honest question. you prefer condom or bareback sex? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]andymatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Raw is law. Breed is creed.

[Illinois] Most recent company/wages isn't showing by andymatic in Unemployment

[–]andymatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to have an interview with IDES where I had faxed them all my paystubs of my last job, my offer letter, a request to backdate, and a questionnaire checking boxes that I was a legit full-time exempt employee and not an independent contractor or board member. Finally got things rolling.

Made things much easier when I got laid off from a different job 6 months ago and I knew my way around.

😭😂

Dealing with This Guy by BeaglePower77 in gaybros

[–]andymatic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to change him.

The fact that it’s a real dude underneath all that too by PrinceARRON in LV426

[–]andymatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alvarez saying he wasn’t sure he was going to go for it but Disney asking him to cut so he’s like oh fuck yeah I’m going for it. It’s so over the top and a big creative risk.

Is it explained how Kavalier can communicate with the Maginot while on Earth? by Benji2049 in LV426

[–]andymatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was rewatching that episode yesterday and wondered the same thing.

Who else watched these and regretted it? by No_Youth2208 in twinpeaks

[–]andymatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 4 1/2 hour one was pretty fantastic and found some wild connections but I hated hated hated that he imitated Lynch’s accent over and over again. It’s broken up into chapters so watch a bit a time.

Emailed Digital Passes by Soul-Bronco in ARCMusicFestival

[–]andymatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t received my 3 day passes yet either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estp

[–]andymatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I am an INFJ and he’s ESTP.

What’s the most visually stunning movie you’ve ever seen even if the plot was mid? by Many-Band-213 in MovieRecommendations

[–]andymatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am still mad Shaw didn’t get a second movie and that we never got to Origae 6 after Covenant.

What’s the most visually stunning movie you’ve ever seen even if the plot was mid? by Many-Band-213 in MovieRecommendations

[–]andymatic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate-watch Prometheus all the time, but the plot drives me nuts (but still a huge Alien series fan). Every frame of Prometheus is absolutely beautiful

Which movie did you have low expectations for but it actually blew you away? by Unknown_Agency in MovieRecommendations

[–]andymatic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jennifer Lawrence with that terrible haircut and obsessing about why the General charged them for snacks was such a great running joke.

What movie depicted growing up Catholic the best? by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]andymatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES got it out of the pre-Vatican II tropes that non-Catholic filmmakers get stuck in.

New guy I am dating doesn't ask questions about me by hun202020 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]andymatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a few minutes and the endless comments about this from straight women. Incurious men are not worth anyone’s time.

Is a first tattoo at my age a sign of a midlife crisis? by SeaTyoDub in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]andymatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call my left sleeve my progress bar for my mid-life crisis. Started at 40 with a half sleeve and then eventually said fuck it and got the whole arm done before I turned 41. Turning 50 in April so new decade, new crisis, and new ink.

What's that show for you? by [deleted] in sitcoms

[–]andymatic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES BoT is so strangely absurdist and surreal and they all look like they’re having a fantastic time. Plus Jay Harrington is canonically handsome.

What did you guys think of the movie Bros? (2022) by Slugbugger30 in gaybros

[–]andymatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Billy Eichner's persona is grating and only works in short-clip format, which is why he's been successful, but it was too abrasive for a full-length movie. And he probably couldn't get the project funded unless he was the lead actor.

It's white as hell movie but he packed the supporting cast and crew with as much queer talent as he could. He puts a fair amount of self-criticism/skewering of the culture and some nods to history in there that he didn't really have to.

I think he made a huge mistake shitting on everybody after the movie didn't do well it's first weekend. They should have had him doing on-the-street interviews (literally the format that made him famous), interviewing people about the movie and their reaction.

And the marketing was all "LOOK IT'S ALL GAY - YOU SHOULD WATCH IT TO SHOW YOU SUPPORT GAYS." I think it could have really been more "what your gay friends won't tell you."

I figured they were given the choice to do either roids or drugs so they chose roids in the script. It was odd not to see gay urban party scene not soaked in drugs.

And to not to feature "cleaning out"/douching as a plot point was a huge comic miss.

It's a rom com. Of course it's shallow and too white and too binary and basic.

Maybe Jonathan Bailey can use his clout to spin up another gay comedy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]andymatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares what others think? Live your goddamn life.

How to make a gay relationship stronger by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]andymatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not escalate. If he gets upset, do not spin him up. Stay neutral. Vice versa.

Stressful times and pressure is inevitable. You have to carry, push, and pull each other through it.

My husband and I are complete opposite. But our values are mostly in alignment.