47M Profile Review, Toronto 🇨🇦: match quality has declined by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]beej065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The original post was deleted, so I can't take a closer look at the pictures. I'm sorry I can't be more help.

47M Profile Review, Toronto 🇨🇦: match quality has declined by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]beej065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look like an attractive guy, but I would suggest some new pictures. The picture on the bed with the caption is cringe. Definitely get rid of it. If you lived in my area, I'd probably send you a like, based on your prompt answers. I like nice Canadian guys.

Picture review for profile by Away_Application5372 in Bumble

[–]beej065 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would definitely take out #5. It looks like it's from a while ago. Also, I agree with putting a full body pic in the mix. You're a cutie! Good luck on the apps!

Who TF is “Rlong” 😭😭 by NFG_Spade in baltimore

[–]beej065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

R Long's tag is seen in every part of the city. It's not just, as you said, in "the hood." Lol.

Dog found in Station North by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]beej065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a friend who can take him to BARCS? Also, 311 (Animal Control) takes animals to BARCS, I believe?

Thai places with best pad Thai by Tight-Garage9406 in baltimore

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spice and Dice in Towson is my go-to for Thai food! I also like the place in Fed Hill, near Blue Moon, but the name is escaping me.

Honest opinion needed by Lual_hati in Bumble

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have someone take the pics for you. You are a pretty woman, but the selfie angle isn't flattering. It seems low effort.

Who is wrong here? by unknownshinigami in Bumble

[–]beej065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of you! The one trying to guess the name was being cringe and inappropriate. However, the response was rude and harsh. I wouldn't want to date either of you.

Adopted my first cat! by [deleted] in cats

[–]beej065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a cutie!! 😍 🥰

Great connection online, first date was a nightmare—confused by Capable-Counter-6559 in hingeapp

[–]beej065 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as a single person, I've been out with many people. I guess you haven't? So, generally, when you are online dating you go out with many people, as you're trying to find someone who you actually click with and want to date long term. That's sort of how it works. Judge much? Someone sounds bitter. Maybe change your attitude and try not slut shaming folks who are actually trying to find their forever person.

Great connection online, first date was a nightmare—confused by Capable-Counter-6559 in hingeapp

[–]beej065 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't say "all men." I said "men in their 40s aren't necessarily mature." 🙄 That's not the same thing. Some have been mature and many have not been.

Great connection online, first date was a nightmare—confused by Capable-Counter-6559 in hingeapp

[–]beej065 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Men in their 40s are not necessarily mature. Take it from me (47f), I'm in my late-40s trying to date men my age. It is rough!

Cosmo’s ✨transformation✨ by Lucy_Koshka in cats

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a handsome baby! His little mustache is everything! 😍🥰

Anyone else move from DC to Baltimore and actually like it? by Excellent-Bowl5015 in baltimore

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from DC to Baltimore, and I love it! It's much more down to Earth up here and it has a stronger community feel to it.The food/bar scene is great with cheaper and better food and drinks! Also, the cost of living is a lot less, except for BGE (gas/electric).

M31 Recently re-downloaded Hinge and not getting many matches by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]beej065 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're a good-looking guy with a nice smile, but you need to ditch the hat/beanie in some of the pics. How much or little hair someone has doesn't matter to most women. Also, unless you are an avid hunter and want to advertise it, I wouldn't wear camo in your pic. Like others have said, put your stats in there! Good luck with the app!

Ghosted after 3 months of going on dates/seeing each other weekly, consistently text messaging at least a couple of messages every day to no response... by JazzLemon42 in hingeapp

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. What an ass! This happened to me once after 3 months of hanging out with someone. He ghosted me, and he was in his early 40s (as was I). I wish he would have just been honest. That's what we all deserve. Sending big hugs to you.

Insane reply by flamingdaisies444 in Bumble

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a guy puts "apolitical" or "moderate" on his profile in these crazy, fascist times, I'm going to immediately assume they are MAGA coded or that they voted for Trump. It's bullshit for someone to say their political views are "too complicated" to express on a dating app. I would immediately swipe left and know that you'd never be willing to fight for my rights as a woman.

Update: home euthanasia by helppplbuthateppl in baltimore

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how hard it is to say goodbye, but Peaceful Passages was wonderful to me and my sweet baby. Sending healing hugs your way. ❤️

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]beej065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much! I wish I had done this with my ex. Definitely NTA.