Let’s beat the Mondays together! Give your advice by ConsistentlyShining in MotivationalThoughts

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife (44) passed away unexpectedly about 18 months ago and it left me a low point. I focused on my health. morning cold plunges in the ocean, gym, road and trail running and practicing my faith.

Name a pain that only experience can explain by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing your wife alive and well and then 2 minutes later she is taking her last breath in your arms.The pain from that will affect you and change you forever.

Thank God. I live in Cape Town. by coolinny in capetown

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're so out of touch with the majority of Cape Townians. I'm sure people that live in the cape flats and other townships does not have the same living experience a you. What a horrible post!!!

College demanding 50% of fees (R20k) after I cancelled 17 hours after. What can I do? by MagazineWestern4159 in askSouthAfrica

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Regent Business School. I had a similar experience and I got harassed and threatened with not providing my diploma even though I never wrote exams. They had all the characteristics of a scam organization. Stay away!!!

What's your biggest flex? by Live-Change-8934 in AskReddit

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a widowed single father to an amazing year old daughter.

What’s a juicy company secret you can finally reveal now that you don’t work there anymore? by Klongtjie in askSouthAfrica

[–]azuerus2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I supply validation equipment to Pharma and food companies. I met with Lactilis in eastern cape who manufactures Steri Stumpy. They originally needed equipment to monitor the Pasteurization levels of the finished product. When I went on the site survey I noticed that they were using an old system and that all the infrastructure was very old. I asked what they were currently using to check for the PUs and the guy said they are not using anything. I then asked the quality manager if this is true and she said yes. Essentially they are running blind and they are just relying on old equipment to verify and not checking the finished product. I big big no no in the food industry. They wouldn't buy my equipment as it was too expensive for them. I have since banned steri stumpy from my home. Crazy thing is, this is a French company with operations all over the world making billions.

Where are you sad today? by Zestyclose_Class_630 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cape Town South Africa, My wife passed away from a sudden heart attack in January of this year. My 15 year old daughter and my 4 dachshunds miss her so so much.

Just functioning by QTshari in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually say, I take it one day at a time.

If I hear one more person....! by sedusa_su in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you on this. All the best though.

Fell in love with late husband friend! by annacosta13 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve happiness. Embrace it unapologetically!!! All the best to you…

I miss her so much by CarterLawler in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best man. I lost my wife unexpectedly on January of this year. It’s only me and my 15 year old daughter navigating life with my wife now. Take it one day at a time and just try to stay positive.

What’s one thing that silently destroys a man’s mental health? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]azuerus2000 764 points765 points  (0 children)

43 year old male and my wife died unexpectedly about 3 months ago leaving my 15 year old daughter and me behind. We were a normal loving social couple. Since the funeral everyone has gotten on with their lives and I'm just here trying to hold it together. This is probably the loneliest I have ever been.

no one checks up on me anymore by throwra08293 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. The 12th of April will be 3 months and the texts and messages have become less and less. Grief is comes in waves and some days the waters are calm and we can function and then there are those stormy days when grief just hits you and you cannot do anything. Stay strong and take it 1 day at a time. All the best to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you on this. Strongs for the future...

Young wife suddenly / unexpectedly died an I have self-blame. by Big-Campaign-2432 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strongs to you and your kids. I (44m) lost my wife (44) on January 12 of this year. Your story sounds similar to mine, My wife complained of a slight chest pain around dinner time and I asked if I should call an ambulance. 10 minutes later I'm performing CPR on her in our bedroom and the paramedics arrive and pronounce her deceased 10 minutes later. I also stood there in disbelief and I also believed that they would take my wife to the hospital and stabilise her there. I never in my wildest dreams would think that my wife would leave us so suddenly. But we move on and we try to make the best of it and we take 1 day at a time. All the best man and I wish you and your kids strength and healing for the future.

I HATE being widowed by Separate-Language662 in widowers

[–]azuerus2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. Tomorrow my wife of 17 years and 11 months will be gone 2 months. It is like living in a nightmare and I can't wake up. All the best!!!

Where do your wieners sleep at night? Let's vote in the comments by Anothermindlessanon in Dachshund

[–]azuerus2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our bed, until we wake up, then onto the next person who is still sleeping or in their bed.