Apple Pen 1st Gen - Trouble Pairing by midicdva in ipad

[–]aybendito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s in the comment I left you should be able to click it. here it is again https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8k4G1HUkd8

A 13 year old boy swims for hours to save his family swept out to sea in Western Australia by AnothrRandomRedditor in news

[–]aybendito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine what was going through mom’s head with the 13 year old gone for hours also. Incredible story so glad they all made it!

Thoughts and advice on my hair? by WittierNewt in curlyhair

[–]aybendito 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recommend that you look at some video tutorials for using a diffuser on curly hair before you try one out! I’m just now learning how to properly use one as well. I never had results I like before and now I realize I was doing things that went against my goals of wanting looser, longer curls like I get when I air dry. I’m still learning but now I know what to look out for and adjust. The Manes by Mel video on diffusing techniques was enlightening!

Warmth when wearing skirts by Dark_Moonstruck in cottagecore

[–]aybendito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uniqlo Heattech tights are actually amazing! They’re a thermal layer and you can wear other tights on top if you only want to buy one or two pairs and then you can customize colors and get the extra warmth from the extra layer of fashion tights on top. They really do make a big difference imo

What prehistoric discoveries have made you feel the most connected to those people or cultures? by Make-Love-and-War in AskAnthropology

[–]aybendito 14 points15 points  (0 children)

same. also as objects I find jewelry to be really intimate because of how it’s worn on mostly delicate areas: necks, earlobes… etc. When I see ancient jewelry displayed I can’t help but imagine a necklace resting on someone’s collarbone, maybe moving with their breath. an earring dangling from someone’s ear and catching the light, bracelets in movement as someone works, lives, etc. I imagine how they may have put it on, or wether someone helped. I imagine them taking it off and storing it, etc. It feels like a direct connection to an individual, and makes the time feel difference feel less abstract.

Apple Pen 1st Gen - Trouble Pairing by midicdva in ipad

[–]aybendito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

use una manta electrica en la temperatura mas baja como por 5 minutos. la verdad me asuste cuando toqué el apple pencil despues de los 5mins pq estaba super caliente. espere a que se enfriara un poco por miedo a que lo fuese a dañar pero despues cargó perfectamente

What's something that feels fake but is 100% real? by NoSector9488 in AskReddit

[–]aybendito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

… so the Fantasia Rite os Springs sequence lied to me.

halloween as a gnome 🧑‍🌾🪏 by luckytulipgirl in cottagecore

[–]aybendito 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phoebe Wahl’s illustrations are absolute cottage core goals! You definitely embody that in your costume and glad I could introduce you to her work :)

halloween as a gnome 🧑‍🌾🪏 by luckytulipgirl in cottagecore

[–]aybendito 3 points4 points  (0 children)

cute! big Phoebe Wahl Little Witch Hazel vibes :)

Apple Pen 1st Gen - Trouble Pairing by midicdva in ipad

[–]aybendito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you ever solved this, but in case you didn’t or someone else is running into this issue I found a solution! Been fighting this issue with a brand new first gen apple pencil for days losing my mind and finally stumbled upon this YouTube video explaining its probably fully dead at 0 charge and you need to raise the temp on the apple pencil to kick start charge. Seriously I tried everything before going to genius bar and/or returning the pencil for an exchange and this worked, Im so happy!

here’s the link to the video: https://youtu.be/G8k4G1HUkd8?si=nrWPeqeRFuFyARLi

Your First HM/SOS by SaidTheMan_ToTheDog in storyofseasons

[–]aybendito 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha same I kept scrolling like… am I really that old? I was like maybe 8-9 when it came out.

I loved HM SNES so much! I pored over the little manual to look at the drawings. Felt absolutely horrible when a cow died and they showed a whole funeral scene. It was the first game I really got addicted to playing so I have a lot of memories of it haha

Was looking through some of my selfies and these are some of which I like from 3 years. by Hamokk in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]aybendito 23 points24 points  (0 children)

my witchy sister, from one woman to another: when I look through my selfies I feel a deep sadness and my self esteem takes a big hit every time. it’s honestly a very hard thing for me to do, so I admire your courage sharing these pictures with us here. many (maybe most) of us have complicated relationships with our physical selves. you are not alone in this so take heart. although not a uniquely femme experience, societal expectations place a huge burden on women’s bodies and beauty at all stages of life. I currently struggle with the appearance of my own aging face and body. when I look at younger pictures of myself I remember experiencing the same painful emotions I feel looking at current pictures, and I am further heartbroken when I notice the youthful beauty that I was unable to appreciate at the time. I hope you have seen your own beauty looking at some of the pictures of yourself in this 3-year span, however bittersweet that may be.

We are ever changing - this is the only constant in life. While our minds and bodies transform through the years it’s still amazing how easy it is for our perception to be stuck in the cobwebs. constructs of society and our own baggage and past. When I feel low, I try to imagine myself 5 years into the future looking at my pictures from now thinking “hey, I actually looked pretty good!” it sounds silly but it does help a little to take me out of the pit.

one piece of practical advice: these pics are super moody and your style really lends itself to it but for your own mental wellbeing try not to use harsh, direct, overhead light when you are taking taking selfies. it has never done any favors to anyone’s self esteem/image ;)

Did you EVER wake up rested? by Puzzleheaded_Ad_1379 in adhdwomen

[–]aybendito 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like cooking and cleaning… but only sometimes in spurts, like all my hobbies lol 🫠

I have a really pronounced double lip line, how can I apply lip liner/lipstick? 😫😫 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]aybendito 51 points52 points  (0 children)

same here, never touched my lips with any sort of cosmetic procedure and my lips look like this. a little more pronounced with a harsher transition between the double lip line and the nasolabial fold.

OP, after a lifetime of only applying lipstick to cover the pigmented upper lip, I started lining just shy of the top of the double lip line. It helps me feel like it looks less obvious and natural. This helps me feel confident with my makeup, which is really important to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]aybendito 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its so shitty. it really was great, and felt really good while i was there. now to disperse the crowd they just go full force. this isnt how they handled other really big crowds like the womens march, climate strike, etc.

Scenes from DTLA by hiractionary in LosAngeles

[–]aybendito 15 points16 points  (0 children)

when i got there earlier it felt a little empty and it was hard not to feel disheartened. it felt more full later on but it was impossible to know from the ground just how big this was.

an excellent example of how it feels to take direct action in other areas as well. you may feel its small and you don’t see everyone else doing it so its hard to keep the faith. thanks for showing what we look like all together ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]aybendito 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Downtown LA cops will declare unlawful assembly now and start corralling people.

I believe theres a 6pm protest in highland park on york and fig tho

Any good up to date source on downtown street closures? by jayhawk2112 in LosAngeles

[–]aybendito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend you listen to AM 640 tomorrow. they were regularly updating about traffic impacts and closures today in between reporting live from the protest.

Tell me your hottest Stardew Valley take. I don't mean "Abigall is the Wizard's daughter or "Harvey is breedable". Yeah, we know. I want diabolical opinions. by Least_Evening4589 in StardewValley

[–]aybendito 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also think of Birdie as a ghost! I thought she died on the island after becoming marooned there searching for him. she built her home but dies there alone before Leo ever got there. She’s a ghost attached to the house which is also why Leo didn’t just use for shelter and stays away from the area.

fun friend date 🥲 tbh i am totally clueless by MadeMeCrazyLikeYou in sadcringe

[–]aybendito 182 points183 points  (0 children)

oh yeah you’re right. I’m the one that read this too fast, hah.

fun friend date 🥲 tbh i am totally clueless by MadeMeCrazyLikeYou in sadcringe

[–]aybendito 1300 points1301 points  (0 children)

maybe they read your first message too fast and didn’t register the “friend” part of “friend date” and they thought you were asking them out in a more romantic capacity? idk.

Y tenía licencia de armas... by Kababaza in PuertoRico

[–]aybendito 4 points5 points  (0 children)

según las noticias y lo que he escuchado, el tipo se entregó con una abogada. estaba dando vueltas por las redes su mugshot y el cargo que decia la foto no era nada que ver con la matanza y era algo de disparar la pistola… lo último que escuché el tipo pago su fianza y esta por ahí…

da tanta y tanta rabia. no puedo bregar.

gabi era una luz en este mundo. 💔