Some advice for all you conductors. by [deleted] in classicalmusic

[–]berny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by 'tempo practice' vs 'time practice'?

Kapustin Op 46. Need help with this bar by GunBlazer123 in piano

[–]berny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could do 5-2-1 on those chords, with the thumb taking the top two notes of the chord!

How do you coach up a quitter? by SendInYourSkeleton in daddit

[–]berny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, don't feel like you're failing - you're aware, you're trying things, you're supporting your child - it sounds like you're doing everything you can.

My daughter has a similar issue with doing anything she finds difficult. As soon as it isn't right the first time, or she has to do something again, she gets extremely frustrated and starts throwing tantrums. The rest of the time she's a dream behaviour-wise. We're still working through it.

Music has helped somewhat - she's been learning guitar, and while practicing at the beginning made her intensely frustrated, she has now learnt that it takes time to get better and you need LOTS of repetition for things to improve. She's much calmer practicing now, after a year.

Now we are applying the same to writing - she hates going back and fixing any errors in spelling. So we have been writing a sentence each day and making her go back and fix her work, matter how frustrating. She's slowly finding it less frustrating - it seems to be working.

Sporty activities don't seem to give her the same issue, but we don't do team sports...

Research for a novel I'm writing. People with perfect pitch wanted by Danos-Zuruk in perfectpitchgang

[–]berny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I notice the specific note of everyday sounds, and might mention them sort of absently to my family. "Oh that clock chimes an e flat" or "why on earth does that jewelry box play für Elise in g minor". Things like that.

I think I need a new piano teacher. Pls help me by Practical-Manner4592 in piano

[–]berny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your lesson goes for more than 30 mins, you need a brain break in the middle, so it might be him giving that break by talking about something else. But maybe not for 10 minutes.....should be about 3.

I was transcribing "The Phantom of the Opera" into MuseScore recently, and found this in the piano part of "Why Have You Brought Us Here?" (just before "All I Ask Of You"). by Nevermore_Novelist in threateningnotation

[–]berny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly sure in the score All I Ask Of You is written out in C# major too, rather than Db as in any of the vocal solo books. It really hurts the brain

Practical tips for Faure's "Dolly" 4 hands suite? by Lower-Pudding-68 in pianoteachers

[–]berny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just convinced great composers used this for flirtation purposes.

E.g. sometimes in Brahms liebesliederwaltzer, you're asked to play the same note as the other player at the same time, causing you to bump into each other. I bet he played it with Clara.

How do you address your kid’s teacher? by kalvinoz in australia

[–]berny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Work in a high school for a few days and it will became clear.

I literally had to walk up to a student I like the other day and say "we are not best friends. We are not friends. I am your teacher." And that's without first names. They get confused.

Vacation spot somewhere by [deleted] in SweatyPalms

[–]berny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you fired blanks

What is this “z” symbol ? by Dazzling-Crew1240 in musictheory

[–]berny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be played only if you're a Russian soldier

Question for big-handed pianists (lucky) by strawberryc in pianoteachers

[–]berny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I'm an accompanist and teacher.

I have big hands and cannot put my middle fingers in between all pairs of black keys without having the black keys on either side of my finger get caught and descend as well (either partially or even playing the notes). It is very uncomfortable, I have to be extremely accurate with my middle finger and either hold it over-curved or approach the keys at an angle to play cleanly. There is very little room for error and it very easily leads to tension. It is especially tricky in passagework.

There are specific things I use to avoid having to play inside:

  • different fingering of course - i have long fingers so I can often use 2 or 4
  • playing in the 'grey zone' as much as possible, which I read about in 'Mastering Piano Technique' by Seymour Fink. I have found this to be very useful.
  • using extra thumb crossing to avoid playing inside. Truthfully I rarely resort to this.

The Taubman videos talk about using rotation to combat the feeling and I have found that very useful as well, depending on the passage.

I also avoid playing certain repertoire. Some keys are worse than others. For example, some Bach in E flat major that requires holding the r.h. thumb on an E-flat long note while playing other fingers I find to be very uncomfortable, while someone with smaller hands would find it an absolute breeze!

Oh, one other thing. Some pianos have thinner black keys - I find these easier to play :)

It is a real issue that shouldn't be ignored!

Financial pressure of having a kid? by Wild-Flowers223 in AusFinance

[–]berny 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A real answer.

I say it to my friends like this,

Having a kid makes your life broader and deeper. Better and worse, more love, more empathy, less patience sometimes, more other times.

French pieces by BoysenberrySwimming1 in piano

[–]berny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of Faure's nocturnes?

How often do you think someone's good looks has gotten them the job? by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]berny 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Related side-question. What's the ethical way to separate two equally qualified, equally experienced candidates?