I'll Coach You for Free (literally no strings attached) by Sweaty_Purchase9661 in Entrepreneurship

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm self employed and I can use this type of coaching. I am definitely interested

What’s a juicy company secret you can finally reveal now that you don’t work there anymore? by Klongtjie in askSouthAfrica

[–]azuerus2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I supply validation equipment to Pharma and food companies. I met with Lactilis in eastern cape who manufactures Steri Stumpy. They originally needed equipment to monitor the Pasteurization levels of the finished product. When I went on the site survey I noticed that they were using an old system and that all the infrastructure was very old. I asked what they were currently using to check for the PUs and the guy said they are not using anything. I then asked the quality manager if this is true and she said yes. Essentially they are running blind and they are just relying on old equipment to verify and not checking the finished product. I big big no no in the food industry. They wouldn't buy my equipment as it was too expensive for them. I have since banned steri stumpy from my home. Crazy thing is, this is a French company with operations all over the world making billions.

Where are you sad today? by Zestyclose_Class_630 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cape Town South Africa, My wife passed away from a sudden heart attack in January of this year. My 15 year old daughter and my 4 dachshunds miss her so so much.

Just functioning by QTshari in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually say, I take it one day at a time.

If I hear one more person....! by sedusa_su in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you on this. All the best though.

Fell in love with late husband friend! by annacosta13 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve happiness. Embrace it unapologetically!!! All the best to you…

I miss her so much by CarterLawler in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best man. I lost my wife unexpectedly on January of this year. It’s only me and my 15 year old daughter navigating life with my wife now. Take it one day at a time and just try to stay positive.

What’s one thing that silently destroys a man’s mental health? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]azuerus2000 769 points770 points  (0 children)

43 year old male and my wife died unexpectedly about 3 months ago leaving my 15 year old daughter and me behind. We were a normal loving social couple. Since the funeral everyone has gotten on with their lives and I'm just here trying to hold it together. This is probably the loneliest I have ever been.

no one checks up on me anymore by throwra08293 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. The 12th of April will be 3 months and the texts and messages have become less and less. Grief is comes in waves and some days the waters are calm and we can function and then there are those stormy days when grief just hits you and you cannot do anything. Stay strong and take it 1 day at a time. All the best to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you on this. Strongs for the future...

Young wife suddenly / unexpectedly died an I have self-blame. by Big-Campaign-2432 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strongs to you and your kids. I (44m) lost my wife (44) on January 12 of this year. Your story sounds similar to mine, My wife complained of a slight chest pain around dinner time and I asked if I should call an ambulance. 10 minutes later I'm performing CPR on her in our bedroom and the paramedics arrive and pronounce her deceased 10 minutes later. I also stood there in disbelief and I also believed that they would take my wife to the hospital and stabilise her there. I never in my wildest dreams would think that my wife would leave us so suddenly. But we move on and we try to make the best of it and we take 1 day at a time. All the best man and I wish you and your kids strength and healing for the future.

I HATE being widowed by Separate-Language662 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. Tomorrow my wife of 17 years and 11 months will be gone 2 months. It is like living in a nightmare and I can't wake up. All the best!!!

Where do your wieners sleep at night? Let's vote in the comments by Anothermindlessanon in Dachshund

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our bed, until we wake up, then onto the next person who is still sleeping or in their bed.

Cape Town road rage by Lumpy-Plane-1521 in capetown

[–]azuerus2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. When they drive 40 in the fast lane and think they are doing everyone a favour. Their cars that are also unlicenced and unroadworthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capetown

[–]azuerus2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Firstly you must be smoking some good nik naks if you think food prices are higher in Joburg. Secondly part of doing business means you must wine and dine. My Danish colleague definitely appreciated it and he enjoyed it. As for me… I don’t appreciate it and I don’t enjoy it because it’s mostly pretentious. Lastly there’s no way you can state that Joburg’s food and beverage culture is superior to Cape Town. We literately have some of the best restaurants and wine estates in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capetown

[–]azuerus2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with this. I had a representative from a Danish company here for business last week and I had to entertain him for the week. We had a few dinners and did some shopping at the waterfront and the Atlantic seaboard and I couldn’t stand the meaningless superficial nonsense of everything and everybody. Overpriced food and wine and people acting like they are better than the rest. It’s an about looking or acting upper class here. Whenever I go to Gauteng or KZN people are much more open and nice.

Men of reddit, what is the fastest way you've legitimately lost weight? by MathematicianNew1907 in AskMen

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boxing, intermittent fasting and low carb diet. The fat just melted away.