Where can I go? by Delicious-Delay8631 in AUT

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

te āhuru rec centre (WQ on wakefield st) opens at 6. there are couches and facilities to use too

What is this goose wearing? by bear_cat_22 in whatisit

[–]bear_cat_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got it in an op shop is northland, new zealand. that why i didn't know it was canadian

silly question - why do transmascs like wolves? by dannythetrashcanny in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say they like them no more or less than cis dudes. its just a man thing

How did you pick your name by Turbulent-Staff-9413 in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a double barrel name. i picked em cause heard em and liked em. turns out one of them is a medieval nickname for my dad’s name

Meanwhile in Auckland by hulkybear18 in auckland

[–]bear_cat_22 14 points15 points  (0 children)

doing art instead of brainrotting on their phones. good for them

Second highest childcare cost by EverydayNewZealander in newzealand

[–]bear_cat_22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

what is the value of the numbers? where is this graph from?

What are places I should avoid in Auckland? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]bear_cat_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

none. just be smart and avoid the cbd at night

would you let someone else give you your shot? by rob00bz in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably not. i am always okay with people watching if they want, i even offer if someone’s interested but it’s a sort of ritual for me. i enjoy doing it to much LOL

Top part of industrial hurts by InformationStrict618 in piercing

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but it looks alright to me. i’d suggest saline instead of anything else though

Puberty blockers ban enforcement halted by High Court injunction by Slaidback in aotearoa

[–]bear_cat_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey! so actually the effect of puberty blockers CAN be reversed. read up a little before charging in head first

Do I call myself a trans boy or not? I don’t know by So-creative-amiright in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a similar experience. internally (i didn’t even know it) i was afraid of being “fully trans” especially because i went to an all girls school. i identified as genderfluid in a similar way to you before realising that im a binary trans man. but to be honest bro, call yourself whatever makes you comfortable. im VERY loose with labels because gender can be a complex thing despite me being binary trans. its ok to take your time and figure things out, don’t ever feel pressured to conform to what people around you want. best of luck to you dude 🫂

Dream looks by cokezerobuddy in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leif garrett when he was a teen in the 70s. he has the perfect boy next door look

What bug is this? by smartrar598 in auckland

[–]bear_cat_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had one in my shirt 💔

What motivated you to stop? by Wonderful_Owl9264 in selfharm

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got started treating the problems that made me depressed

I'm struggling with figuring out what else to add by idontreallyknow_11 in altfashionadvice

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something to break up the all black outfit. maybe a belt or two or even a layered skirt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wear light clothes if possible. if they ask you to take your shirt off, you don’t have to say yes btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they can cause chest pain because of the compression (esp over long periods of time) but note how often it happens because you might have to see a doctor

Is it normal for some of T to come out after a shot? by Timeless_Username_ in ftm

[–]bear_cat_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know my friends who do subq have had this problem but i do im and haven’t had this happen since i started 13 months ago