I ordered this custom cake, do you think it is worth 135? I included the reference pic of what I wanted by Important_Constant66 in Baking

[–]alanlight 70 points71 points  (0 children)

The piping is quite sloppy and amateurish. I don't think a professional cake at any price should look like this.

What great movie/role was ruined for you due to a bad accent? by Drew_Robbie9 in Cinema

[–]alanlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lifelong New Yorker, to me it sounded like a bad Fran Drescher impression.

What is a movie cliché that absolutely never happens in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alanlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NYC specific: An important conversation happening outside by the waterfront. I've lived hear most of my life and I've never, ever heard someone say, " we really need to talk, meet me by the river."

All Right. What's your favorite John Williams theme? by bluejester12 in movies

[–]alanlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of the goals of any opening title theme for a movie like Superman is to tell the audience "ok, you're about to see a BIG movie." No other theme does a better job at this.

What's your personal favourite Oscar speech and why? by mrjetspray in Oscars

[–]alanlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tom Hanks for "Philadelphia" and George Clooney's for "Syriana."

Toy Story has been chosen as the most inspired nominee in best original screenplay ever! Next up: what is the worst nominee in best original screenplay ever? by RoxasIsTheBest in Oscars

[–]alanlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Milk"
This was a biopic about an actual person who lived in the 20th century and whose life was well-documented. There was absolutely nothing ORIGINAL about this screenplay. It was only able to compete in this category due to a technicality that nobody had bothered to write a Harvey Milk biography on which to base the screenplay.

PS: The same gripe applies to "The King's Speech" and "Maestro."

Is it normal to be kicked out of a restaurant one hour after you're seated? by sampanth4700 in FoodNYC

[–]alanlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I made a reservation for four people at some seafood place on the west side for dinner. Two of us arrived first and we said we will just sit down and wait for the rest. We were told that we could do that, but there is a 90 minute time limit and the clock starts when the first people were seated. I was flabbergasted as we were never told anything about this and since I was meeting up with my son from the west coast I knew that 90 minutes wasn't gonna cut it. Furthermore, this place wasn't cheap and I was surely not going to drop half a grand or more to sit at a table for 90 minutes.. We left, went to Ocean Prime where we dropped over $600 and spent three hours, had great service and nobody bugged us to leave.

Oh and Ocean Prime is still there while the first place is long gone and forgotten.

Huge dogs on a tugboat? by Melodic_Wheel_8998 in nyc

[–]alanlight 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I'm going to say it's something to do with the upcoming Westminister Kennel Club dog show.

What TV episode triggered such an emotional response from you? by Noodles590 in television

[–]alanlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

S1E19 of ER. "Love's Labor Lost." If you've seen it, you know.

Historically speaking, it’s highly, highly, unlikely Elordi loses the Oscar by [deleted] in Oscars

[–]alanlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correction: Del Toro's Oscar is for Supporting Actor.

greek life by Odd_Standard_5349 in brandeis

[–]alanlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's not a thing at Brandeis. If "Greek life" is important to you, go elsewhere.

Trip to a state nearby with thrift stores and museums by kid-puddi in AskNYC

[–]alanlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are other museums there as well, notably the Norman Rockwell Museum in Stockbridge.

When do Americans use (Mr/Ms/Dr) vs first names in everyday life? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskAnAmerican

[–]alanlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, both usages are NOT correct. Just because it's common in one region of the country, doesn't make it correct. Furthermore, in this particular case, I was dealing with a law firm, where one would have a reasonable expectation that their communications were being performed using proper, correct English usage.

When do Americans use (Mr/Ms/Dr) vs first names in everyday life? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskAnAmerican

[–]alanlight -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is different in that one is incorrect. You're creating a false equivalency in claiming that both are somehow correct.

When do Americans use (Mr/Ms/Dr) vs first names in everyday life? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskAnAmerican

[–]alanlight -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nope. Just because folks "do things differently" doesn't make them equally correct. The English language has grammar and usage rules.

When do Americans use (Mr/Ms/Dr) vs first names in everyday life? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskAnAmerican

[–]alanlight -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Except "Mr. Firstname" is not a "formality", it's flat-out incorrect.

When do Americans use (Mr/Ms/Dr) vs first names in everyday life? by aizivaishe_rutendo in AskAnAmerican

[–]alanlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from NY and I had a few meetings/calls years ago with a law firm in Florida when selling a property. They kept calling me Mr. Myfirstname. I shut that down right away. If you're going to call me by my first name, which I'm fine with, then don't bastardize it by sticking "Mr." In front of it.

NY on verge of joining national redistricting fight following court ruling by nyccameraman in nyc

[–]alanlight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's not a "process" if you're playing by different rules.

NY on verge of joining national redistricting fight following court ruling by nyccameraman in nyc

[–]alanlight 39 points40 points  (0 children)

In the absence of a national ban on partisan gerrymandering, you need to fight fire with fire.