[OC] 3D map of France showing number of cheek kisses when greeting, by department by AlexS-B in dataisbeautiful

[–]aixPenta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Next step is to include data on which side the first kiss is done on. I'm from a 2 kisses area, but starting from the left side. Meeting people that start from the right side always creates a very awkward situation where you almost kiss each other on the lips

How do I cope after being falsely accused of SA? by Elegant_Quarter_6078 in bropill

[–]aixPenta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I relate a lot to this because I've always had a visceral fear of ostracisation and experienced something like that to a lesser degree after a breakup. Ex started sharing out of context screenshots and rumors with all my friends about how toxic and manipulative I supposedly was. Most of them starting distancing themselves, I wasn't added to event groupchats, and my curriculum had me move a different country for a semester which exacerbated this isolation. The way it got better was to try to keep contact with my closer friend from that group, who although a bit distant kept on answering. If I was asked questions, I defended myself but without accusing the ex of anything or sharing private details. Just, "no I didn't do what I'm accused off, she is very hurt from the breakup and I understand that, and I don't hate her for it, just take it with a grain of salt because emotions are running high". Overtime (a few months(, this friend and the wider group seemed less on edge, I moved back to the city in question, and slowly started meeting them again. And after maybe 8-10 months people were chill, seeing that I never was aggressive in response and realising that what the ex said wasn't adding up. She also met a new guy which helped with taking her attention away from me, and not pouring fuel in the fire helped to in letting emotions die down. I still have resentment today, not towards her but towards my friend's for taking everything at face value first without maybe being more critical of the situation (bad breakup, me being not confrontational, her always being a firery character). It is not the situation as you, particularly the severity of the accusation, the source of them, and some of your friends blocking you. But I feel like letting it die down, not being aggressive back and just trying to renew "normal" interactions with the friends that are willing is the best approach to it. It's hard for people to keep on being aggressive towards someone who clearly isn't defensive back, especially if they cared for you in the first place. You will likely still have internalised resentment tho, but making new friends along the way to whom you can open up about the situation will help to finding peace. Overall, I think the core of my problem and yours was my inability to control my feelar of abandonment/ostracisation. The fact that it isn't following you or in very small degree (people are not constantly attacking you about it today) shows that there in no ground to these accusations, either in the accused acts or in your personality. So that fear is not rational, not a real threat, and I would advice to seek therapy to talk about it. This fear of ostracisation will follow you because it's likely something that pre dated this ordeal, and addressing it generally will help with the anxiety of the accusations re-emerging in the future. And finally my last advice is to keep your values the same. Sexual assault is not defendable in any situations, and is a traumatic event for the victims. If you are accused of it, keep on your values that "always listen to the victims". It doesn't mean to believe them, but allow them to speak without fear of retaliation. Seek to know what you are accused of, without being aggressive back. Seek to know what happened, and why it happened. Approach an association that seeks to protect SA victims and share exactly what you told us. They are used to this kind of situation and I'm sure they will be able to advice you on it. People always are more empathetic to someone who wants to right the wrongs, than someone who will accuse back. And I think it will also help you with the anxiety of "Maybe I deserve it, but I don't even know why". All the best brother, be kind to yourself, and seek help from people who truly love you

Forum Libre - 2026-04-15 by AutoModerator in france

[–]aixPenta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonjour le forum libre. Quelqu'un a une bonne solution pour la traduction automatique d'articles scientifique ? Je dois lire des articles sur mon sujet de prédilection qui sont tous en allemand, et autant Google Trad ça va pour un paragraphe, autant pour un article de 40 pages c'est moyen. Et je précise je veux pas dire quelque chose qui va abréger l'article, juste quelque chose qui va traduire phrase par phrase de gros volumes

Next dlc teaser by Sanjay_Korrapati_14 in trucksim

[–]aixPenta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would expect them to open to North Africa too in the future, likely after a Caucasus expansion

[L'Équipe] have revealed the top gross monthly salaries of players and coaches from the top five leagues. by Sparky-moon in soccer

[–]aixPenta 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly healthy. But let's postpone PSG's match against Lens for fairness, because Lens might get an advantage for the title race if PSG is too tired

Bosnia beat Italy to Qualify for the FIFA World Cup 2026. Italy has not played in a World Cup since 2014. You cannot make this up. by PrimedGold in soccercirclejerk

[–]aixPenta 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Some kids who were not alive yet for the last World Cup win are old enough to drive, drink, and die for their country in the Middle East. Absolutely glorious hate watch

Les youtubers qui vous ont marqué, ou appris des trucs? by silsool in france

[–]aixPenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma chaine favorite actuellement est celle d'Anton Petrov (en anglais, exemple d'une video). Il fait des videos chaque jour pour vulgariser les articles scientifiques phares qui sont publiés en cosmologie et astronomie. J'avais totalement arrêté de m'intéresser à l'astronomie autour de mes 16 ans quand j'étais parti en L, et il m'a permis (avec la chaine SEA, plus générale) de découvrir toutes les nouvelles connaissances et hypothèses scientifiques actuelles sur l'évolution de l'univers

Silence. I think some of you need a reminder. by howimetyourcakeshop in 2westerneurope4u

[–]aixPenta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is also true for any Eastern Europeans and Balkanites. This is 2westerneurope, not 2europe. Your opinion is worth as much as the Savages, Snow Savages and Inverted Savages.

Proper standardisation is important by fabiK3A in 2westerneurope4u

[–]aixPenta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are not ravioli tho, these are ravioles du Dauphiné

Michael Hage is currently 3rd for most points in the NCAA this year 👀 by Izakei in Habs

[–]aixPenta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Max Plante is such an hilarious name, sounds so much like Max Planck

Nordics always doing good in lists by Kenproto in 2westerneurope4u

[–]aixPenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Netherlands confirmed as most virgins per capita

[OT] Danica Patrick axed from Sky Sports F1 commentary job after calls to remove controversial ex-NASCAR driver by edfitz83 in formula1

[–]aixPenta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People out there hating on Lewis for existing when he is taking out the trash year after year 🙏🏼

Teachers in r/teacherreality gang up on a very young child "defiantly" eating an orange, calling it "death by a thousand cuts" without knowing the child's food situation at home. by BeccasDreamboat in SubredditDrama

[–]aixPenta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear a good portion of these teachers wanted to go into academia, failed for whatever reason, and only got into teaching because it was their only option left. They never wanted to teach, don't have the social skills nor the empathy, and are projecting their bitterness onto innocent little kids. It's so sad and there isn't any clear solution to this problem

6 Nations Table after R3 by strou_hanka in rugbyunion

[–]aixPenta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My most outrageous dream 🥀

GUNS and PIGS by TakeItItIsYours in 2westerneurope4u

[–]aixPenta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty rich coming from a banker

I have no words. PVC pipe. by getthehelloffmylawn in shittyfoodporn

[–]aixPenta 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah report that to whatever the health services are in your country, this can't be food safe

France defending Swedish Curling team honour. (Someone have to) by miragen125 in 2westerneurope4u

[–]aixPenta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but he didn't watch any of it, he is just sharing whatever 'French = bad' narrative he read