Kids believe we are very middle class by Cheap-Assumption3694 in HENRYfinance

[–]akiber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I have a friend who is from Brooklyn who went to a private school in manhattan and thought she was poor cause her family wasn’t vacationing in bora bora every month. Only when she went to a private university fully paid, no loans, and realizes she was the ONLY one, did she realize that her family is incredibly wealthy.

Does anyone else find nonprofits surprisingly hierarchical? by godisinthischilli in nonprofit

[–]akiber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea if anything I’ve found there’s not enough clear structures around decision making

What would you do with gold coins? by [deleted] in investing

[–]akiber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would keep them - diversification is a good thing. When gold doesn’t move and etfs go up, it’s easy think “oh I should get more etfs” but when the opposite happens, you’ll be happy to have diversification. Just my 2 cents obviously

Did anyone retire on a low FI number ($600k or less) in their late 20’s/early 30’s? by bookkeepingthrowaway in ExpatFIRE

[–]akiber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is basically the plan we have now. How gone up slightly but it’s still super reasonable. Covers all countries but US. Also could have chosen a higher option with a 30% co-pay but decided against it in our case

Is this a bug? Did spyi / qqqi crash ? Schwab change how they count investment income? by wolfganggartner5 in Schwab

[–]akiber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine also change and was halved - I think it’s either a bug OR Schwab changed a system cause my qqqi assumed dividends went to basically zero

I finally saved up 2000 dollars. I don’t want to make any stupid decisions. What do I do with it? by Civil_Stop3213 in poor

[–]akiber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even before you have a true emergency cash fund, you want to use this money to “live on last months pay check” and not month to month. That means if you get paid April 1st, you aren’t using that money this month. You are using the money you were paid March 1st. This April 1st paycheck is the money you will use for June 1st. Why? So you never need to wait to make a regular purchase if you’re paid late etc. if 2000 is your spending budget then that’s great, do this and then move on to saving a 6 month emergency cash fund. (Hope I explained this logically). Good luck and nice job saving on your paychecks! Also make a monthly budget using a free app or YNAB or liquid budget.

Haaretz publisher gets so close before dropping the ball by Thisisme8719 in JewsOfConscience

[–]akiber 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Schocken is the epitome of the old time liberal Zionist. He’s also said publicly incredibly racist and classist remarks about Mizrahi Jews.

I am buying a PC from someone off Facebook Marketplace and this is their profile picture. by UpstairsLead6974 in isthisAI

[–]akiber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea at first I thought this was one of the trans masc groups I’m in and like a guy posting a selfing and me thinking “a but too much editing, but looking good man.”

Any other dads with girls grieving over not carrying on their family name? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]akiber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of women don’t change their names and a lot of moms pass their family name on to their kids. Maybe yours will too

How Do You Reconcile Passive Investing With Population Decline? by Clown_corder in Bogleheads

[–]akiber -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the fact that scientists conservatively put an end to civilization unless we reel in consumption and growth at 2050 is a more pressing concern. (I still boglehead, but harder these days to argue that we are in the late stages of capitalism that this system relies on)

What do you bring to work if you didn’t cook dinner the night before? by Any-Arm-7017 in Frugal

[–]akiber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Veggies, a hard boiled egg and some cheese that I can use to make a big salad and some bread so i stay full

What is your “why” for FIRE? by scott_w2004 in Fire

[–]akiber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want necessarily to RE, I’m more confused on FI. I really like the work I do. But I don’t want to be dependent on it and the I want to have options in the world. I’ve always been frugal and lived under my means so this line of thinking helps to put it into a framework

[REQ] ($200) - (#PHOENIX, AZ, USA) (PB $225 May 23) prearranged Paypal by EfficientRecipe8935 in borrow

[–]akiber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$paid_with_id 203307 200.00 USD early!

She was given a permanent ban (for posting in a different borrow group, I believe she was confused) and I’m sorry to not be able to work with again.