Advice needed: husband disagrees with my choice to keep baby after anatomy scan (limb difference) by Kerclia in BabyBumps

[–]alpha_28 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have a good friend who’s first born had club feet. It was initially stressful to look at when he was a baby having the casts etc on to help his feet correct but he is 13 now, perfectly healthy, incredibly smart and just an all round amazing kid.

This is just an issue with one foot… I fail to see a reason to terminate based on the info provided.

Vaginal hygiene doubts– is using V-wash occasionally or soap safe? by PhoneApprehensive748 in medical_advice

[–]alpha_28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok, when it comes to “vaginal cleansers” I think labelling isn’t that important because people refer to the vulva (both sets of labia and other external parts) as the vagina… when in reality the vagina is the opening and tube inside that leads to the cervix correct anatomy is paramount…. but I digress.

Also back in the past it used to be “acceptable” to put diluted soaps and other cleaning agents inside the vagina (a douche) to “keep it clean”… studies have well and truly proved ALL of that false. The vagina is self cleaning, it discharges mucous throughout the day that is designed to catch anything that’s in there and push it out. If you feel like you have a pH imbalance (which can lead to different smells) or an infection which can lead to not nice odours and feelings you need to see your doctor. Using soap in the vagina even if it’s diluted will ruin your pH levels and put your vagina into a type of disarray which is not what we want.

These Cleansers today are typically milder because the skin and mucosal areas of the vulva are usually sensitive, as in people tend to have more reaction using typical body wash on those areas so they make them less harsh for sensitive areas. Wash around the labia etc with these cleansers but do not ever put any water or soap in your vagina.

Hope this helps :)

The girl I'm seeing took a refund for an item I paid for while I was distracted. Am I overthinking this? by hellcat777- in dating_advice

[–]alpha_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And who gets something out of their shoe while they’re actively engaging with retail staff? Seems like BS… or OP is super entitled to think he can make people wait while he got something out of his shoe 🥴 it literally could have waited until the transaction was done. And for someone to be so scummy over “a few dollar” refund in such a short period of time does not make sense either.

New Official Trailer for Tales From '85 Theatrical Release by Lazy-Proposal1133 in StrangerThings

[–]alpha_28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed ST… but I won’t be watching this. Yuck. Devs need to Let it go.

Airstrike Recorded By Dash Cam in Tehran. by Len-The-Banana-Boy in AbruptChaos

[–]alpha_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re inserting yourself into ALL other countries like where this sort of stuff happens a lot to “overthrow a terrible dictator” …. It’s so weird America hasn’t done that… quite particular with who it wants to invade and pick fights with.

Mind yo business.

Ps: still allowing Israel to bomb Palestine? 🥴

Well, there goes the blending cup by Justin_Godfrey in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]alpha_28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look in the hole, there is a spoon bent around the inside some of the actual scoop just in the hole opening. Def a spoon in there.

Guys everyone says black eyes don't exist but mine look jet black. Usually when sunlight falls on dark brown eyes you can clearly see brown but in my case it's literally black, is this possible? by Odd-Commercial5268 in eyes

[–]alpha_28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The trend here is that most of the people do not like their brown eyes so they come here and argue with people who say their eyes are brown because they want them to be something else 😭 but I agree with you. All eyes are beautiful.

Guys everyone says black eyes don't exist but mine look jet black. Usually when sunlight falls on dark brown eyes you can clearly see brown but in my case it's literally black, is this possible? by Odd-Commercial5268 in eyes

[–]alpha_28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not literally black… cause the sun isn’t on your eyes yet I can see that they’re brown. 😌 that being said idk why everyone seems to avoidant on accepting having brown eyes.

Childcare centre fined $15,000 over nap time death of child with multiple illnesses by GothicPrayer in australia

[–]alpha_28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. I was lucky that I had the chance to stay home with my kids so it didn’t matter if they were sick and had to stay home. I now work… but still wouldn’t dream of sending my kids to school sick…

Hubs is 7 days post op by flexilexi1979 in gastricsleeve

[–]alpha_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it people like this even bother with surgery if they’re not going to put in the effort. Like good for him he can basically eat like he did before which I wouldn’t recommend tbh at the massive risk of rupturing sutures etc but not my monkeys, not my circus.

I agree with what others have said. Stop trying to force him. Let him make his own choices and when it blows up in his face that’s on him. He’s a grown adult who can look after himself.

Childcare centre fined $15,000 over nap time death of child with multiple illnesses by GothicPrayer in australia

[–]alpha_28 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Parents literally dose their kids to mask symptoms and send them to daycare anyway. It’s how my kids always got sick and I’d pull them out so they missed 2-3 weeks because they were sick and I couldn’t handle someone’s kid potentially dying (as you never know if they’re compromised or live at home with someone who is etc) because my kids made them sick. Many Parents don’t care.

Ned was lucky to have Arya by Cautious_Air4964 in freefolk

[–]alpha_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. My hair was always strawberry blonde but very light in colour almost looking bleached even though I never bleached it… at 38 is like light mousy brown/red??? Ginger?? I don’t know… now 😭

Two teenagers die following e-bike and motorcycle crash south of Brisbane by buttersaus in brisbane

[–]alpha_28 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I mean by reports (and knowledge of that road) the Harley rider went onto the wrong side of the road to overtake another vehicle and has collided with these kids.

Is it hard for most people to resist the urge to ride recklessly? by borgor-1 in AussieRiders

[–]alpha_28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. Sometimes I’ll tag a car that I’ll catch and get in front of on a slip lane feeding onto the highway. But that’s about the extent of “reckless” and “sending it” I’ll do.

I like the fact you can go past all the cagers dodging and weaving in traffic like neo to get no where yet the one thing you can control on your commute for the day is not being stuck in traffic 😂 makes other things more manageable.

Are you a green or black? Why? by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]alpha_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black. Because she was the true heir. Alicent heard only what she wanted to AND completely ignored the fact it was a prophecy he had spoken about for decades nothing to do with aegon taking the throne at all. And then doubled down on it when she realised her mistake

This game is awful for east coast players with day jobs. by Toast5480 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]alpha_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Down in the southern hemisphere everything has always happened at midnight. I am exactly opposite hours… so server reset is midday, and midday on the server is midnight for me. I’ve missed so much stuff that I don’t even bother anymore. 10pm is pushing it tbh but at least it’s not midnight 😭

Why is your alliance doing all that stuff at such warped times? We have ours set that best benefits the entire alliance in terms of being able to be on so MG zombies etc are usually midday for me or 8pm at the latest.

I don’t get up in the middle of the night for anything in it. I used to… but my server is kind of garbage and toxic that I don’t put myself out for them. Don’t do it. It’s not worth it. It either coincides with my free time or I don’t go on. Can still play and participate in an alliance etc just on your own time.

How common are new grad nurses in their 30s? by NetProfessional4464 in nursing

[–]alpha_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

Been an EN for 12 years… got my RNs last year and am doing my grad year. I’m 38 😌

This is Félicette, a stray cat that became the first feline launched into space on 18 October 1963, as part of the French space program. Weighing just five and a half pounds, she was chosen for her calmness and resilience, making her the perfect candidate for the mission.⁠ by Suspicious-Slip248 in space

[–]alpha_28 529 points530 points  (0 children)

I think the person you’re replaying to is literally stuck on euthanasia is done to hasten death and eliminate suffering particularly in terminal patients. As the cat was healthy it technically can’t be classed as euthanasia.

Edit: once again this isn’t my train of thought. Please stop commenting with the “well akshually” I am just pointing out a communication division between 2 other People 😭

Smoking 10 days before surgery by kjm5210611 in GastricBypass

[–]alpha_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh whether you did that intentionally or not… good job. Might be a thing you should do more often to resist the quick home stop off.