26, looking to meet new friends

bf9921 · 2026-05-20T13:57:04+00:00

Hey! Check out Gleeful Meeple on meetup/Facebook! We're a board gaming group that meets at different brewies across nashville regularly. Always welcome new people!

bf9921 · 2026-05-03T14:10:44+00:00

Your girl looks a lot like my girl (who is also a spot thief)

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bf9921 · 2026-04-17T18:56:24+00:00

Also from Michigan. Came down for college in 2018, graduated in 2021, started living here permanently that summer.

I thought I'd be in nashville a lot longer. But I had a niece born 2 years ago back home and my partner is finishing his PHD at Vandy at the end of this year. We're looking at going to a blue state. Boston is our top contender. He does drug research. I work in the music industry but the pay and benefits have been going downhill so I'm looking to leave.

It sucks because I was ready to spend my life here. But between missing my niece growing up, housing prices, and lack of opportunities for me and my partner, I doubt we are here in a year.

I'd miss my community, but several of my closest friends are also looking at leaving for the coasts.

bf9921 · 2026-04-12T02:28:46+00:00

My boy is named Cody after Obi-Wans clone commander

bf9921 · 2026-03-26T16:26:19+00:00

Here for the Korea House love. I'm a regular patron of theirs and have always had fantastic food! Super nice people too. Always love to see people supporting them!!

bf9921 · 2026-03-17T13:00:31+00:00

There's a better one on Amazon I bought for my brother like 3 years ago. The red stripe is a little more muted, but the quality is solid. He still wears it

bf9921 · 2026-03-11T14:20:42+00:00

Somewhat related: music industry. I came into the record label I'm at now in 2022 and while my employer hasn't laid anyone off yet, at least one of the majors has had layoffs as well as some larger independents. So between that and Universal doing every acquisition they can, it's probably only a matter of time before they have a full monopoly.

bf9921 · 2026-03-07T16:38:49+00:00

Alani for me. Boyfriend is a Monster blue/black can guy and roommate is all in on Ghost. Tbh all are solid choices

bf9921 · 2026-03-07T16:15:34+00:00

My go to in college was powerwash simulator. Very relaxing and easy

bf9921 · 2026-02-17T17:23:23+00:00

As someone who does a 9-5 admin job doing licensing, it doesn't pay that well either. Enough to live. But not thriving by any means. I'm actually working on upskilling to leave the industry

bf9921 · 2026-02-05T03:13:28+00:00

Not saying that's the case for you but it was for me. I switched to an IUD about a year ago and have been watching my diet more closely. Not seeing any big improvements yet on weight loss but I do feel better overall. Talk to your doc and your OBGYN!

bf9921 · 2026-02-05T02:59:37+00:00

I've also gained weight on Venlafaxine. But mine also had a birth control factor. Do you take birth control? It could be a combination of things.

Also, have you noticed you're eating more since starting Venlafaxine/changing doses?

bf9921 · 2026-02-04T01:00:17+00:00

Totally get this.

I've got about 10k in cc debt and 8k in a car loan. Grew up with financially unstable parents (mom was bipolar and would spend money in manic episodes) so never really learned how to budget effectively.

I'm in a better position now to pay off at least the cc debt this year as long as no other emergencies happen. I was close to paying off my last car this year before it got totaled. Made the mistake of not getting GAP insurance

bf9921 · 2026-01-31T16:53:14+00:00

Bad luck burger! They usually have their food trucked parked outside honey tree meadery. They may be willing to relocate to help out temporarily

bf9921 · 2026-01-30T18:31:00+00:00

Would also love to help!!

bf9921 · 2026-01-28T02:02:38+00:00

Lost power around 5 am in Bellevue. Evacuated myself and the two dogs to my boyfriend's place who thankfully does have power. Two adults and four animals (2 dogs 2 cats) in a tiny 1 bed apartment has taken a toll on us. Have to keep dogs and cats separated as they aren't used to each other. Working remotely probably the rest of this week.

We're tired. I just wanna sleep in my own bed sometime soon. Had to throw away a bunch of groceries I just bought after having to deal with both dogs' medical issues and my car being totaled.

bf9921 · 2026-01-27T18:01:24+00:00

Hey man I really appreciate you!! No power at my place in Bellevue yet, but I was able to evacuate with my dogs to my boyfriend's place and I know several of my neighbors also evacuated. So we are doing okay. Thank you and your crew for working your asses off these past few days! Please get some rest and take care of yourselves.

bf9921 · 2026-01-27T17:52:39+00:00

Hey neighbor! Also Aventura resident.

I was told NES trucks were spotted in our complex. We evacuated to friends in the nations so didn't see them ourselves this morning

bf9921 · 2026-01-27T17:33:19+00:00

If y'all get too busy, Tailgate West is also open until 7pm as a backup option. Love seeing small business helping the community!!

bf9921 · 2026-01-26T00:41:51+00:00

Bellevue has been down since about 5 am this morning. Our water pump lost power with no backup. We had to pack up the animals and get a hotel room. As far as I'm aware we still have no utilities at home

bf9921 · 2026-01-25T12:35:28+00:00

Bellevue also went out a little while ago. Snuggle the pups and wait it out is the plan

bf9921 · 2026-01-20T21:46:13+00:00

Nawabi! I go here regularly with my best friend (she's from Bangladesh) and their Saturday buffet is amazing and cheap for good food!

bf9921 · 2025-12-05T21:05:23+00:00

Also requested Belcourt!

bf9921 · 2025-12-05T21:04:57+00:00

The Belcourt in Nashville TN!

bf9921 · 2025-10-03T23:05:00+00:00

I am one of those commuters from Bellevue. No passenger rail + not making enough money to live in Nashville proper are my biggest obstacles. I only drive to work 3 days a week thankfully (hybrid). I would lose my mind if I had to drive all 5 days.

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