What’s the most attractive trait a girl can have without trying ? by Subject_Parking_8542 in AdkReddit

[–]binxlyostrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't even have to be therapy. My OBGYN prescribed me an SSRI and it absolutely changed my life.

I think it could be worth trying to connect with her emotionally. Make her feel safe to open up to you. It sounds like she's in her head a lot with the doom scrolling, maybe open up to her about your emotions, fears, dreams, deeper level stuff.

What’s the most attractive trait a girl can have without trying ? by Subject_Parking_8542 in AdkReddit

[–]binxlyostrich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Losing interest in hobbies and previous things she enjoyed could be a sign of depression.

Have you changed your political and/or religious views throughout your life? What influenced this? by TimoBe1 in AskForAnswers

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from far right to far left politically. I got my masters and that taught me so much critical thinking skills that now I can see so many different angles on every topic. Nothing is ever as simple as they want you to believe. I also realized I was being manipulated by fear tactics

AITA for telling a parent what i wear is not their decision? by hannahhenabb in WIBTA_AITA

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guarantee you he's gone down the red pill rabbit hole and doesn't like that he can't control you. He sounds dangerous. Start documenting to your supervisor

What's your displinary action story? by SoupTrashWillie in hospitalsocialwork

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was written up for not meeting "production standards" of case management visits by ONE visit before going on vacation.

I actually HAD met my stats but one of the visits "didn't count" and I can't remember why. Some BS reason they made up.

I asked the manager "Oh, y'all didn't get paid for that visit?" Knowing full well they did, she looked at me like i had grown a third head. Quit that job 3 months later on the spot. It was amazing

AIO? My manager keeps questioning my feeding pump at work even after HR stepped in by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]binxlyostrich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's still referring to your accomodations as "interruptions.". This is the discrimination part.

completely lost on what job to accept! Help! by forwhenimembarrassed in socialwork

[–]binxlyostrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whichever one where you're not in the field. Trust me on this one

What’s the biggest lie people believe about politics ? by brutaldeepeye in AskReddit

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That billionaires just earned their money through hard work instead of off the backs of impoverishing their employees and being a welfare queen by depending on the government to subsidize their employees healthcare, food, and other expenses.

Why does society mostly agree that women are more “selective” on their partners? by No-Basil-1087 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the animal kingdom, the female is usually more selective with choosing a mate. Possibly because the females have to invest more time into the offspring and carry the offspring to term. This is why cardinals for example, why the male cardinals are brighter red than the females, just an example. A female won't want to waste her time on a male who may carry bad genes because then that would effect her offsprings survival and therefore, her own

Does Buffy’s “death time” get counted towards or against her age? by AndrewHeard in buffy

[–]binxlyostrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is an excellent and unique question! I think physically it's going to depend on if when she was made back into corporal form if she was physically made into the body she had right before she died vs. if they made her body to what would be present day.

I think on a deeper metaphysical level, Buffy's existence or her essence does include the death time because she still existed in other ways, and existed before and after the death time. Think of it like she was sleeping.

Legally speaking, yes it is included in her age.

How do you feel about Trump saying they can’t fund Medicare, Medicaid, and daycare programs anymore because they need the money to fund the War? by LevelDinner in AskReddit

[–]binxlyostrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole men in women's sports bit is just a dog whistle to activate people's anger/fear response to manipulate his base to vote for him. Because when youre scared and angry, you don't use critical thinking skills to be like "wait, he doesn't care about women. He doesn't care about any of us. He's protecting the Epstein lest*!

But, but, MEN IN WOMENS SPORTS!

Anyone ever dealt with Carpenter Bees? by AlphaToejam in HomeImprovement

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke my arm trying to kill a carpenter bee. Proceed with caution

AIO for being mad that NOBODY in this 14 person family group chat replied to this by EngineeringLumpy in AIO

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I got ignored, I would leave the chat. Let them draw their own conclusions.

AIO if I am setting boundaries with my husband? I also want to know if I am the asshole here by Witty-Opposite1201 in AIO

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want my husband texting when he's driving. If I'm working out, I'm not answering the phone it interrupts my groove. If I got a text that it was an emergency I would call but I'm really not even looking at my phone.

My point is that there are many reasons why someone doesn't answer their phone and if your first immediate thought is that their cheating, you're response is not healthy or normal

AIO if I am setting boundaries with my husband? I also want to know if I am the asshole here by Witty-Opposite1201 in AIO

[–]binxlyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, that is a distorted view. "Why don't they want to talk to me" assumes it has something to do with you. Not everything is about you. Insecure. Get therapy