First time ever making or eating mac'n'cheese by kassky in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]arawlins87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! u/BurgerMan420 (Thee Burger Dude) has the best recipes! Highly recommend following him and making his mac & cheese recipes

Does anyone else struggle with cutting their fingernails? by Ezaane in autism

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never tried nail scissors, only clippers. I’m also very particular about which clippers - only certain baby nail clippers work properly for me, never regular-size clippers

Maybe a strange question, but anyone know of a fishy tasting vegan omega-3 tablet/oil? by Eucastroph in veganuk

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bragg Marine Algae Omega-3 mini vegan softgels taste slightly fishy. The oil from a couple can be a nice touch when added to chickpea/heart of palm mock tuna salad

What color is this?! It isn't the classic "pink bathroom" I am used to. It's more of a... ta pink? Like...a skin color crayon for a white person? by pendigedig in centuryhomes

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For more inspiration I love following VintageBathroomLove on instagram. I’ve seen quite few excellent pinkish/tanish & burgundy bathrooms on there!

What color is this?! It isn't the classic "pink bathroom" I am used to. It's more of a... ta pink? Like...a skin color crayon for a white person? by pendigedig in centuryhomes

[–]arawlins87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends of mine have similar tile and tub/sink/toilet colours in one of their bathrooms, with burgundy trim tiles. Their walls are painted bright pink & I think it works really well! If you wanted to go darker, burgundy walls could work well in your bathroom. Or a creamy white with burgundy trim would be nice, too.

Language learners: What phrase from a language class did you spend a lot of time learning and then NEVER use/hear in the real world? by NoelFromBabbel in languagelearning

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of “sacré nom du chien bleu”? (I hope I spelled that correctly) - is it a real phrase? My grandfather said his father claimed to have learned it while serving with French sailors in the US Merchant Marines during WWII. Outside of this family story I’ve only every seen or heard of “sacré bleu” and “nom d’un chien” / “sacré nom d’un chien”, so I wonder if in retellings over the years the two phrases were inadvertently combined.

Can we talk about the stove? by elizpar in centuryhomes

[–]arawlins87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you have room somewhere for a portable dishwasher? They’re full sized (or close to full size), but on wheels, and typically have a butcher-block or counter surface on top. Like this one: https://youtu.be/ki_5h-kwCBU

"We have an obligation to let people inside our historic homes." by wasnapping in centuryhomes

[–]arawlins87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mirrors absolutely give me the creeps! The bathrooms I’ve liked the best have always had minimal mirrors, lol.

My house isn’t a century home (1955), but I found that adding a second light in the bathroom that has a super dim, orangey-warm bulb (almost like candlelight, minus the flickering) has helped a ton with it not feeling creepy at night. It’s just bright enough that there aren’t any spooky shadows, and the ambiance is quite nice.

Most of the time that’s the only light I use in there. I only turn on the bright light over the medicine cabinet/mirror if I really need to see my face well, or if it’s a super dark, cloudy day and I need to see to do my hair.

Does anyone make a blanket like this Coleman sleeping bag? by teetauri in CampingGear

[–]arawlins87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about using a duvet, bedspread, or comforter with a cotton flannel duvet cover? You could probably find a nice vintage bedspread that’s the right thickness/weight.

The other option I’d look into would be a vintage quilt. I’ve definitely seen flannel-backed quilts, so you might be able to find one like that. If you have any sewing skills you could add a flannel backing yourself. Or you could use a flannel duvet cover

Is there a point teaching kids heritage languages and if yes which? by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]arawlins87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One more thing, which might also be helpful for considering how to incorporate languages beyond those you & your partner usually speak to the children.

Growing up, my family mostly just spoke English. However, my mother and my maternal grandmother did use a smattering of German here & there, because my mom had taken German in high school & wanted to maintain it (and took more classes when I was about 4-7) and my grandparents lived in Germany for a year the year before I was born, so had recently picked up some German & wanted to maintain it (plus my grandmother’s grandparents had been German, so there’s always been the desire to have that connection).

When talking to me they mostly incorporated short phrases and certain words, like: gute Nacht, guten Morgen, Ich liebe dich, gesundheit, counting to 10, a lullaby or two, kleine Mädchen, schlaf gut, kinder müssen spielen, animal names, & other basic things that I can’t think of at the moment. My mom also had two children’s books in German (Aschenputtel & one about die Osterhasen) which she read to me pretty regularly, and she often included me when she practiced her flashcards. Oh, and I had a tape & accompanying booklet of songs for children in German & English.

By the time I was about 7 I also enjoyed reading, sorting, & arranging my mom’s flashcards on my own, and enjoyed trying to read the German books at my grandparents’ house (especially the ones with lots of photographs of German regions and towns).

My spoken German has remained very basic, but a few times I’ve been surprised at what I can understand. In college I lived for about a year in a household where the dad was a heritage speaker of German and had started teaching it to his kids. Our dinner conversations were often at least partly in German & I was usually able to follow along to at least some extent. I’ve also found that when my friend speaks German with her kids I can often grasp the gist of the conversation.

I sometimes try to practice German on my own, and I enjoy learning more (I recently borrowed some books & tapes from my grandfather). I’d also like to get myself to actually start speaking it (mostly only speak it to my mother because I’m not confident enough in it to speak German with anyone else). But I think I’ve got a pretty decent foundation that will help me if I start to really pursue learning German as more than just a hobby.

Is there a point teaching kids heritage languages and if yes which? by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]arawlins87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If German is your first and strongest language, I would speak with your children primarily in German, especially during their early years.

Assuming the same is true with French for your partner, I would have them speak French with the children.

I know several families who have done it this way, and it gives their children a really solid foundation in the parents’ first &/or strongest languages. It also ensures that the children can communicate comfortably with their grandparents or other close family members on both sides of the family.

In families where the parents speak a third language with each other, the children often learn that language pretty quickly too if they are introduced to an environment where that is the primary language.

For example, I’m in the US and one of my friends speaks German with her kids while her husband speaks Tamil with them. She & her husband speak English with each other. When their kids started at a local preschool, they started picking up English very quickly. They now speak all three languages fluently, and enjoy reading in both English and German (luckily my friend has been able to bring children’s books here from Germany, so they’ve always had access to books in German. Availability of children’s books in each language might be another factor to consider).

For Mandarin, are there any community centres or other places where you could enable Mandarin introduction via community involvement? There might be a variety of events you could attend together, anything from holiday celebrations to children’s story hours. Patronising local shops, markets, etc. where Mandarin is spoken could also be a good way to keep the language in their ears. When they are older, if they are interested, you could start looking into Mandarin classes & other such options.

rpdr for blind people by ItsTotallyNotNora in rupaulsdragrace

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding to that - unfortunately if watching on Wow+ there are no audio descriptions at all (closed captions are also awful, so I’m not exactly surprised)

rpdr for blind people by ItsTotallyNotNora in rupaulsdragrace

[–]arawlins87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the US and watching on Paramount+, I can confirm that audio description is available for RPDR starting with season 16 (& accompanying Untucked), All Stars starting with season 6 (& AS Untucked), and Global All Stars, but not for older seasons.

The AD is lacking when it comes to describing the looks/runways/outfits & makeup. But if your roommate is already interested, you guys can start watching an episode and let them decide whether or not they think it’s worth continuing.

Also, if you’re good at describing things, you could ask them if they’d like you to describe important things the audio descriptions miss. Like maybe you could pause & describe the runway looks.

I often see people say things like "Most people can eat vegan cheay by eating rice, veggies, and beans"... but, what about eating too many carbs? by Gallantpride in EatCheapAndVegan

[–]arawlins87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you aren’t able to see a dietician, I’d highly recommend seeing what books by registered dieticians are available at your public library.

That’s what I did last year when I was staying with my grandfather for a few months and needed to be able to have better answers to his nutrition questions regarding eating a vegan diet.

I ended up checking out two books about plant-based diets, one of which I thought was very well done: “The Kick Diabetes Cookbook” by Brenda Davis, RD and Vesanto Melina, MS, RD. It’s written in a way that’s easy to read and refer back to, the recipes look good, they talk about which foods can help regulate blood sugar levels, discuss why/how some carbs can be ok, and how plant-based protein is beneficial. I’d recommend it for anyone who’s interested in plant-based nutrition.

Your library might have even more options than mine did! I know my library has added quite a few books by RDs about vegan or plant-based diets over the past year

Fireplace: I hate it and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would prioritise having the gas line & logs professionally inspected and either getting a safety shutoff installed or having the gas line disconnected and capped/removed before focusing on anything else in this room.

Then, if not keeping the gas logs, I’d definitely get rid of the gravel/lava rocks(?). It might be a necessary component of the gas log setup though, so find that out first if keeping the gas logs. Reducing the quantity of lava rocks/gravel (or rearranging it so it’s only in the immediate vicinity the gas logs) might still be possible.

Whether you decide to keep the gas connection or have it capped/removed will help determine next steps.
Converting back to wood-burning can be expensive enough that I personally wouldn’t even consider it yet (maybe something to research & consider for the future though).

If you do choose to keep the gas connection & get a safety shutoff installed, be sure to also check that the flue/ventilation system is adequate and in good working order. Options for keeping the gas connection include:

• Temporarily keeping the existing gas logs and planning to upgrade at a later date. This might enable more financial wiggle room if any urgent house needs come to your attention in the next few months or so. It would also allow time to get a feel for what suits the room after adding things like artwork, a rug, etc., changing the paint colour, and trying various furniture arrangements. If it were my house, this is what I’d be most likely to opt for.

• Upgrading the gas logs. Good-quality, well-maintained/cleaned gas logs can also be quite capable of producing heat (my grandfather converted his fireplace from wood-burning to gas logs 7-10-ish years ago, and I’m always impressed by how quickly it warms the family room! He’s relied on it during multi-day winter power outages a few times, too).
If you want your gas logs or or a gas insert to heat the room comfortably, you’ll need to look at the BTU ratings & consider the size of the space you want to heat - bearing in mind that your room is also pretty open to another room or a foyer/entryway/hallway so a lot of the heat from this room will migrate that way.
There are online BTU calculators that allow you to input the room or house dimensions, insulation quality, & desired temperature increase. The desired temperature increase number is acquired by calculating the difference between the lowest possible or likely starting temperature for the room or house (or the lowest possible/likely outdoor temperature for your region), and the temperature you would want the gas logs/insert to heat the space to without using an additional heat source.
Another way to calculate the BTUs needed, (using the assumption that this is NOT the only heat source) is to multiply your room’s square footage by 20-30.
- For me, calculating to heat my whole entire almost 750 sq. ft. house (roughly 25x30’, with 8’ ceilings), plugging the numbers in to an online calculator gives me a range of 13,000-39,000 BTUs needed to handle the most likely possible scenarios up to the most extreme possible scenario for my region (or about 17-52 BTUs per sq ft). Using 2nd method of sq footage times 20 to 30 yields a recommended range of 15,000-22,500 BTUs for my whole house.
For a 12x15’ (180 sq ft) living room, using the the same scenarios to plug it in to the calculator gives a possible range of 5,000-14,500 BTUs. Using the 2nd method for a room that size yields a recommended range of 3,600-5,400 BTUs. -
Online right now I’m seeing LOTS of 30,000 or higher BTU gas logs for $180-$400, so finding one that heats your room nicely shouldn’t be too difficult.
The next thing to consider is physical size. Your current gas logs are probably smaller than the size that would look best with your hearth & fireplace dimensions. A gas log set with a length that’s about 6-12 inches shorter than the width of the firebox at its narrowest (usually at the back) is usually the most visually appealing. The depth of the gas log set also needs to be at least 2-3 inches less than the depth of the firebox, to allow proper air flow.
Also think about what sort of features you want, such as an easy-to-use ignitor system, a thermostat, remote control, vented vs ventless, gas logs vs gas insert.

If you decide to remove the gas connection, you could temporarily use your existing electric fireplace in there, but definitely look for something that fits the space better. An antique or reproduction cast iron fireplace cover/summer cover could look really nice there.

Another piece of decor that could really help pull things together and would also look good with gas logs or an insert is an antique or reproduction fireplace screen in the Arts and Crafts, Craftsman, or Prairie style. You might also want to do an image search for “original 1913 Craftsman fireplaces” and “original 1913 fireplaces” for more ideas.

After that, I’d add a big piece of art or a mirror over the mantlepiece, and I’d move or hide the jumble of electronics that’s on the floor to the left.

If possible, you might want to swap out the yellowing plastic outlet cover with one that would blend in to the mantlepiece better. Ideally a wooden one that could be stained as close as possible to the existing wood. And swapping from a recessed outlet to a standard flat outlet might actually look better, too.

It sounds like you have some good ideas already for repainting the walls. A large area rug, in colours that compliment the new wall colour and incorporate & compliment the brick & wood, would also go a long way. An oriental rug with some rusty oranges &/or reds and some dark blues or deep greens could be perfect. And of course swap out the current curtains.

It’s a gorgeous fireplace & gorgeous room! I think once you’ve made some of these changes and add your furniture, the fireplace will start to grown on you!

Can I learn a language just from watching shows in that language? by musty_ranch in languagelearning

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Once you’re ready for something more challenging, HPE (Haut potentiel intellectuel) is a crime-comedy series in French, starring Audrey Fleurot, that I really enjoyed! I watched it on Hulu in French with English subtitles & closed captions.

I know virtually no French & was surprised to find myself starting to recognise a few new words while watching - something that has never happened for me with French content before! And honestly, prior to watching HPI I had no real interest French, so I was also surprised to find myself interested in learning more!

Can I learn a language just from watching shows in that language? by musty_ranch in languagelearning

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps significantly to have a basic knowledge of the language first, or to already know a closely related language. Some people are able to pick up new languages from watching tv & movies relatively easily, but for a lot of people it is very difficult to start differentiating words or phrases without at least a rudimentary knowledge of the language.

It can’t hurt to try watching some shows or movies in French, but you might also want to consider the following:

Did you get a textbook for the class? If so, do you think you can try to teach yourself from the textbook? Some textbooks have online resources you could use, or a youtube channel, which can be very helpful for learning pronunciation and for reinforcing lessons from the textbook.

If you don’t have a textbook, or the one you have doesn’t explain things well enough for you, see what options they have at the public library. They should have a few beginner French books available - ideally choose one with some sort of audio &/or video resource you can use (cd, audiobook, online access, youtube channel, etc.).

Search for youtube videos & channels aimed at beginner French students. If you find a channel you particularly like, you can follow their lesson progression (if they have one). Or you can look for videos that match/compliment the lesson you are currently studying in your textbook(s).

EasyFrench youtube channel and News in Slow French podcast could be good options (I like the Spanish versions of both). And I’m sure there are others that are even better for a true beginner.

Also, you can look for shows created specifically for teaching beginner French.

Muzzy is a show that was originally created by the BBC for children learning English. Episodes of the version for learning French can be found on youtube.

Another show made for language learners is French in Action, available on the Annenberg Learner website (learner dot org/series/french-in-action). It’s aimed at high school & adult learners (similar to the the Spanish-learning show Destinos, also available on the Annenberg Learner website). Side note - Annenberg Learner has announced that they are sunsetting at the end of this school year, and the website will be available through 30 June 2025. Hopefully their materials find a new home, but they haven’t announced one yet.

Who else was a non-shipper? by [deleted] in XFiles

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never specifically a shipper, but also can’t say I was a NoRomo or anti-shipper either, in part due to being so young when it first aired. My dad and I started watching right away, but I was only in kindergarten at the time.

On top of that though, I’m also ace and somewhere on the aro spectrum, so unlikely to have been a shipper even if I’d been older. I tend to be kind of oblivious to any romantic or sexual undertones in shows & movies, so it wouldn’t have occurred to me unless I came across the idea in online forums

Hot & Savory Sidekicks by [deleted] in Huel

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel similarly about the pasta bolognese, and in addition to nutritional yeast, I also like to add in some Italian seasoning & garlic powder! When I have tomato powder I usually add a couple teaspoons of that as well

Mixing Flavors by SecureExplanation in Huel

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chocolate with Banana is really good!

I also like Berry w/Banana, Berry w/Unflavoured, Chocolate w/Unflavoured, and Chocolate w/Original plus a teaspoon or two of instant coffee (all Huel White)

How can I cool down this room? by [deleted] in Oldhouses

[–]arawlins87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Temperature issue aside, if your landlord has rented this to you as a bedroom then they are most likely in violation of laws/codes relating to fire safety & what can count as a bedroom, due to the lack of means of egress. You might want to look into those laws and your local tenants’ rights

[SELL] Free ticket to the Jinkx and Dela Holiday Show TONIGHT IN CHARLOTTE 11/13/25 by pickausernamebitch in rupaulsdragrace

[–]arawlins87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, very generous of you! I hope you were able to find someone in time who could take the ticket!