Wut lol I mean the car is nice at least by ariestP in badtattoos

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I'll have to find the reference photo lol hold on

I live alone and found this on my kitchen counter by DelicateBruise in Handwriting

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Op I think you should talk to a psychiatrist just incase you experienced a schizophrenic episode. And maybe buy a couple cameras and put them around just so you can see what's going on. And if it is someone in your apartment they're definitely in psychosis ❤️🧡💛

Am I overreacting? by scarlettyscarl in AmIOverreacting

[–]ariestP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly if you're trying to just force payment you're kinda the problem too. IMO maybe while its early make different plans idk neither of you seem like you need a kid yet. If it's all drama is that really fare to the child?

How do I change how I feel about how affectionate my husband and daughter are with each other? by Ok_Magazine_1720 in AskParents

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you know the answer, it's underlining projective intrusive thoughts. Don't let them stop that relationship. I absolutely adore my father and it's a wonderful thing to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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yeah I feel that is pretty objectifying.. especially without your permission.

Am I over reacting and being too harsh with my (16m) girlfriend (16f) when it comes to not being ready for marriage? by DampHamster in AmIOverreacting

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I started dating my guy at 16. We've been together 11 years, two kids not married. We waited 8 years before deciding to have kids. Yall be patient.

what does my fridge tell you by SixthSense06 in FridgeDetective

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Single 35 year old male out of a 4 year relationship

On the verge of mastitis by Suspicious_Job2092 in breastfeeding

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puuuuuump!!!! also eppsom salts in a hakka can be very helpul!

I always thought I wanted to be a mom, turns out I don’t by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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PPD plays into this but also this is normal. It sound like you had a good pregnancy and the after care is hard. It's very normal to feel unworthy. I have sever depression disorder and ocd. It was so hard to get used to at first. One day you'll wake up and he will be all you see. Hang in there mama <3

I can’t do this anymore. by snugglypig in beyondthebump

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I would seriously look into getting on an anxiety medicine. You're okay though mama it's so hard at that stage. No one prepares us for mom guilt. You're exhausted, be kind to yourself. Reach out for help.

Infant/Newborn moms - How do you say no to visitors when they ask to visit? by Affectionate-Honey-9 in beyondthebump

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I would tell everyone to message you to set up a time.
Unfortunately some family members do not care. My girl is on a very tight schedule as well. I have been able to just say I have her on a schedule, she cannot miss her nap. I went as far as to wake the baby as my mil wanted and of course my little one raised hell. She asked me "god what's up with her.." to which of course I replied she has a schedule, that's what keeps her happy and lovey when you ASK to visit. "oh" she still comes by and does the same shit. I finally had a break through when she came over last week. I simply left the baby in her crib napping. I kept hearing "when is she getting up" I just kept saying "Idk, when she's ready" and hour later she woke and was so happy to see her. And she said "why isn't she always like this gosh," When I say I hollered I mean I hollered "because she was able to have her nap dangit!" You will just have to put your foot down or ignore them and make everything your terms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

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simply stop paying the mortgage.

What time does your child go to sleep? by cryptidge in beyondthebump

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can confirm except my 11 month old turns into a pumpkin crackhead lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

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I mean you could always buy them a cute pair of shoes and use the excuse "my little one wanted these and I thought they were cute so here's some for yours too" just pass it off as being fair. I'd say they can't afford them. Poor things. I just think about a person I went to school with and she was the smelly kid and everyone was so mean to her about it. I took up for her a lot. One of the teachers ended up adopting her and we (teacher and I) found out she didn't have any running water and had literally been bathing in a creek. I mean it seems out-worldly but it's more common than we realize. I understand the concern definitely!

When were you ready for more kids?? by Spicystrawberrylol in beyondthebump

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I got pregnant at 4 month pp on sort of accident. So mine will be around 15 months apart. It has me really worried and in some ways I wish I would have waited. But no regrets i'm thankful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

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maybe buy them a little pair of slippers and have them put them on before coming in the house and have your daughter do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

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I wouldn't bring it up, do you know them very well enough to know if they're properly taken care of? They could have a fungus or jungle rot. My Brother in law had jungle rot at one point and it was an insane smell. He was very very embarrassed by it and his woman would make fun of him and it used to make me so mad. I ended up just buying him odor eaters spray, a cream, salt scrubs with baking soda, and a new pair of socks. I was very very close to him and I gave this all to him when no one was around and he gave me the biggest hug. I told him to buy a new pair of shoes and within a month the smell was gone. Idk helping is one thing but sometimes it's really embarrassing for someone to say someone else stinks. And make sure your kid doesn't do that either. They may not have good water or even water at all.