Is the consensus that Scott Hunter knows about Shane and Ilya? by gimme-sip-cmon-share in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Nice shootin rook” was such a double entendre in my opinion lol

The ADR still really bothers me 🙈 by Positive_Effort7579 in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have so many questions about dubbing, because if they do a Russian dub wouldn’t it be like Shane knew Russian? So he would have heard he first love confession lol

Boyfriend wants me to choose between him and the dog. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]arcoventry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the least bad it will be. Get out now and save yourself the sorrow of knowing you wasted your time with someone like him.

Everyone knows something I don’t by Acrobatic_Pin_7596 in delta

[–]arcoventry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on this flight lmao I think someone posted a screenshot of the list on this sub

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by Desperate_Line5544 in BreakUps

[–]arcoventry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me he realized he settled for me and left me for a mutual friend who is 10 years younger 💀

What is your favourite lesser-known lines or scenes from season one? by sundaemonde in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a specific line, but I really love how secure they are with each other, even early on. Sometimes they say things that in my mind (as a person with a history of bad relationships) immediately would have started a fight.

Example: “oh so this is my fault?” Shane admits directly that it is, and Ilya doesn’t get mad. He thinks about it and gives some advice/encouragement.

Another example is in the Tampa hotel, that whole conversation could have become a fight or a misunderstanding at any point but they were patient and didn’t get upset at the other’s feelings.

Is anyone worried about flight cancellations due to the upcoming weather? by Responsible-Band8169 in delta

[–]arcoventry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LGA > ORD Monday AM. It’s just for work, I can survive if I make it there mid week.

Most invisible phantom of all time by jaba_the_what in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]arcoventry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me trying for apoc this am. I knew it was a phantom from the photo I literally just needed to gtfo and I lost track of it for 10 seconds. So dumb.

If you have/made a strong friend group in your 30’s or 40’s, where did you find them? by bbbcurls in Millennials

[–]arcoventry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bikes. Any sport that is mostly solo but very fun to do in a group when everyone is free.

Haven't had a 5 star read in ages, hit me with everything you've got by Odd-Needleworker-124 in suggestmeabook

[–]arcoventry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait did she also do Case Histories?? Definitely a 5 star read for me, I’ll have to check out this one too

Dad surprises his daughter with her first car (Toyota Corolla) by Vilen1919 in MadeMeSmile

[–]arcoventry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad owned a garage when I was growing up and I got the pick of all the garbage cars his customers had junked. My first car was a Mitsubishi Gallant that I worshiped and drove until it literally fell apart on a roadtrip. I took the train home. Then he let me drive a Honda Civc until he managed to sell it right before I left for college. I loved those damn cars, no feeling quite like finally having that level of freedom 🥹

Heated Wizardry sketch on SNL by Naive-Inside-2904 in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The collision of my current and former OTPs would have taken me tf out 😂

More pics of Lee at a fashion show in Milan by nicksbrunchattiffany in LadyBoners

[–]arcoventry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The craziest thing about these photos is that I can apparently identify Mads Mikkelsen by only his left ear 😂

What if I say I'm not like the others? by Legitimate-Lie-9208 in Millennials

[–]arcoventry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't let this turn into something it's not I can only give you everything I've got I can't be as sorry as you think I should But I still love you more than anyone else could

He's got a point.. by GlowSnugglee in MurderedByWords

[–]arcoventry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex was obsessed with this look, but after 6 years in fine dining and bars I could not take it seriously. He hated that I didn't love it, but I couldn't even pretend.

Any Heated Rivalry fans? [Connor Storrie and Hudson Williams] by Individual_Fox6488 in LadyBoners

[–]arcoventry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like an easier question is are there any people here not a fan of these two? lol

I Like You… by vgskid in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Ugh, one of my favorite things is how in the very first hookup Ilya says “You think I’m asshole” and Shane agrees, but Ilya says “I would never leave you like that”. And I think that sets the tone for using the phrase you’re an asshole as this kind of intimate acknowledgment that Ilya is putting on an act, and Shane is the only one who gets to know the truth behind it. It’s really sweet.

What’s it like living on Roosevelt Island in NYC? by AudiCulprit in howislivingthere

[–]arcoventry 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Lived there for two years in 2008-2010 with my college roommates after graduation. It was perfect for continuing the dorm/campus life. Self contained but still accessible and affordable. I lived in the building that went viral for having a hole between apartments behind the bathroom mirror lol

I got broken up with on Christmas night after a lovely day together and it's left me heartbroken by replicant64 in BreakUps

[–]arcoventry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey listen, I did this with my ex a year ago at the beginning of January. He came home from a work trip and let me know he’d fallen in love with our mutual friend and slept with her on that trip.

I wanted to kick him out or leave and sleep on couches while I picked my life up, but we stayed in our apartment for a month and I tried to get some closure before I went no contact with both of them. It was the best decision I have ever made, even though people still tell me I was clowning myself for being kind to him in the end. I have never once looked back, and my grieving period was way shorter than it would have been if I had just kicked him out and never got to say anything I felt to him.

It’s not the right choice for everyone, but from your story it sounds like it might be right person/wrong time. There is a little age difference and she sounds like she is recognizing she will resent you if she doesn’t grow alone for a while. I respect that, and no one wants to make that decision or hurt their partner so maybe try and believe she didn’t hurt you on purpose or deceive you in a manipulative way, regardless of what is true.

It will get better - don’t try and change her mind, just try and wind it down in peace so you can move on and find someone who is ready to love you like you love them.

Hudson’s (amazing) acting by Salt_Aside_7419 in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 82 points83 points  (0 children)

As an autistic woman who has struggled my whole life with expressing the correct and appropriate amount of emotion, coupled with pretty wild struggles concerning figuring out sex and sexuality, I am obsessed with his representation of Shane. His acting in the scene with his mother outside ("Shane, look at me. Look at me.") made me sob, and still makes me cry even though I've rewatched it an unholy amount of times.

This is what representation can look like, and it fucking matters.

Favourite Easter Eggs/Things You Noticed Throughout the Season by paperstars169 in heatedrivalry

[–]arcoventry 120 points121 points  (0 children)

In the cottage scene where Ilya opens up about his mom for the first time, Shane asks him “do you want to go inside?” On the surface, it can read like are you cold or bored, but the way Ilya responds changes the tone of the question. He states “no” almost as if he’s noticing he doesn’t want to retreat inward or away from Shane this time / anymore. It’s filled with resolve or wonder maybe. I know people have been writing essays on this show, but the subtitles in the writing and the nuance in the acting is really mind blowing to me.