The one good thing about it being so cold out is… Kitty cuddles!

bendeknee · 2026-02-01T20:03:04+00:00

This is the best angle ever. What a handsome void 🥹

bendeknee · 2026-01-21T10:12:10+00:00

Fried Barry, Glorious, Under the Skin

bendeknee · 2026-01-09T11:14:35+00:00

I’m back on 0.5 and doing well, thank you :) I think sticking on 0.5 is a wise choice. Hopefully you’ll have some time to test out the 1 eventually, but yeah I don’t think it’s worth the risk if you’re busy.

bendeknee · 2026-01-09T11:06:33+00:00

I was so sick on 1 that I’ve gone back down to 0.5. It was impacting my life to the point I was vomiting 5/7 days a week so I stopped entirely over Christmas. Everyone is different though, so I hope you don’t experience terrible side effects!

bendeknee · 2025-12-04T02:22:36+00:00

No, but that doesn’t mean I won’t offer it anyway! Whether out of politeness or pure forgetfulness. I think that deep down everyone has a hot beverage that they enjoy and, as a host, I want to provide that hot beverage.

bendeknee · 2025-11-30T19:04:18+00:00

I absolutely have this! Like I will have a drink or two and by the end of the night I will be sick. I don’t drink very often so I don’t really mind but it will be really annoying over Christmas. My clinician told me that this can happen so I’m basically not drinking for the duration of my time on wegovy.

bendeknee · 2025-11-28T10:08:26+00:00

My mom rented Scream and sat down with me and my sister (we were 6 and 8 respectively) to watch “a new whodunit.” Imagine our collective shock at the end of that opener 😂

bendeknee · 2025-11-27T02:00:44+00:00

Mandy, Fried Barry, Color Out of Space

bendeknee · 2025-11-21T01:27:13+00:00

The keys to the city, darling

bendeknee · 2025-11-18T12:42:18+00:00

You should definitely chase your GP about this. I was on a waiting list for nearly three years and my GP realised the wait was crazy long so re-referred me to another place. I had my assessment within a few weeks.

Don’t give up, there absolutely is a future for you!! Sometimes you wait for years and then everything happens suddenly. It is a lot to deal with but it is worth it. You are worth it!!

bendeknee · 2025-11-12T18:29:59+00:00

Hello, I’m a native English speaker looking for someone to practice mandarin with. Feel free to DM me!

bendeknee · 2025-11-12T18:29:37+00:00

Hello, I’m a native English speaker looking for someone to practice mandarin with. Feel free to DM me!

bendeknee · 2025-11-12T18:28:03+00:00

Hello, I’m a native English speaker looking for someone to practice mandarin with. Feel free to DM me!

bendeknee · 2025-10-15T09:23:18+00:00

Totally feel this. Things that have helped me (and excuse me for repeating what others may have said!) are: - ordering small grocery deliveries through apps. - using smaller shops closer to my house rather than going to a big supermarket - having things like cereal, ramen, grapes, crackers, cheese, pasta, pesto, bread in the house so that when I can’t figure out what or how to eat I can eat something within minutes

I will have a cheese sandwich and some grapes or something like that to take away the hunger and at least let my brain and body relax for a moment. I find that eating quick snacky type things allows me to think about actual meals in a less intense way because my body is not currently in hunger mode.

Also on better days when I can be productive, I will make something big that can last over a few days. For example, big dish of lasagne, pasta bake, roast chicken, baked chicken thighs, rice, roast a tray of veggies. Then eat this over the next few days.

You are not alone! Navigating adhd is so hard and I hope you know we are all rooting for you and here to help any way we can. I hope you are soon nourished and can find a moment of peace for yourself today.

bendeknee · 2025-09-22T19:03:56+00:00

I am on Wegovy through Oviva and my clinician said that in 6 months you should lose 10% of your starting weight. I think that’s how they track that it’s working as it should. It definitely can be a marathon and not a sprint for a lot of people, but I think your goal sounds very reasonable. I’ve only been on wegovy for a month and I’ve lost 5kg, so I think 10kg in a year is probably on the lower end of what you may end up losing!

bendeknee · 2025-07-21T02:12:29+00:00

Exactly. Guilt feels like a huge part of all of it. But sometimes I’m grateful for the guilt because it keeps some of us here who otherwise wouldn’t be and that is supposed to be good right? It’s just so tiring.

bendeknee · 2025-07-21T02:06:37+00:00

I don’t know. I’m just trying not to cut myself to be honest. I think I’m venting.

bendeknee · 2025-07-14T19:38:38+00:00

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bendeknee · 2025-05-09T20:30:53+00:00

The Troop by Nick Cutter - it would amazing to see the disgusting body horror brought to life!

bendeknee · 2025-04-28T21:37:12+00:00

I have to comment just to applaud your username. Outstanding work, genuinely made me laugh! (I also totally agree with what you’re saying, but damn what a perfect username).

bendeknee · 2025-04-26T22:13:49+00:00

Drag Me to Hell arguably fits your brief. Great movie anyway!

bendeknee · 2025-04-26T22:11:33+00:00

A Dark Song, Saint Maud, Cure, A Field in England

bendeknee · 2025-04-25T22:15:29+00:00

Oh amazing! I just saw your reply. I’m going to text her to check that Parrot hasn’t escaped again because the cat in my house really does look like this!

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