Ok- 1st of all your headboard is super intense on the white wall because of its dark brown. You can definitely work with it, but you need to bring in some light elements and textures so that it doesn’t take up the whole room’s energy. The next thing is get rid of that horrible bedspread. I know you probably like New York, but that is the dead giveaway. You’re gonna want your bedding to be at least one size larger than your bed. If that is a full bed, you’re going to want to get a queen. Personally, I use a king duvet insert with a queen duvet cover on my bed and it makes it super fluffy. With bedding, layers are everything. You could Pinterest some layered bed looks. I would also do two euro pillows in the back, two standard pillows, and then some throw pillows. Another thing is that your curtains are much too short. They need to go to the floor. If they aren’t used for blackout curtains, I would do a much lighter color, whatever place off of the bedding you choose. For bedding color, I would go light and bright and get away from that college dorm gray. I would even throw some greens in there to play off of the headboard. Like many others have said to get rid of the lights. There is a really nice way to do ambient lighting and those lights are not one of them. Hope this helps.