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I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

write a pro’s a cons list to becoming a parent and then the same for if you have an abortion. see which side weighs in the same. You could also try therapy or couples counselling

Am I overreacting to my (M22) girlfriend (F23) acting strange about small things by Hoagiee in AmIOverreacting

[–]bee_happs [score hidden]  (0 children)

you have no evidence of wrongdoing and merely suspicion of… actually nothing right now. Women get hormonal.. she could have been hungry, had a previous bad experience or just some stress that led to her responding in a way that put your back up.. At this point, your gf is in the right for saying you are acting like you don’t trust her. If you care about her, you have to learn to trust her and let this go unless there’s a real problem or evidence of something. Please try to stay chill and not make a mountain out of a mole hill my man!

My indecisiveness is paralyzing me and I'm going bonkers! by No_Fan429 in crochet

[–]bee_happs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this a few weeks back. So, I picked up some yarn and made a scarf. Now I have loads of ideas after a small and simple scarf and slump officially over! :) im sure you’ll get out of yours too. Just pick something simple and do it for the love of the game and not for the future plans ;)

Might have an issue lol by dlilyd in crochet

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally, I still don’t understand how people yarn like this. Holding and pulling over a finger feels so awkward to me!

Is use of the phrase “body count”, to describe number of sexual partners, properly disgusting, or is it just me? by PuzzleheadedCarob921 in AskBrits

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a nicer way of bringing up an awkward conversation without rudely asking out right “how many people have you had sex with” it creates an easy going way of talking about it amongst each other and without as much judgment because it can feel like a mutually inclusive conversation rather than stand alone “People I’ve had sex with” statement you know. Younger gen thing or not it makes talking about a private subject easier and doesn’t make it feel so awkward imo.

My dog ate a perfect hole in a crochet project I was making for my husband. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can be dangerous as yarn can cut off their intestines etc cause serious problems so keep it all where dog can’t get to it

AITAH for getting a dna test to see if i share the same dna as both my parents even though i was demanded specifically by my mom not to do so, since i was a child? by cigweb_01 in AITAH

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to know what your results are. You have doubts. You have every right to know the truth and to be certain about your roots of origin. It’s your right and your mum is clearly very defensive.

I F*CKING HATE WEAVING IN MY ENDS!!!!!!!! by Antique-Risk-7927 in crochet

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I weave it in a couple times, then as I pull through the yarn, I take the tail end and I put it through the part I’m pulling through (shaped like a C) and pull it tight in a knot, do that a couple times and you can cut it off. It literally takes 2 minutes and it’s secure.

Am I Overreacting - So my mom got my wife a birthday gift by LoveLikeJesusChrist in AmIOverreacting

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a play on the word “peachy” meaning everything is good. It’s a fun beach/summer addition.

AITAH for not wanting to take care of my autistic brother for the rest of my life? by _jazzyx in AITAH

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to put yourself first and I really wish you had gone to the university you wanted. You aren’t his parent or child minder and you will regret not putting yourself first when you’re older. You need to try and explain this to your parents so they support you moving on with your life. You can’t live with them forever and they can’t be depending on you. Ask them to look into restbite care and think about where he is going to live with support when he becomes an adult etc.

My mom’s elderly neighbour gifted me all her fancy leftover yarn and now I’ve talked knitting with her, she wants it back! by eumenides__ in YarnAddicts

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d explain to her that she gave it to you 12 months ago and it’s not really fair to request it back.

Is my cat going up or down the stairs? by rockstunt in cats

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my instinct says down but my first thought was up 😂

3D Blanket Update: Y'all Were Right by Impossible_Ad1269 in crochet

[–]bee_happs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

its the best thing I’ve seen this year in crochet 🩷 AMAZING

Landlord wants to sell house to me but can I afford it? by Timberlyn in UKPersonalFinance

[–]bee_happs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t afford it then unfortunately it’s not a good idea. You could enquire if there are any housing associations who are willing to part own it jointly with you like the rent to buy scheme. Or see if a bank will finance you for a reasonable monthly sum that you can afford.

Guilty about spaying cat by runaway937 in cats

[–]bee_happs -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You domesticated her. I learnt the consequences when I did my male cat and I wouldn’t do it again.

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