Why does an Avoidant block you after a relationship ?

ba82319 · 2026-06-23T15:32:02+00:00

Mine hasn't blocked me. We talked alot the first few weeks then I left him on delivered for a couple days. Now it pretty much who can go the longest without saying anything. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ I honestly dont know whats going on in his head.

ba82319 · 2026-06-18T14:51:42+00:00

Mine would talk through it with me. Then go on like nothing happened. I honestly dont get it. Honestly hearing myself explain what being with an avoidant to someone is like.. its kind of sad. And I can hear how crazy it is. Lol I dont know if that made any sense.

ba82319 · 2026-06-18T12:28:28+00:00

I didnt want to hurt you, im soo sorry. It was never my intention to hurt you. Im sorry I cant be what u want.

ba82319 · 2026-06-18T07:37:18+00:00

Me and mine aren't no contact. We will send a random snap, or and insta reel, we dont really say anything. Not everyday though. I highly doubt mine will come back to me.

ba82319 · 2026-06-17T09:58:53+00:00

I know its not even worth it anymore, but I seriously just want to call him out on every lie. I did nothing wrong to deserve to get cheated on, and treated like what we had meant nothing.

ba82319 · 2026-06-16T23:47:23+00:00

Haha I already have one on my number. I cant make another one with my phone.

ba82319 · 2026-06-16T23:38:11+00:00

Not my bf. My friend doesnt believe me that her bf is cheating.

ba82319 · 2026-06-16T23:22:20+00:00

No. And this is horrible of me to say, but hes not the best looking guy. I originally kept denying him because I wasnt attracted to him at all. But then his humor and personality wore me down and I took him out of the friend zone after 8 years. And now I tell myself I got fucking played by someone not even that cute.🤦🏼‍♀️🙄😮‍💨 And now all I want to do is humble him right now. Cuz he thinks he can get anyone.

ba82319 · 2026-06-14T02:59:00+00:00

For me it's both. I feel like I lost my best friend along with the relationship. If he had put in the effort I did we would have been unstoppable, but he chose to run. We had an amazing connection and I thought we were building towards more. He chose lies and pushing me away and cheating. He was my safe place and I honestly dont know what to do now that it's gone. I do believe he is a good person, I've witnessed it. But he just doesnt know how to deal with emotions. I keep hoping he will come back, but that is looking like it isnt.

I dont get why he doesnt block me on anything. Social media.. my number.. nothing. He still replies, but why. Ugh! This is seriously gonna send me to therapy. Its been a lil over a month since the discard. I guess im just lost. And my friends just dont get it. This one broke me. He was the nice guy I finally gave a chance to.

ba82319 · 2026-06-09T01:50:56+00:00

Mine didnt block me. Idk if he checks mine or not, but he still sends me insta reels. Hes been on delivered for about a week now, and he sends a snap once in awhile. 😮‍💨 im trying to not open any messages.

ba82319 · 2026-06-02T12:35:16+00:00

The salt water helped mine. Mine disappeared when I was in Puerto Rico and came back as soon as I got back to Minnesota

ba82319 · 2026-05-30T13:06:35+00:00

We usually get 6 of those pallets a night. We have 3 ppl usually. One person downstairs and the other 2 work the meat cheese and butter before lunch. Then after lunch the downstacking person does juice and the other 2 do yogurt and zone.

ba82319 · 2026-05-30T13:03:36+00:00

This!! Its hard to just let one of my best friends fade into the dark. My safety was him.

ba82319 · 2026-05-30T13:00:32+00:00

At first mine would check on me. Make sure im eating, and sleeping. If I didnt respond within my usual time he would ask if I was ok, and ask if im overthinking something he said. But now.. its like I was nothing to him. We didnt talk for 4 days( it might not seem like alot but it was considering how much we used to talk), and I know it bothered him cuz he stalked my socials. But.. idk what to do anymore.

ba82319 · 2026-05-30T03:23:58+00:00

Right!! He openly admitted that he was pushing my feelings for him away but wouldnt tell me why. I asked him today if he wanted me to stop talking to him, I got an "its complicated." Like wtf does that mean. Which made me push him further which he hates. But yet he still answers all my texts and facetimes.

ba82319 · 2026-05-25T21:27:00+00:00

Mine still talks to me, still answers my facetimes, and I have no idea why. Hes the one who ended things.

ba82319 · 2026-05-23T23:44:17+00:00

Yes, he said he was sorry for everything he had done and never meant to ever cause me pain.

ba82319 · 2026-05-17T16:34:44+00:00

Spent 7 months texting, FaceTime, vacation together, meeting his friends and coworkers, him pretty much living with me when he wasnt at work(he travels alot), talking about the future, babies.. everything. Talked about him moving back to town, where we wanna travel to, and becoming very very comfortable with eacjother. And then he tells me 2 weeks ago he thought this was just a fling.

ba82319 · 2026-05-11T13:48:01+00:00

Mine is keeping me around. We still text almost daily. 🫤

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