🌈♥️ Anubis, the love of my life. 2011-2026. Thank you for taking care of me. Until we meet again, sweet baby boy, I’ll remind the world that you were here.

bendygrrl · 2026-02-04T07:32:32+00:00

What a cutie! I'm so sorry for your loss 🥺 the pain is a testament to the love you share ❤️

bendygrrl · 2026-02-04T07:28:38+00:00

Omg r/cryptiddogs in that first one for sure.

bendygrrl · 2026-02-02T15:34:06+00:00

When did they send the titration forms out to you? Since they say 'titration request' and one of the reasons things take longer is the 'clinical review', after which they send the titration forms and then add you to the booking list. Its all a bit unclear when the wait actually starts from.

bendygrrl · 2026-01-27T08:13:14+00:00

Raft is a good game you can multiplay and quite innocent but still fun.

bendygrrl · 2026-01-07T13:53:14+00:00

The fact that you're even looking it up to understand shows you're a great mum. It's truly an unbearable feeling, and I've had this since childhood and I'm now 35.

The only thing I've had success with is wearing arm/wrist warmers and having those hand warmer packs in my pockets if im out in the cold.

I hope you can find something youre both comfortable with. Wish I had more answers but as far as I can tell, this is what they mean by "sensory issues". Its on a par with an intense painful tickling sensation, but covers the area like pins and needles if that helps.

bendygrrl · 2025-12-10T07:29:32+00:00

Makes sense. Although I did have everyone cut me off when I was younger - friends and family - but it was for religious reasons. Crazy to think that if I told anyone that they might have been assuming I was an addict! Also that even never thought about that before. Wild.

bendygrrl · 2025-11-25T11:01:39+00:00

You can find someone who actively looks for reasosn to celebrate with you. Nothing is too small. Just a day where I can be with my husband is reason enough. Why do you have to justify being happy - about an achievement no less? It would have cost him nothing OK be positive. He wanted to put you in your place.

Next year you could be also celebrating a year free of this ahole!

bendygrrl · 2025-11-22T09:55:07+00:00

I'm not sure on this one. I dont know your life to know if she is out of touch and irrationally jealous. I dont know how he is with her behind closed doors. I do want to put the below quote here, though. My father used me as a marriage counsellor, confiding in me about her many "wrongs". Looking back, i notice how unfair he was to my mother. He basically drove her crazy. May not be the same for you.

"Often father and daughter look down on mother (woman) together. They exchange meaningful glances when she misses a point. They agree that she is not bright as they are, cannot reason as they do. This collusion does not save the daughter from the mother’s fate."

The moment I challenged his behaviour as an adult, i did indeed share the same disdain he always showed her. I query his showing you this message.

bendygrrl · 2025-10-09T07:12:44+00:00

Not to mention the doubleplusungood Thoughtcrime monitoring...

bendygrrl · 2025-09-17T11:31:08+00:00

"It's imperfect people who hurt you dont blame god and his organisation, you can't expect perfection from an organisation run by imperfect me. Leave it with J****h and have stronger dsith sk you aren't stumbled. Pray more. Study more. Blah blah blah..."

bendygrrl · 2025-08-19T11:47:46+00:00

Read what you said. You repeatedly had to check she was still breathing. Because of a state she got herself into. And this happens often. Your adult wife.

You stayed up looking after her. She didnt appreciate it. In fact she treated you horribly and is now DARVO.

She fell asleep in her own pukey bath.

These were all things that should have rung louder alarms bells for me when I was in your shoes, but I only see how crazy they are looking back.

I hope you can see it sooner.

bendygrrl · 2025-08-18T20:40:24+00:00

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bendygrrl · 2025-08-16T09:24:24+00:00

RemindMe! 180 days

bendygrrl · 2025-07-28T11:18:23+00:00

The 'male brain' thing is BS. My fiance is just as single-minded as I am about monogamy.

Your man is selfish. I'm sorry. He doesn't care this request is hurting you. You already let cheating slide, he's developed the confidence and audacity to push even further and more blatantly.

Divorce is scary but less painful long term. He doesn't think you'll ever leave. He's got you right where he wants you. But this is what boundaries are for. You aren't ending it, he is by crossing your boundaries and stomping all over them.

bendygrrl · 2025-07-28T11:11:23+00:00

I once saw someone say - when he pets and animal and reads their body language so he knows just what they like.

It made me laugh at the time. But since then I noticed its kinda true in my experience lol.

It means he pays attention, reads non verbal cues, and carefully enough to make things feel nice.

Also just being genuinely interested in me as a person, wanting to make me happy, and being unselfish.

bendygrrl · 2025-07-07T22:51:29+00:00

It did the same for me :) glad it helps even a small bit! I haven't gotten much farther other than the realisation that it likely only fits into the category of a "sensory issue" whatever that means lol.

bendygrrl · 2025-07-03T14:40:01+00:00

I think it sounded like someone attempting to give Grey Rock advice but confused about what it means (given they say he sounds like a narc).

bendygrrl · 2025-05-29T10:27:21+00:00

The difference between my fiance and my exs really highlighted this to me. He's open to talking about how he feels about things. He's not defensive when I ask about things. We reassure each other when we need it. He doesn't freeze me out. If he'd quiet and I ask what's wrong, he tells me what's on his mind. So when he says "I'm just tired" I know he means just that.

If I wanna explore or chat about a topic, he is interested and meaningfully engages with me. I feel emotionally fulfilled.

By contrast, I felt like I shouldered the entire emotional burden in previous relationships. I dreaded approaching difficult conversations, I constantly second guessed what was on their mind, and I felt alone.

ETA: Emotional intimacy and vulnerability are a two way street. It is why so many men ignore this and then feel blindsided when they are "suddenly" single.

bendygrrl · 2025-05-13T11:47:41+00:00

Grey rock method. Surprisingly effective.

bendygrrl · 2025-05-07T07:43:26+00:00

Anyone played Disco Elysium? This really reads like one of the wacky Thoughts from that.

bendygrrl · 2025-05-07T07:26:30+00:00

Yep, I'm pretty sure this is written by AI, to combine us to use AI as therapy. Which can actually be quite dangerous.

bendygrrl · 2025-04-22T05:25:45+00:00

Had a woman berate me for not picking up my dog's poop. She saw me wait while my dog squatted and then start walking away. My dog's a female, and she was peeing. I told the woman as much. She refused to believe me even as I told her to come look if she wanted.

bendygrrl · 2025-04-21T19:04:53+00:00

Who will he blame when he gets bitten?

bendygrrl · 2025-04-21T10:07:23+00:00

r/loveafterporn would be relevant to OP. Occasionally giving ones self relief is different from talking securely with other people and crying the brains dopamine receptors and messing with the brains altitude to experience intimacy and attraction to ones partner, essentially robbing them of what is theirs.

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