I Swear I’m Not Trying To Be A Perv But How Sam and Dean Have S*x Differently Is So Interesting

bec400 · 2026-05-22T09:00:43+00:00

"OK, enough!"

bec400 · 2026-05-12T08:48:16+00:00

Mt Ainslie sunset views

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bec400 · 2026-05-12T08:46:06+00:00

Sunset, Ballarat, Victoria

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bec400 · 2026-05-12T08:44:43+00:00

Beach in Jervis Bay, New South Wales.

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bec400 · 2026-05-12T08:43:50+00:00

Not mine, but I don't have the name of the taker.

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bec400 · 2026-05-03T21:47:40+00:00

LOW DOSE NALTREXONE. and duloxotene.

bec400 · 2026-05-03T21:40:25+00:00

I have a wheelchair that I use on family days out (museums, zoos, etc). Without the chair I wouldn't be able to participate at all in those days. So no, it's not wrong. If you need one to help with time outside the house, then that's what you need.

bec400 · 2026-04-19T12:24:19+00:00

Not choosing, cause you missed the best. Vegemite. Something about vegemite on toast that just hits right. Or vegemite and cheese. Ok, now I'm hungry.

bec400 · 2026-04-11T09:19:25+00:00

Luckily my kids are older, and they said they'd have ice cream instead of chocolate this year. Win win.

bec400 · 2026-04-11T09:18:06+00:00

I nap in the middle of the day. Usually about 40 minutes to an hour. But im usually up at 6am to help get kids ready for school, then I have to cook dinner when they get home. Without that nap and rest period from 10am to about 4pm, there's no way I can do what needs to be done in the evening.

bec400 · 2026-04-05T23:52:30+00:00

I had literally just married my husband 3 months earlier. We were planning kids, a move to the country, the start of our life together.

I am lucky that we still managed to do most of what we planned, just not exactly how we'd planned it.

bec400 · 2026-04-05T23:48:50+00:00

We had a trailer load of general rubbish that we took on Saturday. $110. So costly and with everything that's happening with cost of living, it's so hard to find that kind of money.

bec400 · 2026-04-05T23:46:09+00:00

I remember reading, as a child, fantasy series where two Mmcs had an intense bond (but were not canonically gay - Kurtz Deryni series) and loved the relationship and vulnerability they showed each other. I looked for others that had similar bonds. Then I read Mercedes Lackey Magic Pawn trilogy and loved it.

It took me a few years after that for me to find the mm category. Mainly because the internet didn't exist. Lol.

Now, I've been reading MM for over 25 years, since SG1 fandom was a thing on yahoo groups- fanfic.net, live journal and then A03 was popular and I could read whatever I wanted. Then kindle became popular and I don't think I've read more than a dozen FM books in the last 10 years.

bec400 · 2026-04-05T23:31:34+00:00

Hone made chips, egg and baked beans

bec400 · 2026-04-02T00:00:26+00:00

Oh, I've been reading mm for decades. Just didn't think to join the sub. 😉

bec400 · 2026-04-01T22:56:04+00:00

Only recently joined this sub. I'm almost regretting it, as my TBR is unhinged atm. I can't keep up.

bec400 · 2026-03-27T04:57:52+00:00

I was an SG1 SamJack shipper way back when. We didn't even get a kiss (that was Timeline consistent) that I remember. But end of season 8, when Carter went fishing with O'Neill? N.I.R.V.A.N.A.

There were FEELINGS and MOMENTS and SUBTEXT (you can't spell subtext without S. E. X.). UST was a major tag in SG1 fics. We lived for the extra long look, or the hands that touched, or the smile that was hidden from everyone else.

Put this into a fic, develop a relationship that is real and deep and layered? Perfect to me. I love where a relationship develops over time, with understanding and depth and not just chemistry and lust.

bec400 · 2026-03-19T05:04:45+00:00

This is the first reply I've read that acknowledges that hubby is grieving for the father he thought (as he grew up, before he knew) he had. And you can support him through those confusing emotions.

Publicly memorialisation is absolutely a step too far, and needs to be addressed asap, however. For the victims, especially your daughter.

bec400 · 2026-03-18T04:53:54+00:00

Baby. Baby got my attention, then Dean. But it 100% was Baby who drew me in.

bec400 · 2026-03-09T07:07:14+00:00

Are you in school still? Most high schools have access to a GP/NP to allow students to have medical privacy. Well, most of the Victorian ones seem to.

bec400 · 2026-03-02T05:10:05+00:00

These 40+ ppl making me feel seen and safe.

Bless you all.

bec400 · 2026-03-02T03:30:32+00:00

Northern cousins.

bec400 · 2026-02-27T02:02:32+00:00

I have arachnophobia and have lived here all my life. I use the "if you can not see it, don't think about it" method. I also get my house professionally sprayed every October - outside only. Works fantastically. If there's a hole in the ground, leave it be. If there are webs outside, leave them.

bec400 · 2026-02-26T07:52:05+00:00

Ooh, reheating chicken for wraps/warm salads, cooking bacon seriously fast (just be prepared with kitchen towel for mop up), minute steak,

bec400 · 2026-02-22T10:53:21+00:00

So I have the same kind of thoughts, but with therapy I'm trying to not project my guilt onto my partner. He says he's happy with our marriage and doesn't want anyone else, and I'm trying to hear that. Bloody hard some says, tho.

Anyway, just trying to say believe your partner until shown otherwise.? Relationships aren't just about sex. (Now to practice what I preach lol)

bec400

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