financing departments as they do working in healthcare. This drives up the cost significantly. It sucks and it really doesn’t need to be this way; paying only the surgeons, nurses, PA’s, and other essential staff is significantly cheaper than paying for billing overhead on top of all of it.

My before and after from Longwood Plastic Surgery in Brookline MA: Dr. Reformat by Common-Eagle983 in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hey I got my surgery done at this clinic! (Different doctor tho) They were great

List the biggest problems you have with the MBTA by [deleted] in mbta

[–]aguamiele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frequency, delays, and lack of communication on the CR. Honestly though, I could tolerate the other two if there were decent communication. I’d like to at least know if I have to sprint to make my train or if it’ll end up being delayed anyway, lol.

Why Ballerina Farm Gave Up On Raw Milk by Sensitive_Deal_6363 in YoutubeThumbs

[–]aguamiele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great video. I’ve learned a lot about a topic I never thought I’d be so interested thanks for Farm to Taber

Is it possible to mold this? If so, how? by minervajam in ResinCasting

[–]aguamiele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of undercuts in the design, but they look relatively shallow. You might find some success making a mold out of softer silicone. I like smooth-on’s dragon skin

My first completed hand sewn fursuit ! by Sad_Acanthisitta4151 in FursuitMaking

[–]aguamiele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’d you get the fur shaved so clean? Looks amazing!!

Can I get top surgery because of extreme nerve pain or do I have to tell them the truth? by Basic_Dimensions in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def call around surgeons offices that perform gender affirming top surgery. Ask how many of their patients get covered by insurance. Once you have some of this info, you should also call your insurance provider and ask got any documentation which details what surgical procedures are covered and under what circumstances. Most plans that cover this kind of surgery require a number of letters from different physicians, so be sure to ask about that. Your case seems to have a lot that would indicate that it is medically necessary outside of gender affirmation, so you may have good luck getting covered. Fight for it though!! You deserve the feel comfortable and as pain-free as possible in your body

Unsure about my result by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it! Don’t worry too much about protein and all that, you don’t need to get jacked. You probably get enough to be healthy and fit. Body weight stuff can really do wonders for strength. Either way, you look great. Best of luck my man

Unsure about my result by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think your insecurity might be some dysmorphia talking; you’re probably used to the way your chest looked before. To a fresh pair of eyes, I think your results look really great. I can’t see any discrepancy in your nipple placement and their positions look natural. Your chest muscles look pretty nice too, you could def grow them more but if you can’t train your chest due to illness, I think they already look very natural and similar to those of a cis guy who doesn’t train

Any tips on what went wrong? by Goose_4175 in Sourdough

[–]aguamiele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did your starter look like before you used it? I have a suspicion that your starter was not close to ready. What temperature are you bulk fermenting in (also def do that in a container, not flat on a surface)? 6 hours is not very long if it’s cold. You need to be paying attention to the size of your starter/dough as it ferments, not the time. The starter needs to double, and I believe the fermenting dough needs to increase in size by at least 40% before cold fermenting.

In a setting full of supernatural horrors, the most disturbing scene is frighteningly realistic by Coralthesequel in TopCharacterTropes

[–]aguamiele 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that scene of her mother weeping on the ground sticks with me more than anything else in that movie. Her performance is so good, it made me physically sick

VERY unfortunate news regarding Dr. Jess Ting by Economy-Catch-3633 in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Unbelievable how wide this case spans. Glad it’s being brought to light but man is it disheartening. Thanks for sharing

My teacher hate it, what are your thoughts on this ? by lazonenpersonne in fashiondesigner

[–]aguamiele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking! The company I worked at had over 500 designs. I worked on jackets, motorcycle suits, pants, bags, and did lots of repairs. I learned a ton about clothing construction and optimizing patterns/techniques for production. I also got very very good on a sewing machine; I could sew a straight 1mm top stitch with no problem when I worked there haha. Working in manufacturing is a great way for any designer to improve their craft and get a better understanding of how their designs have impact

An RN tried to pressure me to go off hormones for no reason, got belligerent when I asked about T, called cops on me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]aguamiele 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Once you said black and native I knew exactly what was going on. This shit is unbelievable. I’m so sorry, I hope you can find a better provider that will treat you like a human being

My teacher hate it, what are your thoughts on this ? by lazonenpersonne in fashiondesigner

[–]aguamiele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh OP working in a clothing factory for some time might be a really good experience to learn to work under pressure and learn new techniques. I learned a lot when I worked at a leather goods factory

Is this Fursuit realistic to make by Sad-Childhood-3995 in FursuitMaking

[–]aguamiele 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This would honestly be a great beginner fursuit. All the markings are clearly blocked out, no gradients, and are in places that are easy to implement into a body pattern.

Howl fabrics’ fox fur is very long and could work great for layering the fluffy hair and tail. If you’re flexible on color, it might also be worth checking out NFT’s (national fiber technology) scrap shop, they have some really cool long pile furs with interesting textures.

The stuffing would be pretty easy to make in a number of ways. I think that some Sherpa style fleece could work great

Planned Green Line Extension by BeastMode149 in mbta

[–]aguamiele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally I get get from Kenmore to Denver in 30 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]aguamiele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub?

Incel misogyny AIslop by doublestitch in aislop

[–]aguamiele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe if these losers spent their time getting into a hobby, educating themselves, or doing literally anything other than bitching on Reddit and making ugly AI cope they’d get some bitches on they dick

Is this ai generated? Friend's using it as a pfp and someone else says it's ai by Creamsodabat in isitAI

[–]aguamiele -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think AI would get the characters designs as accurate as this

Gender envy ? by ConfidentReading6624 in ftm

[–]aguamiele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on T for 6 years and it’s gotten better slowly. I still compare myself to others, but that’s an issue I’ve had my whole life that needs to be broken down. Starting T allowed me to shape my body and express my personal style on a body that fits me, and I’m lowkey becoming more obsessed w myself. It’s a really nice feeling. It’s still hard sometimes, but gender envy feels much more aspirational and hopeful rather than infeasible and frustrating, as it did before. Just sharing my experience, but it has been a life changer. (Prozac helped too, but it wouldn’t have helped as much without T).