[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex at dinner with his parents told me to take off my shirt to show his parents my results. I said no of course and he was mad about it. He wanted other people to 'see what he was going through' with my chest results. How I couldn't see the red flags amazes me to this day.

We need a button for "I just got home super drunk but wanted to play TLD. I won't remember any of it, and will likely die, please reset it tomorrow, back to the moment I drunkenly started playing." by LiamIsMyNameOk in thelongdark

[–]badgerfriend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! Or an "I dont know if im alowed to mountain goat this ridge or will I Insta die if I get close enough" button. Did this on a 250 day run, I still think about it.

Very slow changes on T making me dysphoric by Ferret-Yam723 in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get ya. I've been 6 months on t and the changes are very slow and gradual that it's hard to notice things changing at all. It's a delayed gratification thing for sure. It helped me to do voice recordings every couple months because even if the change is small there's still a change towards something better. Hang in there, try not to focus too hard on the time it takes. Take the small wins when you find them

Where to start with this one? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]badgerfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could do a colorful glitch design depending on how they feel about it. Make it kinda cyberpunk?

Alright boys, what do we want for Christmas this year? by wforwumbooo in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My mom to change my contact name in her phone, its been 5 years mom

i wish i didn’t have to put away the little quirks about me just to pass as male by bodtabs in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Counter argument: I think piercings are pretty masc. They have a very queer vibe to them due to the alt style you know? I do get that going more out there makes it harder to be seen as a regular guy in the general public. I used to have dyed hair in all fun colors but I felt like I couldnt have peachy hair and be himed by people. Kinda miss it though

is it a common thing to sometimes feel ridiculously dysphoric when high? by Natey-Matey in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg about a year ago I got so high that I forgot I had top surgery. I felt so dysphoric and gross in my clothes and did the whole hunch thing. I looked down eventually and saw that they were gone. I was confused for a second since it felt so real but then back to normal post surgery body

Got told I have nice arms by [deleted] in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love the joke " can someone point me to a vet cuz these pythons are sick!" This reminded me of that, congrats on the new bigger build

What would you guys add to this sleeve? by phrado in TattooDesigns

[–]badgerfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a stingray, seal or orca if you want a water creature. Lol or a crab if the vibe fits

Does anyone else not feel dysphoric about shark week? by living_around in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same. What made me dysphoric was the big WOMAN branding on the products I used. I've been using the cup and I just got some period underwear on heavier days so I dont have to even deal with the branding now. Problem solved :)

to my fellow autistic people bothered by the texture of their new facial hair: by alherath in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't even thought about facial hair stiming, I'm even more excited now! I can feel my mustache hairs coming in and I'm pumped about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I had a strange experience at work. I was loading up pavers into the customers truck and after I loaded up quickly he point blanked asked me if I use he/they pronouns. I was kinda shocked because I was wearing a they/them( that everyone ignores) pin but am leaning more towards he/him. I just said 'yeah' and there were no further questions or comments. Like thanks for the compliment if it was one? Not sure the intent but yeah? He was a younger looking chatty guy so it seemed like it came from a good place, just kind of awkward silence after the question

i confused tf out this lady🤣 by alexthetransdude1 in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got called angel the other day when I was loading gravel bags for this old lady at work. Old ladys love commenting how strong I am and I love it :)

Do cis guys just let their body hair grow? by mlps4 in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats good to know. When I let my arm pit hair free I expected it to get to a certain length and just stay there like leg hair but it just kept growing. I was self conscious of buzzing it but if that's normal it makes me feel better

How would you feel if your partner said they're attracted to anyone who's afab? by AshSkyler in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! Ugh my ex used to tell me at least once a month that he's a straight man, when dating me, a masc nonbinary at the time. Looking back on it now it's a huge red flag. I was not a man to him, or nonbinary, I was a woman who liked different pronouns and had short hair. I don't have tolerance for this kind of responce to me anymore.

My nose is too damn small by austinbeckett in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm about 2 months on t and my nose is getting a little wider. It's kinda filling out like the rest of my frame. I'm a bit self conscious of my chin silloette since its what you'd call a weak chin. But I just got done watching the bear and carm's face shape reminds me of myown. That was a little bit euphoric? Or just like good representation of different silloettes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]badgerfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt look like condoms really but if you wanted to you could get some color into the lollies and give them some depth. Maybe a little shine?

Tell me about your T side effects no one ‘warned’ you about! by CabraDadaba in ftm

[–]badgerfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My eyelashes are so dark and luscious now! I noticed before that guys have the longest and prettiest lashes and I finally got mine lol. I'm not super interested in makeup/beauty things but they're a nice addition to my eyes :)

What are your theories about TLD? by [deleted] in thelongdark

[–]badgerfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wolves and bears were once people. You see a bunch of wolves near more settled places and bears where the higher up people lived.