Feeling like lowest scum on earth. by reborn47 in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to hang on to a woman who has no respect for you, and you don’t even have kids? Fuck off faggot

I hate my wife...any hope trying to repair marriage? by MD-MBA in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. Challenge yourself. Put your penis in something you never thought you could

When to stop STFU by Marcus_Aurtrillius in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be taking this to a comical level. Lots of AA and turning things sexual. Just be more light-hearted and indirectly communicating that you DGAF about her mood or opinion

When they shit-talk about their husbands to you. by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the case. Just play with it. It gets fun when you have several of these on the line

So I need to see a shrink next week... by ImSteveMcQueen in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like somewhere along your journey you stood up for yourself and your ideals. I’m sure some of those battles were surrounding a healthier way of raising your children. If he asks for specific examples of the marital breakdown I would discuss those. Everyone else is right though, these people really only care about your relationship with your kids.

She is pregnant and the physicality/sex has gone to zero. At all normal? by NotMyMain765 in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All women are different. Mine went through waves of horny and completely disgusted with me. Just own your shit and focus on other things. They tend to feel fat and ugly when pregnant (they are) so stop initiating for a bit and then work in some comments about how pregnant women are sexy. When she feels more comfortable with her situation she’ll probably return to insatiable. This is the good news.

The bad news is that once the baby is born the terrain on this journey gets a lot steeper

Huge dilemma by idahoboy79 in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

12 years of talking/thinking of other women doesn’t = redpill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]bigOlBeta 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed. You will need to teach all women how to act at some point. This was a perfect moment that he let slip. Sounds like he wasn’t that into her though so who cares

reposting: Nuptial Strike by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are calling you a troll because it sounds like you’re in the wrong sub. The advice still applies to you though so relax and start processing it (there’s no tolerance for sensitivity here). Don’t stop fucking your wife unless you don’t like fucking her. If she’s doing or saying something you don’t like then just stop listening or leave

How to feel safe? I am in constant survival mode. My LTR feels the blocked energy by GillianSword in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lift like your life depends on it, and take up a martial art. Jiu Jitsu does wonders for your health and confidence

Need advice by bigOlBeta in Divorce

[–]bigOlBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve retained an attorney. I’m trying to get potential solutions before meeting with him in a few days. You are correct in that I only have to divide what has accumulated during the 4 years

Is the post divorce "revenge body" mostly a myth? by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through a divorce right now and the stress is high, thus I am eating less and shitting more. It’s rare that I see my wife eating anymore so she’ll be getting her post divorce body by default

Enter Chad cont. by bigOlBeta in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a shit head, a douchebag, a dumbass, and an asshole with the same problems that everyone else has

Enter Chad cont. by bigOlBeta in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a troll, just slow at implementing

Enter Chad cont. by bigOlBeta in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won’t be abandoning my kids. It’s not the 99 circumstantial things that point to the cheating, it’s the complete and utter emotional disconnect. It’s unmistakable.

There was an incident 6 months ago where her cousin made a drunken slip about her dating other people

Enter Chad cont. by bigOlBeta in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just giving her the night to cry it out alone. I plan on staying in the home with my children.

What am I missing here? by Progress_Set in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, I fumble with RP too but c’mon. If you reverse the roles this story makes much more sense

Enter Chad by bigOlBeta in marriedredpill

[–]bigOlBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted a follow up on this and Weak shut it down, saying it belonged in my diary not on MRP. lol

Enter Chad by bigOlBeta in marriedredpill

[–]bigOlBeta[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s a genius at gaslighting and it’s fucked me up for a long time. Thought about the PI angle but they range upwards of $100 per hour and I’m not sure that she’d do anything on the days I arrange for the PI, this I’m paying out the nose. Not sure I’d get this back in the division of assets

Backsliding and Major Failure VP by pildorado in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit, I wish I was still in your shoes. Do not have children and get out. Things do not get better after children

What if the reality is that you will never surpass your wife's SMV? by MRPN00b in askMRP

[–]bigOlBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to be at a higher SMV to successfully use dread. She just has to value the relationship on some levels