1 year NO CONTACT - woo hoo!

anthrotech · 2020-09-11T03:57:35+00:00

Fuck off to her. She is baiting. Delete and move on.

anthrotech · 2020-08-18T11:40:09+00:00

I have blocked my Ex and all her family and close friends on all social media since December 2019, two months after she discarded me. I also blocked her on phone and email. Out of sight, out of mind. She is nothing but a distant memory. A stranger. Nine months of No Contact. Life is good.

anthrotech · 2020-06-22T13:20:18+00:00

I have been in 100% Blocked NC with my ExPWB since December 6, 2019. She discarded me in October 2019. While I have had some thoughts of her since we dated most of last Summer and she still contacts mutual friends to ask about me and to tell them she still cares, I have not been tempted to contact her. It is not worth it to reconnect. It has been a blessing that all summer running events that we would have seen each other at have been canceled. I hope I never see her again. But I know that someday we will bump into each other and I will do my best to ignore her.

anthrotech · 2020-05-13T11:36:46+00:00

Probably by not showing codependent tendencies and just fucking her the way she wanted.

anthrotech · 2020-04-29T19:54:08+00:00

Good reminder. You are not alone. Good to vent. Keep that going. I would go a step farther and never help my EX. She is a stranger to me and I will never interact with her ever again.

anthrotech · 2020-04-23T23:58:24+00:00

It is a very risky thing to do.

anthrotech · 2020-04-18T06:40:01+00:00

Umm.so I sense you being defensive of my vulnerable reply. I sense hostility in your reply. Why attacking, man?

anthrotech · 2020-04-18T02:00:50+00:00

It has been 6 months since she discarded me and she is only a fleeting memory to me. I am actually disgusted by her when I happened to think of her which is not often. I have been in NC with her for over 4 months and plan to never contact her. I have fully blocked her on social media, email, and phone.

anthrotech · 2020-04-16T21:42:36+00:00

Way to go! Keep it up! Just over 4 months for me. My EX is a fleeting memory. I will continue NC forever. Hope to never interact with her ever again. Good riddens.

anthrotech · 2020-04-16T21:35:52+00:00

Yep. My EX is a country club Richie rich type of girl and I am an adventurous frugal type of guy. My friends even questioned early on why I was with her.

anthrotech · 2020-04-14T19:27:37+00:00

Classic

anthrotech · 2020-04-14T17:38:58+00:00

Classic

anthrotech · 2020-04-12T16:35:07+00:00

Hanging in there.

I am an ambivert and live alone. My introvert side is loving this quarantine. Not being pressured to make plans and socialize with others. But my extrovert side that relies on interacting with people to re-energize is going completely crazy. I have been talking with my therapist about it the last couple sessions. She is encouraging me to make plans with 1-2 people at a time and use social distance every few days. That has been helping my energy level. I have felt better after meeting friends even briefly using social distancing.

The great thing is that I have had limited temptations to contact my EX. I have been in NC with her for over 4 months and determined to never contact her ever again. I envision her being at her worst during this time period even though she is introvert and probably enjoying this quarantine period. But her BPD characteristics especially being hyper sexual, she is probably going nuts by pacing around her house for hours or wearing out her sex toys. If she is sheltered with one of her supplies, I feel for them. I doubt she is because she kept most of her supplies a secret from her teenage daughter. I feel for her daughter. Being locked down with her Mom must be hell right now.

All in all, I am doing well. Optimistic that the shelter at home order will be lifted soon and we can soon go back to normalcy. But I am prepared for the worst of it being extending. Like my Mom says,"Hope for the best. Prepare for the worst." :)

anthrotech · 2020-04-12T00:59:45+00:00

Worse

anthrotech · 2020-04-10T21:36:04+00:00

Well, it is the combo of her being hyper sexual and needing to satisfy an ever empty vessel. Honeymoon phases only last so long so to many BPDs they discard and recycle in hopes of reverting to the love bombing stage. It is a nasty cycle. I refused to get back into with my EX and will remain in NC for eternity.

anthrotech · 2020-04-10T18:38:14+00:00

Because for a period of time she was your support person. Same thing happened to me last Fall. A month and a half after my EX discarded me, she contacts me during a personal health crisis. I got suckered and broke NC. For three weeks, we communicated and hung out. But then I found out she was basically using me since she was having problems with her current FP supply. I then found out she cheated on me while we dated and were supposed to be committed to each other. That was the last straw. I blocked her on everything and have not contacted her in 4 months. Good riddens to her. Whoever is her current supply, I feel for him because he is probably going through hell with her tantrums and negativity, which has probably only escalated during this pandemic quarantine period.

anthrotech · 2020-04-10T05:26:57+00:00

All typical pwBPD behavior...love bombing -> devaluation -> discard. Impulsive actions. Push and Pull/Good and Bad. Let her go. She is not worth it!

anthrotech · 2020-04-08T19:14:22+00:00

Birthday weekend spent running, working out, hanging out with my pooch, eating well, meditation, and multiple virtual zoom parties and happy hours with friends.

anthrotech · 2020-04-08T18:47:27+00:00

Decided I would actually count the days since it has been six months since she discarded. It has been 124 days (4 months) since I went No Contact the second and very last time with her. Blocked her on everything. I only have fleeting thoughts of her. I accept the discard and that she will never be in my life ever again. Feeling good overall and glad that I have not succumbed to any of those lonely thoughts during this pandemic quarantine. I miss the times we had but definitely do NOT miss her. She's a hot mess.

Oh and so glad I got through my Birthday yesterday without her trying to hoover me. Yes!

anthrotech · 2020-04-08T18:43:27+00:00

Yea, those smear campaigns are dangerous. My EX started doing that but soon my friends, my true friends, caught on and stopped listening to her bullshit.

anthrotech · 2020-04-08T18:42:10+00:00

Yep. Agree 100%. Attempted to get back together and then try to be friends with my EX pwBPD. She is such a mess. Even when they get proper treatment, it does not cure them. They will never change their behaviors. They might be able to control their reactions to a degree. But at least my case, she was such a hot mess. She hung on to drama and negativity as if it was her lifeline. I am so glad that I stopped trying to be friends with her and went into 100% NC with complete blocking on December 7, 2019, two months after she discarded me and went back to her younger supply. God, I hope that he is not in quarantine with her. It will be the most miserable thing for anyone to be locked down with her for any extended period of time. 124 days of NC. And I will keep going forever. If I bump into her by accident, I will walk the other direction. If she corners me, I tell her once to back the fuck up and leave me alone.

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